It's Very Often Far Easier To Care For Others:

It's very often far easier to care for others:

It's Very Often Far Easier To Care For Others:

than to be the one to receive care:

It's Very Often Far Easier To Care For Others:

The latter is often scarier; you feel a lot more exposed and vulnerable. And it doesn't require competence. It requires that you just "be" and sit with the emotions, some of which can be in waves, very foreign, and difficult to handle. Whereas when you're looking after someone, you at least feel a sense of control and that you're achieving something.

Many abused kids would rather believe they themselves are bad or not good enough:

It's Very Often Far Easier To Care For Others:

than believe their caregiver has wronged/violated them and will continue to do so:

It's Very Often Far Easier To Care For Others:
It's Very Often Far Easier To Care For Others:

It's less frightening to believe you are unlovable than believe your parent/guardian does not show you love.

The latter would be too much to handle and would change their world in an instant once they entertain such a belief. Too much to handle, maybe till they're as ready as they may be.

Perhaps all this is what Season 3 might look into, since it'll surely be exploring the Grimwalkers and Caleb further, which inevitably links back to Hunter. His trust is healing in that he can be there for Gus and his friends. But will he receive more and more love as he looks deeper into his pain?

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i really like that c!tommy is allowed to be a little shit and a bit of an asshole who scams and fights and questions authority and lashes out and makes mistakes but also it’s well understood that he has a heart of gold? that he tries his best? that he loves his friends? that he feels lost and alone and hurt and he’s not just destructive because he’s “immature” or for the fucking fun of it, but because he had to learn how to survive? that he feels like he has the weight of the world on his shoulders and everyone who was supposed to look out for him left him behind? that he genuinely wants to be good? he has a very quintessential growing up story and i love it so much. it’s important to me that c!tommy is allowed to be imperfectly a kid — clumsy, mean, loud, scared, angry — and also shown to be incredibly big-hearted and brave and human. his character sends the message of “just because you’re a kid who fucks up sometimes, doesn’t mean you aren’t deserving of love.” and “teenagers can be dicks sometimes but that doesn’t mean they don’t care about things or try to be good.” like he can be an Annoying Teenager and also full of love. that coexists. and i think that’s epic.

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