Ares is often summarised as the god of dumb war. I don’t feel that’s entirely accurate. Ares is the god that represents the passion of war. The rage, and despair, and love that goes into war.
Incidentally this is the exact sort of war that goes on in a litter of puppies as they play fight with eachother.
In conclusion: ares is the god of puppies
sometimes I see old shiftoks like " 10 reasons you aren't shifting " nd one of them is " stop being so obsessed with your dr! Seriously you're acting like a little kid! " WRONG! Be excited! It's your reality, & that won't stop you from shifting 🫶
I feel like when people get into deity work, deity worship or anything deity related we all kinda think that we NEED to communicate with them, we NEED to do tarot cards with them, we NEED to reach out and actively work with them. But I feel like that's not it. Yes, you can communicate with them if you and them want to. Yes, you can do tarot cards with them. Yes, you can actively work with them, but you don't HAVE to. I think you can also just light their candle, give them an offering and just spend 20 minutes or however long you want listening to music with them and just chatting to them about whatever is on your mind and they won't mind it. Because you are putting in the effort and your time to be with them even if it's not doing any of the things you see a lot of pagans and witches do on tiktok.
Did any other aroace people not care about love. Like love and relationships were nothing to you until like primary school or high school where people started to talk about crushes and then the pressure hit you? Because I remember before all that I couldn't have care less and I know I'm aroace now but because of all those pressures it's hard to let go of the idea of having a relationship and a partner? Like I've become obsessed over it even though i'm aroace and know that at one point I didn't care about it. Maybe it's just me.
You don't need to have a method(s) to shift. You don't need affirmations. You don't need a subliminal. You just need you.
If methods, affirmations, and subliminals help you, then go head and use it. I'm not going to judge. (Methods and affirmations help me).
Just know you don't NEED it. Not having it won't stop you shifting. Just breathe and do whatever is comfort and feels right to you. Just don't let anyone tell you that you NEED something to shift.
"She was playing in a roaring river. She had chosen to stay, she believed it was the right choice. But it didn't make this any easier."
thinking about all the aromantic people who died thinking they were broken. thinking about all the aromantic people who died settling for "at least I care about this person". thinking about all the aromantic people that died without ever being able to know why they couldn't reciprocate the feelings of anyone, men, women, people of other genders and more. thinking about all the aromantic people that died being called sluts that never found the right person to marry. thinking about all the aromantic people that died that had to tell themselves that it was fine, they were fine, this marriage will be okay and it will be for the future of their lineage, while crying themselves to sleep every night. thinking about all the aromantic people that died that we will never know about, because being aromantic isn't even close to a possibility in the mind of society at large. because love is supposed to be the force that saves everything. because love is supposed to bring everyone together. because to love is human.
Reminder to drink and eat something today! No matter how busy you are, no matter what has happened today or yesterday, you deserve to feed and energise your body. So please take out at least five minutes of your time, put everything away, or even watch a mukbang video so you're not eating alone and have a refreshing drink and meal. Love you!
༊*·˚ i love shifters.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who post storytimes & edits.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who are private about their drs.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with novel length scripts.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who don’t script.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who have shifted.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who haven’t shifted.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who try every night.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who haven’t tried in a while or are on a break.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with s/o’s.
༊*·˚ i love shifters without s/o’s.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who write scenarios and self-inserts.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who don’t write scenarios.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with a million drs.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with one dr.
༊*·˚ i love fem shifters.
༊*·˚ i love masc shifters.
༊*·˚ i love androgynous shifters.
༊*·˚ i love shifters of all shapes and sizes.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who doubt.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who have been trying for years.
༊*·˚ i love you all.
shifting is literally so enlightening to me because i've never felt like i belonged in this reality ever since i was a child. i was always craving something... more. now i know why, i was meant to shift, i was never meant to stay in this reality. i get that with LOA i can definitely assume that i belong in this reality but i honestly don't want to. i don't want to stay in this reality any longer. i don't want to force myself to fit in a reality that i know deep down that i do not belong. where i truly belong is in my main drs and drs.
you heard of the "refer to your dr self in first person instead of talking like it's somebody else."
now may I present to you: "referring to your cr self in third person" to detach from this reality.
I'm not involved in this bitch's life anymore, I'm leaving.