Anxiety Creates False Urgency.

Anxiety creates false urgency.

You don’t have to figure out and solve everything right now.

You can’t.

Life is too complex.

Pick one thing. Maybe the most challenging thing and pick away at one part of it. Maybe the least challenging thing to get something out of the way. Maybe no things at all, just make a note on your phone or stick a post-it somewhere to remind you of things another time.

You got this.

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3 years ago

♡Who is your Future Partner/Spouse♡

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💘Welcome to the first in The future spouse series💘

If you want to calculate your vedic chart and d9/Navamsa chart, go to farfaraway.com. generate both charts from there.-> go to my vedic astrology master list and find out how to read north indian vedic chart if you want to know about your future spouse traits.

I believe the following vedic ones to be the most apt and are always accurate. Try to find patterns across both systems.

This is made for first spouse. Read accordingly for other partners if you want. 2nd house is 2nd spouse, 9th house is for 3rd spouse. Same for UL take 8th house from first UL for second spouse.

All knowledge and understanding of @notanastrologer.

☠️THIS POST IS UNAVAILABLE FOR PLAGIARISM, COPYING, STEALING TRANSLATING, AND REWORDING. If you learn from this and pose as your finding, that’s stealing, because it’s not “general knowledge.” ☠️

Credit the work, if you must.

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♡Who Is Your Future Partner/Spouse♡
♡Who Is Your Future Partner/Spouse♡

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2 years ago

Happy Fathers Day to Fitzchivalry Farseer, the man who is both obsessed with being a father to replace the family that abandoned him and ends up neglecting all of his actual kids in various ways because he isn’t remotely emotionally equipped to raise a child

7 years ago

Parktown Themes

#1

Did you ever had an experience where you wanted to say something, but afraid you'll be hurt?

We've all been there. I tell you right now, Let out your feelings. Tell them what you feel, from the bottom of your heart. Don't keep your feelings inside a bottle that you know you'll never open. Now you ask me, what about the consequences?

If I do this, will my feelings be hurt from what I will do? Oh, sweetie. It will. It will and it will hurt badly. But if you say what you want to say, you'll be free from the bottle you kept to yourself.

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3 years ago

7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE

Everyone this is just a general idea and other houses and aspects of your charts affect too. Also most of it is inspired by faraway.com’s blog please do check their youtube channnel and blog out. They both are so amazing. I have watched a lot of their videos to understand vedic astrology. Here is the link teheee.

https://www.farfaraway.co

7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE
7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE

HOW TO FIND IN WHICH PLANET IS YOUR 7 HOUSE LORD AND IS IN WHICH HOUSE?

7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE
7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE

Like in the chart above 7 house is in Pisces and Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Jupiter is in the 11 house. Therefore the 7 lord is in 11 house.

ARIES(1) AND SCORPIO (8)- MARS

TAURUS(2) AND LIBRA(7)- VENUS

GEMINI(3) AND VIRGO(6) - MERCURY

LEO(5) - SUN AND CANCER(4) - MOON

CAPRICORN(10) AND AQUARIUS (11) - SATURN

SAGITTARIUS (9) AND PISCES ( 12) - JUPITER

7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE
7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE

7 HOUSE

7 house is related to marriage, spouse, relationship, business partnerships and the kind of people you attract.

SUN AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Sun as the lord of the seventh house will attract authority figures in your life. So your spouse would be an authority figure, would be independent, confident and influential. The spouse would be working in a leadership role/ type of a life-giver of some kind e.g. businessperson, a govt official or a politician. You are going to get inspired and influenced by your spouse in a significant way although you are bound to get into a power struggle with your spouse at some point. You might also have an ego clash. If you handle it with maturity it won't be an issue.

MOON AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Moon as the lord of the house will attract a motherly as in a very emotional figure in your life. So your spouse would be very sensitive and emotional and would have a strong emotional bond with you. You would feel very warm and comfortable in the company of your future spouse.

MERCURY AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Mercury as the lord of the seventh house will attract intellectuals. So your spouse would be a good orator and the relationship would be built on good communication and sharing of ideas. The spouse would be like a friend to you, would be social, and would be really good at business. Could be good at writing and very sensible overall.

VENUS AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Venus as the lord of the seventh house will attract love and affection from others and especially from your spouse. Your spouse would be very pleasant to talk to, would know how to make people smile and would give out compliments. Very romantic spouse with great potency.

MARS AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Mars as the lord of the seventh house will attract a lot of competition from others. The spouse would be self-driven, goal-oriented, passionate and a bit masculine. The spouse would stand by you like a pillar. You would feel pushed in the relationship but that would make you a strong person. Maybe short-tempered. May be a very quick decision-maker. Would sure be very passionate.

JUPITER AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Jupiter as the lord of seventh house will attract people who have a broad perspective on life. So, your spouse would be well educated, well informed, well traveled or someone who has had many different experiences in life. The spouse would be a good and strategic planner. You would find a mentor, a guide and a teacher in your spouse and so the chemistry you share with your spouse is similar to that of teacher-student. Could be a bit strict about religion and very spiritual.

SATURN AS THE LORD OF 7 HOUSE

Saturn as the lord of seventh house will attract people who have a serious outlook on life. So your spouse would be someone who is senior to you in age or mature in life. Resilience and persistence would be your spouse’s greatest attributes. May have very good self-control and a strong sense of duty. A very sincere and faithful spouse. Could also have great endurance.

7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE
7 HOUSE LORD AND YOUR SPOUSE
7 years ago
Uni Was Fun Today

Uni was fun today

3 years ago

seems that Chrome has around 60-65% market share, so it’s not totally dominating the market yet but it’s worrying that we’re basically reliant on Apple and Microsoft to hold the line.

4 years ago

what about some keener where they’ve been dating for a while and harley discovers peter has major feminization+praise+degradation+choking kinks so he uses it to like...his full advantage?? btw you are so great like 💙💙 bih you great... (how could you even have a degradation AND praise kink tho lol)

(TW: degradation, feminization, minor choking, minor d/s elements)

I love this and I love you and you’re fucking great 💖 (and also, thank you for being so patient as my disaster ass works slowly through my inbox.) I am here to tell you that you can definitely have both a degradation and praise kink, and it’s hecking awesome ;) The two totally amplify one another. Imagine: Just being utterly put down and degraded. Feeling humiliated, verging on the brink of tears, and so, so on edge. It’s borderline too much. And then, Daddy turns it right the fuck around – runs a soft hand through your hair and strokes your cheek, and murmurs, ‘good job, sweetheart.’ BOOM. REST IN PIECES.

But allow me to illustrate further:

It’s subtle in the beginning, but Harley’s smart, if anything. Peter can only blush so many times at the occasional light-hearted teasing – at being called ‘Princess’ and ‘girly’ and all the other gently mocking names Harley can’t help but occasionally drop. Harley notices how, when he treats Peter a certain way, the boy gets just that much more desperate, that much whinier and glazed in the eyes, that much more frantic in his movements as he tries to fuck down on Harley’s cock. He notices how Peter’s pulse quickens, how he cums harder when Harley has his hands close to Peter’s throat.

And, Harley notes how Peter lights up when he’s gifted with kind words. Poor boy loves both extremes.

(Luckily, Harley knows just what to do with that knowledge.)

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7 years ago

if anyone is sad

here is a game where you’re a giraffe and you stretch your neck to kiss other giraffes 

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here is a game where you’re a bunny trying to jump on bells during winter 

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here is a game where you try jumping to make the ladybugs around you fly away 

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here is a game where you collect blue birds and fly together 

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here is a game where you try to land on cars while flying about with an umbrella 

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here’s a whole website full of cute games like the ones listed above!

7 years ago

Maybe I’m a little Dangerous (Maybe Love is Too)

(MafiaBoss! Yoongi x Reader)(Soulmate Au)

Summary: Rare soulmate marks don’t guarantee that you find your soulmate easily, and when your soulmate is the head of a mafia, being together will never be easy either…

Tags: Torture, Gore, Mafia! Yoongi, killer! Yoongi hurt/comfort, fluff, insecure! reader, self-hate, soulmate AU, fluff, coffee shop au! happy ending, 

Wordcount: 4.3k

Authors note: god this took me way too long to write, and I have a feeling that people will like this one less as well because its so long D: but I didn’t want to sit on this for any longer! hope you like it!

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People have soulmate tattoo’s for different reasons

Some have flowers that bloom according to their other halves emotions

 Some have abstract maps or their soul mates favorite things (like piano keys or artists splashes of color.

Some soulmarks change and others don’t, some get colored when the other person starts to love you or get larger the closer you get to your soulmate.

There are rare types of soulmate marks though.

You don’t have your mark yet, and you wonder if you’ll have flowers or maybe moon phases on your legs like some other people do.

You’re so excited- but then you get yours…

You wake up one morning and raise your hands to brush the sleep out of your eyes to find your hands black and pattered with crisscrossing geometric lines and harsh diamonds of black over your knuckles.

 Every inch of your hands from your wrists onwards is patterned in harsh black lines almost like a pair of gloves.

And it never changes. Never gets an ounce of color. Never shifts to a different pattern.

And so you go to forums to try and figure out what your soulmate mark means because you’ve never met anyone with a mark like yours. 

And that’s when you learn that there is a very rare type of soulmark, usually only one color, where one half gets a mark on their body in the location that the others hates the most on their own body.

So from what you gather- your soulmate hates their hands.

And your heart sinks because you will never be able to explain it to them when you meet them.

Because you hate every inch of yourself.

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3 years ago

Witchy Study Sessions

Welcome to the second post in my witchcraft x studying series! My first post received lots of positive attention so I decided to keep it going!!!

In this post I'll discuss different herbs, incense, fruits, flowers, stones, etc you can use to help you out when you study! Feel free to use this list to help in the creation of spells (if you do, I'd love to hear all about your spells!!), meditation, etc!

Herbs:

Rosemary: the arguably most common and popular herb in witchcraft. It has been used for a very long time for a ton of reasons, making it extremely versatile. This herb is used commonly to help with memory, focus, and concentration making it amazing for study sessions! You can put in in your tea, cakes, breads, salads, whatever you like! Not only are it's metaphysical properties versatile, it's mundane uses are too! It's used everywhere from skincare to medicines to decoration and pest repellent.

Allspice: that one herb everyone has in their cabinet but doesn't know quite what to do with it! This is typically used more commonly for money, but luck, prosperity, and energy are all things anyone going to classes definitely needs. Perfect in baked goods, drinks, incense, sprinkled in wax warmers, and used in sauces and soups, this makes application of this herb for your studies almost limitless!

Bay: got a big test coming up and just need a little pinch of good luck? Throw some bay leaves in your bag! These are very popular for wishing, luck, and that little extra push! Also very amazing in the kitchen. You can also hang them over your desk or put them in your drawers. A popular way of using them is writing what you want on the leaf and then burning it.

Chamomile: every witch's best friend. These are super easy to get and very common, so it's perfect for even the closet witches! Finals week is one of the most useful times for these gorgeous flowers. Don't like the taste? Use them as decoration or in a bouquet! Sprinkle the flowers around your room or in a little jar. They also make Chamomile incense!

Cinnamon: My personal favorite (I add this to almost everything). It's amazing for luck, success, energy, and amplifying energy. Hell, they even make cinnamon gum. With the element of fire, it also tends to have a faster effect than other herbs.

Frankincense: AMAZING for concentration. Burning it also impacts ion channels in the brain that can help alleviate anxiety, which is why you have that mystical kind of feeling in a church while they burn it. It is a slight psychoactive because of this.

Ginger: nervous? Have some ginger! This herb is used even medically to help calm you down. Best part is that it is delicious! Super easy to use without anyone suspecting anything. I add it to my Ramen all the time.

Grass: I know what am I thinking? But have you just laid in some grass and felt calm? Read a book sitting in some and then able to talk all about it? Grass is amazingly magical. It increases focus, concentration, and brings a sense of calmness with it.

Lemon balm: very commonly used to help with anxiety and depression! Need I say more?

Fruits and Veggies:

Acorn: these little guys are absolutely adorable, in season, and perfect for studying! They bring luck, wisdom, and bring out your personal power. Just pick one up and carry it along with you to give you that extra oomph! Did you know that you can also make flour from them? Their flesh is 100% edible. You can even boil them too!

Broccoli: this is a great veggie for growing and being strong just like your mama told ya. It's also great to help balance life as well. Cook it, grow it, chop it up and dry it to powder it, whatever! It's very potent magic. Just be careful! Bitter plants tend to also be able to cause the opposite if used in large quantities in spells (A superstitious belief of mine anyways).

Cabbage: Good luck! Always need more of it so eat your cabbage! Don't like how it tastes? Get some red cabbage and marinade it in some lime juice and salt and add it to a salad or serve with dinner. I promise vegetables aren't bad, they just need seasoning. Bonus points if your seasoning amplifies the energies you want.

Celery: the Allstar veggie! Perfect for stress, tiredness, fatigue, and brain fog. Gnawing on a few sticks tastes great and is healthy. The crunch can really help reduce stress and calm your brain down. But you can also bake it, put it in salads, use the seeds, grow it, etc.

Orange: the praises of this fruit are well sung so I won't beat a dead horse here.

Pumpkin: the king of the season, this baby is amazing at bringing good vibes and pushing you towards success! Plus it smells amazing and is super festive up until winter. You can even paint them to bring some color magic into it!

Strawberry: what better fruit to bring about success, fortune, and favor than this gorgeous beauty? Absolutely delicious, very abundant, and just a pure, helpful energy all around. Use in smoothies, desserts, salads, breakfast, syrups, glazes, sugars, snacks, etc. A gorgeous fruit with an amazing energy. What else could you want?

Flowers:

Carnation: Got too much on your plate? These flowers of motherly love are here to help! Often used for that energy, they can also help ease anxiety and provide some balance to a chaotic life much like a mother can calm her screaming baby to sleep. Best part is these flowers are also edible. The petals are sweet and tender and can be used in all sorts of dishes from desserts to salads to even wines!

Iris: The ultimate power flower with a need to get done attitude. Big project? Need some creative help? Can't focus? Brain fog? You name it, this flower can help! These plants are mildly toxic to humans and toxic to pets so don't let anyone eat them please.

Honeysuckle: With a flower that smells so sweet, how could it not make things better? This flower is great for extra confidence, success, and luck. And it's a very common perfume scent making these magical boosts super easy to get!

Lilac: Amazing for more than just flirting and banishing, it also helps aide memory. Have some of these flowers around you while you study or rehearse to help you remember the small details!

Orchid: this is a no nonsense flower that will bring you focus, concentration, and elegance. Their energy is very strong and their colors are many, making it super easy to customize these to fit your needs!

Rocks:

Agate: with properties like courage, confidence, and strength, these beautiful rocks make amazing and beautiful energy beacons for studying. They also are used a lot in jewelry and art pieces so they are very accessible and easy to disguise!

Amethyst: this stone is like rosemary in the sense that people say it can do anything. Let it bring calmness and sleep on those anxious nights.

Pyrite: this stone isn't just for money, but also for success, luck, focus, and confidence. Carry some around with you to classes to help you focus and be more confident about answering questions.

Yellow flourite: Honestly one of the best stones to help fight fatigue and burn out. It helps clear your body and remove stress. Pair with a positive stone like amethyst to help recharge yourself and get back on your feet.

Yellow topaz: absolutely gorgeous stone with such positive energy. This stone will help you with your confidence and luck as well as look amazing with almost anything!

Other misc. Items:

Dirt from your school: This is an amazing spell item for all sorts of reasons. It brings school energy with you. But it also helps with memory, focus, knowledge, and overall studying.

Paint: paint itself can help invite creativity, overcome road blocks, and provide inspiration. Pair that with the ability to add color magic into it so easy, you have a very potent spell item. This is also a great one for closet witches as no one is going to even think about witchcraft if you're playing with paint.

Pennies: not just for graveyards! These little guys can also bring you good luck!

Shark teeth: Need a confidence boost? Keep some Shark teeth on ya. They are not only super cool, but also very common and popular.

Incense:

Angelica: This is amazingly calm but also great for bringing new understanding. If you're stuck on a topic and just can't get it, try burning some Angelica incense and try again.

Basil: This delicate but almost earthy scent can help with retention, focus, enthusiasm, and mental clarity. This is one you typically can only find combined with other scents.

Bergamot: Pulling an all nighter? The coffee isn't quite cutting it? Try burning some bergamot incense to help keep you alert and keep your mind active. It can also make you feel more confident and ready to take on this class!

Cardamom: this is great if you don't like the smell of bergamot which can be kind of intense.

Sage: remove that stress and heavy energy after failing a test and replace it with a much friendlier, happier energy.

Rain: this is another great option to help alleviate stress especially if you don't like the smell of sage! It's much calmer and more relaxing.

Clove: a great option for long study sessions, this incense really helps with focus and memory, as it was a very warm, earthy smell to it. It also helps in grounding and concentration exercises.

Eucalyptus: a very calming and relaxing incense, this is great if you're stressing over finals or a big project. It will help calm you down while also increasing your focus.

Lemongrass: this is the almighty incense for studying. It helps fight fatigue, increase focus and concentration, promotes stress relief, and helps memory.

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