- take a polaroid picture every month of something that makes me happy and hang it on my wall - spent more time with my real friends - journal more - create more art - buy more plants and give them names
1. Be their cheerleader, caregivers do so much to make sure littles have everything they need. Show appreciation for their success in everyday life.
2. Take care of yourself before anyone else. Be somebody they’re proud to take care of and show off to the world. (Eat healthy foods, workout, complete regular hygiene routines and take any medication you might be on.)
3. Make sure your caregiver has enough time for themselves. Having a needy little who wants attention is a full time job in itself. Respect that your caregiver needs time to unwind and do the things that make them happy.
4. Don’t ve afraid to ask for help when you need it. Going to your caregiver for advice shows that your respect their opinion, and trust that they know what’s best for you.
5. Say thank-you for everything they do, big or small. If your caregiver does not feel that their efforts are appreciated, they may stop doing some of the things that you count on to make you happy.
6. Greet your caregiver at the door with a smile and a kiss when they come home from a hard day. It can make that terrible day they’ve had at the office dissappear when their little is eager to see and embrace them.
7. Be enthusiastic about bedroom play. Whether you are the caregiver or little, nobody feels good about themselves if they get sexually turned down. Make sure they know you want them, and how much you love to please them in the bedroom.
8. If your caregiver wants to discuss something with you, give them your undivided attention. Put your phone down, turn off Netflix or stop running around the house. Make sure you use eye contact and pay attention to every word they say.
9. If you were told to do something by a certain time, make sure you complete it by that time. Prove that you respect their decision, and can follow through.
10. Do not act out to get attention. Your caregiver knows you want attention, snuggling up to them or writing sweet messages about how much you miss them is enough. There is no need to anger them and be disrespectful just to get a rise out of them.
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More tips for daddy’s!!
So I have a lot of free time
So I set up a match making system for the cgl community (if match making isn’t for you, try my cgl group chat on kik!) Just fill out the form that applies to you and I will contact you about possible matches.
Caregiver Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUvM1TdQshHGQN4G2O0cVvPRYxmnaj6m1VxTbS9kIjY59RUg/viewform
Little Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf1B4sGseompcW6hkyf17vPM9c-VZOKusGgo1oagnC16SiAAw/viewform
Switch Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSclSdizVxbg6_bK_EEh3yQoTk03XRVhV9_e0GZVpxCEOdv1rQ/viewform
If you say you want to be “daddy”… And we tell you we want you… And we tell you how we feel… And we express ourselves to you.. DO NOT, and I repeat, DO NOT start ignoring us when we actually open up to pursue you, don’t act like going a day with out talking is fine, because that’s not a “Daddy” that’s a guy that wants to play games and hurt you in the end. Littles/ Kittens get attached really fast. We don’t need you to come in and out of our lives. If you can’t step up to be the “Daddy” we think of, don’t say you’re “daddy”…
ATTENTION ALL DADDIES AND LITTLES
Want your little to drink more water but don’t know how to motivate them? Are you a little that wants nice dewy skin but is forgetful about drinking water throughout the day? I present to you… PLANT NANNY (a free app for your phone!) You can pick out cute little seedlings and take care of them so they grow. But you can only water them with how much water YOUVE drinken in that day! At the beginning of the game you enter your weight and activity level and the app calculates how much water you should drink daily. Then it reminds you throughout the day to drink (and water your plant!) it’s gets cuter as it grows. You can buy different plants and pots to put them in. It’s the CUTEST game ever AND helps remind you to drink!