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I donāt know do you guys think the full moon energy opposes the sunās energy? I always felt like they were complimentary. Like yes opposing zodiac signsĀ āopposeā each other but when they are linked up they work together like partners that see two sides of the same coin. I feel like opposing signs are two sides of the same coin just focusing on different directions. Itās like the yin and yang symbol how its the same shape that fits into itself, and in the case of the full moon when itās opposing the sun sign itās like a second source of powerful energy/light that shines on the theme of the zodiacās season. Right now we are in pisces season so itās one of creative endeavors and dreaming but virgo is an analytical sign of planning, deadlines and realism. Together I feel like the virgoās intense presence in the season is a partner coming into the scene to be like: Hey these dreams and creations are cool but why donāt we apply this perspective to it to help some of these dreams become a reality? Maybe some people that are not in tune with both can easily fall prey to the lunacy of the opposing powers, (as in someone who is dreaming of something too complicated, then virgo the planner comes through and they feel like its not ready or good enough to manifest into something and the task is too stressful so they get overwhelmed), but if the two are channeled they can work together to create something very powerful. This is just my opinion and I am still researching on it. What are your thoughts? As I always said anyway I prefer new moons since the easy harmony is so delightful and itās easy for me to focus and create something with the dual energy working from the same sign, but new moons mess me up always haha.Ā
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-Wake her up for school/work/breakfast (Waking up to a nudging Daddy is better than waking up to a noisy jump out of your skin alarm clock).Ā
-Make her breakfast.
-Know her health problems, issues and allergies.Ā
-Make sure she takes her medicine.Ā
-Draw her a bubble bath, lots of bubbles. LOTS of bubbles.Ā
-Wash her.
-Help her with any studying or classwork she may have. Midterms and finals suck.Ā
-Set up a rewards system with stickers or fake money toĀ ācash inā for special things or an outing.Ā
-Know her favorite characters and cartoons.Ā
-Watch said favorite cartoons with her.Ā
-Let her crawl in your lap and snuggle.
-Snuggle her any and everywhere you can.Ā
-Build a blanket fort with her.Ā
-Color with her
-Print out coloring pages/ buy coloring books for her (Littles need variety!)Ā
-Talk to her. Ask her about her feelings, her day, all that.Ā
-Lay out her clothes for her.Ā
-Set up a bedtime that you BOTH can adhere to, no little should be going to bed alone if itās preventable.
-Let her know that she can wake you up anytime during the night whether she canāt sleep, has a nightmare or just wakes up earlier than you.Ā
-Let her cry. It doesnāt matter if you donāt always understand her feelings and emotions, it matters that you be there for her when she needs it.Ā
-Spray her pillow with your cologne while youāre gone for the day.Ā
-Make/pack Ā her lunch how she likes it so she eats well when youāre working/adulting.Ā
-Pick her up. Littles love rides!
- Know her stuffies, her blankies and her binkies.Ā
-Keep her sippies clean and full.Ā
-Make her a physical little space where she can burrow up in when sheās in her mental little space. (under the table with pillows and stuffies, in the corner or a whole bedroom decorated in things she likes)Ā
-Keep them company when theyāre sick. Watch their favorite movie with them and make them soup with fun shapes.Ā
-Let them be little! The world is hard on everyone. She goes to you for refuge. Remind her why she picked you to be her Daddy out of all the other Daddies in the world.Ā
-Love them. Whether they are whiny, bratty, or downright all out bitchy. Love them. They love you when youāre the same way. Yes, Daddies can be bitches.Ā
As you can see, there are plenty of things to do with your little girl that doesnāt require sex. Being intimate with your little is important, but sex isnāt the only intimacy out there.Ā