You need to find someone,” they say. “There is someone out there for you to make you happy!” They promise. “Look for your other half,” they chant. Am I half a person? Am I not enough as I am? Can I not depend on myself for my own happiness? I can enjoy music on my own. I can laugh and sing and dance on my own. “Poor thing, still alone?” They murmur. I don’t always want to be alone, you know. But I know I’m not incomplete. I am happy being who I am, and only I drive myself to be a better version of myself. I have found solace in the silence, and peace in my quiet thoughts. I wonder if the ones who beg me to find someone never had that, and I am sorry for them.
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i find the idea of platonic soul mates so fucking amazing, like imagine finding someone who you feel complete with but you don’t have to worry about losing them to messy romance because they’ll be your best friend forever instead
Only you can decide if you want to come out. Personally I don't foresee myself coming out to my parents unless my aromatism becomes an issue with them. But at 27 they haven't really pushed the issue of my complete lack of relationships. I have told a few friends but no one has really given me grief. I don't make a big deal of sexuality irl.
no ones paying attention to me anyways so i doubt people will answer me but?? are u supposed to tell people ur asexual?? or like come out to ur parents as asexual?? or no one care?? idk!! or what about demisexual too??
I swallow so many words I want to say, I'm not hungry at the end of the day
Social events with friends are slowly turning into a study in frustration and loneliness. An evening with friends now include their partners. Don't get me wrong they are great people (the partners); but a girl can only accept witnessing so many public displays of affection before she feels really uncomfortable and fairly ignored. I've even been skipped on the invitation list because I would arrive unattached. Worse, friends have canceled plans with me because their partner has suddenly become available. I thought I felt loneliness before but this is a whole new level.
I… I’ve got something in my eye…
my friend told me to watch this cooking video while listening to sad music. so i mixed a little something for you all
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I'm 27 and finally found out I'm different...not broken, go figure
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