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SO EXCITED TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS THIS TIME:)

Soulmates huh?

i hope the anonymous person who sent the "i used to live in your house. i'm drunk in boston and it's the only address i know. happy holidays" postcard is aware that they wrote my favourite poem

i hate having to make the same post again because my last one got 0 notes and my abuser has officially arrived. there's no way out of this for me and the only thing i can really do to avoid him is stay in my room and come out when he's out

please please please if you can spare ANYTHING i need to have food and water in my room, food for my cats too :( he will hit my cats if i don't keep them in my room while he's around, he has threatened me with that several times. my little brother allowed me to use his paypal as to not give away my own deadname, since it's not as dangerous for him to do that as it is for me. of course please don't call him by his deadname regardless

paypal.me/piisces

i'm not in need of great sums, my current goal is 30€ which will keep me covered in the coming days, help an unemployed autistic trans lesbian out if you can :( even reblogs mean the world to me

woo!!! its beautiful, i would love to see more fanart like this!

Still tired. Random Grian in a dress dancing

Enjoy

This won't be the last time, even if he died we still need to remember him, keep the memory alive, and charish the time of both joy and grief we had with him.

for one last time blood for the blood god

As a disabled user i have tried this many times, but that is a myth and may insted trigger the drowning debuff.

i don't get why people are scared of dying. you do know you can just disable it in the accessibility settings, right?

A response, i guess

Alright so I saw this pretty shit post recently, and I cant help but say I'm a little pissed. I will not be sharing the name of the blog that posted this, as i do not wish for them to be harassed.

So here's my response.

An open letter to you who wrote this.

"Hating endos is lame, hate on us instead ! We’re a DID system that believes people shouldn’t have to have their own entry in the DSM5 to be respected , apparently a controversial opinion these days !"

So though i agree in part that hate is lame as all hell, i do believe that listening to science is more punk than throwing it out the window. Yes system diversity is important as a working point in the community, it is still important to listen to the science.

Though some may not fit the diagnostics 100% doesn't mean they aren't valid that is true, but even so, there have been no scientifically supported exception to one. trauma is a necessary part, and the mind cannot and will not fracture like this without it, that should be without dispute.

"Being unapologetically plural is punk, ESPECIALLY if you don’t fit the “scientific” idea of what a real system should be."

You are right that science is not all inclusive, but i will say being anti science seems pretty conservative for a self proclaimed punk. but asides from cheap digs like that, id really recommend reading a couple scholarly articles if you are ever in doubt of the science, there is a lot to learn, and a lot left to be learnt.

"Systems should support other systems regardless of where we come from. The world doesn’t understand us and they don’t want to have to understand us, if we want to have a future where we are proudly and loudly ourselves we have to work together to make it."

Yes systems should absolutely support each other, and i do feel we fight too much sometimes. And no. the world does not understand us, but that does not mean it is ok to spread misinformation. Im sure you do this with good intention, and i too do my part with good intention. but we are fundamentally opposed, and i do not wish to support endos in a journey for recognition.

Some may genuinely have it, i do believe that, and others may be suffering from something else, so similar it may be difficult to know the difference, but i do not believe that they can be systems without trauma.

"I have to fight to be accepted as gay, i have to fight to be accepted as polyamorous, I have to fight to be accepted as trans, I have to fight to be accepted as non human, I have to fight to be accepted as autistic, I have to fight to be accepted as plural."

A lot of us have fought those same battles, i at least have, and a lot of systems still fight for this, and i do not believe that it should be a thing everyone goes through. And we still fight to accept ourselves in this, But i do not support endos fight for recognition. But i will fight with all i have to get them the help they need, because a lot of them do desperately need help. and i think that the fight to give them a support system and help is much more punk than this fight to support misinformation.

"I do not want anyone to have to fight me to be accepted as who they are, I want to fight alongside them because we’re fighting the exact same battle and it’s hard enough without us stabbing each other in the backs."

There is absolutely too much backstabbing in these communities. And i am willing to fight here alone to get them help, im not saying here that they aren't systems, some may very well be and have forgotten the trauma, but i do not wish to stand beside them in a fight against science. Im sure we'll all know more in the future with more studies made, and maybe itll turn the view on systems upside down, but until then i stand with the science, and with those that want and need help.

sciencedirect.com

Childhood trauma in patients with Dissociative Identity Disorder: A systematic review of data from 1990 to 2022: Psychotraumatisme dans l'en

Le trouble dissociatif de l'identité (TDI) est une altération de l'identité et de la mémoire caractérisée par des changements cognitifs, émo

I do though want to mention lastly that as per the dsm-5 trauma is not noted as a criteria for diagnosis, and thus i am open to read articles of exception to this rule if they can be provided from credible sources.

I will also ask that if ever i said something incorrect i hope youll tell me and ill do my best to make amends. Please do also feel free to share your opinion, id like to hear more perspectives, and learn the faults of my own.

Well wishes.

-Kody, and a very tired system

haven’t posted art in a while because of motivation and what not but here’s a thing

Hello I love your pfp

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Aw thanks:D

Hes naked

My frog is *naked*

This is a blatent affront to humanity as a whole and im frankly insulted

Heres him next to a more socaly acceptable peer

Such behaviour as this should not be accepted and he will be beheaded immediately.