saw this very [ben affleck depressed smoking image] comment and thought why does blue job / pink job sound like an established concept so I looked it up.....
what's next?? having a bank account is a blue job đđŠâșïž not being legally recognised as a person in your own right is a pink job đ©·đ„°đ
by the way if men seriously âcanât help itâ and âcanât stop himselfâ from sex offending in literally any scenario, he should be put down like an uncontrollable animal
Iâm not the one who compared Trans People to shifters, you opened up the idea that your ideas of the world are ridiculous enough that they should by default ally with you because weirdos got to stick together. Both you and most Radfems believe trans peopleâs existence should be treated more sincerely than that, the comparisons were calling that bluff.
Itâs worth noting here that youâre making a transmedicalist argument and I wonder if you actually are one of the ones left or itâs one of those cases where itâs more convenient to say itâs what you believe. If you believe that the definition of transgender should be related to actually physically engaging in the medical activity of transitioning to gain traits related to the opposite sex instead of just saying, âthis is the thing that I amâ than youâre correct that the therian argument is not applicable. I think itâs useful to have a name for the class of people who were and are oppressed on the basis of possessing a body with a layout to produce large gametes, that is a group of people who exist and are at risk for further violence on the basis of this reproductive role. As this role is called âfemaleâ in every other mammalian context, I think Female Human is a fine term for them. If transmedicalists want to keep woman to mean âAnyone with secondary sex characteristics that resembles the other sexâ, they can do that but all things considered in 2025, I doubt the value in denying the existence of primary sex characteristics entirely. I also donât see the value in separating prisons based on secondary sex characteristics.
maladaptive daydreaming is more real than gender identity, and itâs a-okay to tell people to kill themselves
honestly - TERF arguments are entirely horseshit. they donât care about science, they donât really care about womenâs safety. itâs a regressive alt right movement in the garb of a feminist
⊠Tbh it feels weird to judge any female celebrity for being mediocre while males get to be as boring as they want and make millions from it (and get to be the ones in charge of the industry at large)
wild how many "karen gets karma" and "karen is put in her place" videos there are on youtube top results, yet so few incel equivalents. just "what incels believe", "the world of incels", "why incels exist". why do men with awful beliefs get analysis videos, explanations, understanding, and agency but women with awful beliefs get put in their place on camera?
In the spring of 2023, several news outlets reported the heart-warming story of a fourteen-year-old autistic boy who made a poster and presented it to a female classmate, asking her to be his valentine. The girl said no, whereupon the boy's mother took to social media, recounting the tale and emphasising just how 'shy and socially awkward' her son was. The story got national attention and 'the next day at school, a number of [the boy's] classmates approached him with kind words and offers to be his valentine'. One girl 'presented him with a poster like the one he had made to ask the girl the day before'. He became a high-status victim, at least for a day; the girl he had initially asked out, a heartless bully. Yet what exactly had had she been supposed to do? Say yes when she didn't want to in order to spare him humiliation?
The story illustrates many of the problems with 'just' being kind. In the eyes of some, the boy's autism elevated him above the other boys who pressure girls to do things they do not want. His shyness and social awkwardness were problems the original girl could have solved simply by saying yes. Maybe she judged boys like him just because they were different. Her rejection became, not a simple expression of her desires â just as his choice to ask her, rather than another girl, had been â but a judgment on his worth as a human being, one which the rest of the world set about correcting. To some, the boy had a right to kindness and validation which the girl was withholding. But what of her right to have her needs respected? There's a suggestion that while all girls have the right to say no, it would make life a lot easier if they could train themselves not to, coupled with the old message that girls are better than boys at manipulating their desires â see how many of them were willing to approach the boy the next day! There's so much prejudice in the world, but if girls agreed to offer themselves to the boys who felt most left out, we'd have begun the work of removing it. Taken to its logical conclusion, this is incel thinking.
â Victoria Smith (2025) (Un)kind: How 'Be Kind' Entrenches Sexism, pp. 105-6.
See the funny thing is most people are chill with co-ed as an option. There are places where female people are too vulnerable for third spaces to be considered reasonable (Mostly related to shit like strip searching or prisons) but in 75 percent of cases single sex spaces are an alternative created because males couldnât stop harassing people. Like most spaces for marginalized groups.
Hey, as a black female Iâm pretty sure youâre just using people like me as a prop but if you want a real answer, feel free to respond with a âsureâ!
me: hey so uhhhh if being a woman must be experienced one certain way then how do you factor in women of colour or women from other countries into that?
radfem i have the displeasure of speaking to: shut up i'm not even going to reply to that go read a feminist book
one of my biggest gripes currently is the amount of people who will get super mad if u point out something that sexualises women and especially things that sexualise girls. like "ew why would u even think a 10 yr old in a crop top or a 4 year old in a bikini is sexual youre such a creep for even thinking that" like ok put ur fucking son in a crop top then. send him out in public wearing tiny little panties that have his ass sticking out. why are girls clothes so much smaller and tighter and more revealing than boys clothes?
âWhy I never want babiesâ
An increasing number of South Korean women are choosing not to marry, not to have children, and not even to have relationships with men. With the lowest fertility rate in the world, the countryâs population will start shrinking unless something changes.
âI have no plans to have children, ever,â says 24-year-old Jang Yun-hwa, as we chat in a hipsterish cafe in the middle of Seoul.
âI donât want the physical pain of childbirth. And it would be detrimental to my career.â
Like many young adults in South Koreaâs hyper-competitive job market, Yun-hwa, a web comic artist, has worked hard to get where she is and isnât ready to let all that hard graft go to waste.
âRather than be part of a family, Iâd like to be independent and live alone and achieve my dreams,â she says.
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When I put it to her that if she and her contemporaries donât have children her countryâs culture will die, she tells me that itâs time for the male-dominated culture to go.
âMust die,â she says, breaking into English. âMust die!â
wishing everyone who said they didnât vote harris because of her foreign policy a very kill yourself
I have preestablished biases and beliefs about the world, I acknowledge that and am willing to adjust with new information shared.
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