Define: Affirmations 🌷

✦ . 𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐒𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄: 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠

so we all know how self concept is one of the big keys to manifestation. how you view yourself in relation to the world around you is extremely important and can greatly affect how you manifest. however, there is another key to manifestation that often gets overlooked and that is persistence. 

now i understand why. it can be HARD! of course, manifesting in general is very easy but it does require a certain amount of discipline and mental work. when it truly gets difficult for most people is when an unfavorable circumstance happens in your 3d (external) reality. everything seems to be going alright then all of a sudden you start seeing the opposite of your desire or you're in a situation that makes you feel a negative way. suddenly, you start to question and doubt yourself and even start spiraling, not knowing what to do. 

if this is something that you’re experiencing right now DON’T WORRY! in this post i will be sharing how to get yourself back on track and how to PERSIST no matter what you’re seeing in the 3d. 

𝐈. what exactly does it mean to persist?

   per·sist  /pərˈsist/ verb

continue firmly or obstinately in an opinion or a course of action in spite of difficulty, opposition, or failure.

in other words, persisting means to continue to pursue a certain goal despite the difficulties or obstacles that come in the way of that goal. 

in the context of manifestation, this means that we continue to dwell in your new assumption no matter what the 3d is showing you. 

𝐈𝐈. why is persisting so important?

why perisisting is important can be summed up in one of my favorite quotes by neville goddard:

"an assumption, though false, if persisted in will harden into fact."

this is the basis of the law of assumption. no matter how "crazy" or outlandish an assumption may be, no matter how delusional you feel, even if you don't believe a single WORD of your assumption, if you persist in that assumption it will ALWAYS become true. the 3d will always, without a doubt, conform to this assumption.

this is why persisting is absolutely key when manifesting, especially when first starting off. when faced with an unfavorable circumstances, you can trust that the 3d will always change and conform to your new assumption when you persist.

𝐈𝐈𝐈. how do i persist?

i touched on persisting in a previous post i made about ignoring the 3d, but essentially, to persist means to live completely in your 4d (inner reality) and to disregard any unfavorable circustances that the 3d may throw at you. literally think of your imagination as the ONLY true reality that matters to you. when you see something you don't like on the outside, turn inwards to your imagination and live within.

in other words, think the thoughts you would have if you already had your desire. don't let yourself and your mind be swayed by outer circumstances, because they don't MATTER!

“help, im spiraling!”

sometimes, it become difficult to immediately persist despite the 3d and we get into a spiral of doubt, fear, worry, sadness, etc. no worries, here’s a simple step by step guide to getting out of a spiral! (original ask)

1. stop everything + relax

“the main cause of a spiral is usually a result of seeing something unfavorable in the 3d and becoming overwhelmed. you feel like it’s difficult to change the circumstance. therefore you force yourself to go 2x harder trying to “fix” the 3d, (personally, i tend to affirm even more, repress emotions, over-consume info), which ultimately makes you feel worse. so, i would recommend that you take a break from ALL things manifesting-related for a few days to a week. delete tumblr, instagram, unsubscribe from loa youtube channels, whatever. in this time period, i suggest that you do meditation and journal out your feelings. let yourself feel any emotions and vent out whatever’s bothering you. don’t keep it all bottled up. do some deep breathing and take some time for yourself!”

2. work on your self-concept ONLY

“after you feel like you’ve taken enough time “off” from manifesting consciously, now you can start easing back in. i recommend choosing 1-3 self-concept affirmations to repeat throughout your day whenever you feel like it, or when you’re in SATS. i’d suggest working on your self-concept for another few days to a few weeks, (and forever honestly, cause self concept is all you really need).

here are some neutral affirmations and some good self concept affirmations!”

3. be still and know…and don’t seek validation from the 3d

“this isn’t really a “step” but just a good mindset to implement. you guys, when you’re truly in the state of KNOWING, whether it be knowing you’ll get your desires or knowing you already have your desires, you will be much less likely to spiral. why? well, as i stated in the first point, we spiral primarily bc we experienced something unfavorable in the 3d. but when we’re in the state of knowing, we KNOW that the 3d is temporary and that our desires ARE COMING!! it’s inevitable, therefore there’s no reason to spiral over something that won’t even last.”

𝐈𝐕. fun ways to persist!

so at this point you might be thinking, "ok i know persisting is important but it still seems hard and kinda boring!" well don't worry, here are some fun methods and techniques to help make persisting fun and easy :)

3DOL x ROE challenge

this is a super fun challenge by @starliet and @cleostoohot, in which you affirm in a way that implies that you always manifest in 3 days or less and you manifest everything regardless of everything (ROE). this is a great way to practice persistence because it reminds yourself that regardless of literally any circumstance, you can still manifest your desires (in a very short amount of time too)!

SATS

SATS, or state akin to sleep, is a method in which you visualize/affirm in a drowsy and sleepy state until you either fall asleep or feel completly natural in your new assumption. this is both an easy and relaxing method that is also extremly effective! here's a few posts on SATS, 1 & 2, that go into more depth.

vaunting

vaunting is a super fun way to affirm where you combine a bunch of affirmations together and turn it into an inner conversation. the reason why it's so effective is bc it makes persisting and living in the end feel more real and natural. @sexyandhedonistic explains her method here!

𝐕. conclusion

to wrap up, persistence, while sometimes hard, is extremly important to manifest your desires! the best thing to do is to remember your power and remind yourself that whatever happens you will manifest everything you want no matter what! remain faithful to your new assumptions and don't let outer circumstances rattle you. you are the operant creator and everything HAS to go your way no matter what! don't ever give up. persist, persist, persist, ALWAYS! the 3D will always conform to you!

© celestialheartbeat - 2022

HOW TO ACTUALLY FEEL FULFILLED

Hey Upper East Siders, Gossip Girl Here. Three little birds sat on my window, and they told me that some of manhattans finest elite, aren’t feeling so…elite.

And i’ll tell you, that you don’t need to worry.

People may give you advice on how to feel fulfilled, but doesn’t mean it will fulfill you.

Because little does your naive self know, that they’re just telling you what makes them feel fulfilled, not what makes you feel fulfilled.

No, I’m not talking about the fulfilment of “Yeah, I’m a God” that lasts 3 minutes. I’m talking about true fulfilment. The one that takes you places. The places you want to be. The long term fulfilment. The unshakeable fulfilment, because you know you are who you want to be.

Here’s how:

STEP 1: Decide what makes you feel fulfilled.

Is it affirming?

Is it visualising?

Is it scripting?

Is it just simply deciding that you have it?

+ more

STEP 2: Do what fulfills you every time your desire comes to mind. Fulfill yourself until the feeling of desire completely vanishes. You can compare it to your soul feeling some sort of hunger, feed your inner self until you no longer feel the need to. Because you are fulfilled.

Not sure what fulfils you?

Try to visualise or affirm or any method you’ve heard of, and whichever one(s) fulfill you, then those are the one(s) for you.

How do I know when i’m 100% fulfilled?

- You aren’t identifying with the 3D

- You aren’t waiting for your 3D to conform AKA being impatient.

- You feel free knowing you have what you want.

- You aren’t trying to get anything in the 3D.

- You think FROM your desire and not OF it.

- You aren’t viewing your desire as a desire, because you acknowledge that you can’t desire something you already have.

- You know that the 4D is realer than the 3D will ever be.

States to NOT occupy:

- State of lack (not accepting your desire in the 4D).

- State of waiting (waiting for the 3D to conform).

- State of failure (believing you’re doing something wrong).

- State of trying (trying to achieve something in the 3D).

REMINDERS!!!

- Mental health comes first

- You don’t have to fulfill yourself when you don’t want to.

- It is impossible for your 3D to not conform, you don’t have to assume that your 3D will conform.

- Your 3D reflects who you are. So give it something new to reflect.

What People Think The State Of The Wish Fulfilled Is:

- Complete bliss and happiness.

- Thinking OF their desire.

What The State Of The Wish Fulfilled actually is:

- Knowing that your desire is YOURS in imagination (4D) and standing FIRM in that FACT.

- The FEELING OF KNOWING YOU HAVE IT!!!! (Whatever feeling you get when you imagine having your desires).

What is the knowing “feeling”?

Read THIS POST

A thing that a lot of people do is, they’ll affirm “I have everything I want.”

Then they’ll observe the thought, not the FEELING it gives them. The feeling of knowing. Although the whole point of affirming is to give them the feeling. Automatically putting them in the state of the wish fulfilled.

Relish in that FEELING until you are completely satisfied.

And we all know what satisfaction feels like. Like having a delicious meal and feeling full afterwards. Like taking a nice warm bubble bath on a cold winter night.

So feel satisfied. Fulfilled.

Don’t EVER go back to the undesired state.

Read these short reminders + quotes from people who’ve manifested their dream lives. (It will save your life) —>

10𝑘 𝑎𝑓𝑓𝑖𝑟𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑒𝑛𝑔𝑒：

creds: 98VIPER on twitter

According to science, it takes an estimate of 10k repetitions to master a skill and develop the associated neural pathway to familiarise your brain with the new action that you are repeating.

It is said we need at least 300-400 reps per session to begin rewiring the brain, and viper has approximately worked out that 400 repetitions would equal an estimate of 500 seconds (9 minutes).

‘This also explains why if you are wavering, doing a little bit at a time, or you’re not doing it that often, you get distracted, or you forget to affirm, why it takes longer. Because you are not doing enough repetition’ - Sammy

Viper stated that this challenge is just to explain how repetition is able to create dominant thoughts. It just explains how affirming and repetition is enough to saturate your mind with the new story.

It is not a rule to complete the full 10k repetitions im one day, you can spread it out within a week, two weeks, or even a month.

Viper said if you spread it out within thirty days, you would only have to do approximately 333 repetitions throughout those thirty days, which is under 9 minutes every day!!

It is to be said, you can affirm, listen to subliminals, or affirmations tapes, it’s up to you how you want to saturate your mind.

‘if u affirm 10k ur brain is fully saturated and it becomes an actual fact and belief for u bc ur brain creates a path for it! ur 3d can conform in 3 secs if u want IT TO!!!’ - Viper

SHE IS NOTTT saying it has to take 10k repetitions it’s just a estimate backed up by science, it can still happen after 10 minutes of affirming or even instantly but it has been said by science it takes the ESTIMATE of 10k repetitions in order for brain to fully adapt to the new neurological pathway in the brain.

‘also in the notes i made, it is alsp scientifically proven that minimum 400 times is enough and i showed yall how to do it in 9 mins istg u dont need to be shitting crying throwing up 10k times the whole day believe me just REPEAT PLS It can be twice even’ - Viper

Now a lot of people have been panicking over the thought of having do ten repetitions but when you think about how we think approximately 60-80,000 thoughts a day it’s not even half of the thoughts we would be thinking anyway, so although it sounds a lot. It really isn’t.

This whole concept is for those that actually are willing to do the mental work in order to receive what they desire. The truth is if you want it bad enough you would not let the four of 10,000 thoughts get in the way of you and your manifestation.

Like that’s crazy to me, people are really having a hard time choosing between living the life don’t want and repeating an affirmation for 10,000 repetitions like??? Huh? Like people are getting really lazy to the point that they’re like ‘Wait? i have to think in order to get what i want?!!’ Like girl, you either want it or you don’t. make up your decision because while you’re deciding whether you wanna live the life you don’t wanna live just to escape repeating affirmations that’s your choice but while you do that rest of us will be out here living a dream lives because we actually did the mental work.

THEY ARE OBSESSED...

I am the blueprint. I am an ICON. I am perfect girlfriend/wife material and they know it. I am THE high value woman that's why they offer so much proposals to me. I get compliments on a daily basis. My face is perfection. My body is perfection. My skin is perfection. My personality is fucking amazing and unique. My vibe is one of a kind, they can never find a second me. One look at me and they are obsessed. I am naturally seductive, i embody love and seduction. I am the nation's dream girl. I have Aishwarya Rai's, Alexa demie, jung hoyeon, Zendaya, Madhuri Dixit's, Rihanna, Beyoncé, irene, wonyoung, Kim Jennie, Megan Fox, Gigi Hadid, Bella Hadid, Marilyn Monroe, jhene Aiko, Audrey Hepburn's charm combined( thanks itkuzome on yt for this) I am more than beautiful.

Anyone can be obsessed with me, they'd travel and cross mountains and oceans just to be with me that's how powerful My charm is. I just naturally give people butterflies, charming runs in my dna. Everywhere I go, i get all the attention. I attract them simps. My charm goes beyond any k-pop idol, anime character or kdrama, movie character. I am something they have never seen before, i am once in a fucking lifetime. Being with me is a fucking blessing so anyone would be lucky to have me it's natural. I embody the vibe of the weekend, chase atlantic, the nbhd, artic monkeys and all the slowed reverb aesthetic songs. Being with me is itself a high, nobody can ever get enough of me. I mean how can they? When I'm nothing like they've ever seen before, I'm out of this world. I am unforgettable, nothing like they've ever experienced before. I hold a special place in their hearts. I am a DREAM. I am the standard. They worship the ground i walk on, the respect and love everyone has for me is JUST perfect. They respect me , my culture, my religion, my ethnicity, my family, my gender, my sexuality and everything about me. I am treated like royalty, i get princess treatment all the time. Talking to me is a flex, standing next to me is a flex. Everyday is like a movie for me. I am better than y/n, I am literally living in a movie. Whenever i go out i get a hundred compliments and the pretty privelege i have is immense. I deserve nothing but the absolute best. I deserve unconditional love and happiness. I recieve a lot of positive attention from everyone as i am hot (obviously) and also bring good and positive vibes to everyone around me.

If you don’t know who Dylan James is, you should know he’s an amazing ass Mindset coach. And a life coach I think too, but he mostly talks about relationships and stuff like that but he also has other things too like sleep, affirmation tapes and what to do in relationships and how to fix them. like when I’m stressed out or anxious. I go to him about anything.

self concept affirmations i think could be useful

I have an amazing and perfect self concept, mindset, and mental diet.

I can easily change my assumptions to my own benefit.

Life goes according to my desired assumptions.

I have the solid assumption and unwavering faith that my desires are inevitable no matter what.

I always assume my desires and the best in life.

I am a master at manifesting my desires.

It is easy for me to stay in the state of the wish fulfilled.

Manifesting my desires is fun, easy, effortless, and instant.

I am detached from any negative circumstances from the 3D.

My 3D reality only reflects my desires.

I am the Goddess and operant power of my reality.

Life is a dream I can fully control.

Miracles and blessings occur regardless of my state of mind and emotional state.

Life gets better each and every single day.

I feel SO amazing, happy, and fulfilled more than ever before.

Life is only spontaneous and unpredictable in favorable ways.

I can manifest my desires with any emotional state and state of mind.

All I need to do is affirm and acknowledge my desire and it will manifest.

I am so grateful, lucky, and blessed.

Everything works out in my favor.

Life keeps working out a lot better than expected.

I always get what I want or better.

I can be, do, and have anything I want.

Why should I worry when my negative thoughts never manifest?

I believe in myself and my power.

I love myself truly, deeply, generously, and unconditionally.

I am the priority and main character.

The only thing that’s on the pedestal is myself.

I am the bad-ass bitch that’s above it all.

I have all the love, peace, and happiness I need within.

I am hot, sexy, confident, and beautiful.

I am good enough.

I am worthy.

I am fit to love and be loved.

I am so incredibly loved, I feel amazing and on top of the world.

Everybody loves, adores, and cherishes me.

I am satisfied in all of my relationships

I am smart, knowledgeable, and wise.

I am independent.

I am in great mental health and physical health.

I am free from negative and intrusive thoughts, doubts, and limiting beliefs.

I am financially abundant.

I am limitless.

All of my desires are mine and here now.

I am a magnet to my desires.

I have the most beautiful thoughts and imagination.

My wonderful, human imagination is the only true reality.

My 3D reality has no choice but to conform to my desires.

My life is fulfilling in all aspects; family, friends, love, career, money, you name it!

Everything about my life is so easy to live.

I can’t believe my life is THIS perfect!

I manifest all my desires instantly.

There is no time lag, the 3d conforms to my desires instantly.

All my desires manifest in less than 24 hours.

The 3d rushes to fulfill all of my desires.

Why do all of my desires manifest instantly?

The 3d conforms to my desires alarmingly fast.

Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest my desires instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time

he is in love with me

the fact is that no matter what happens, its always all about me. no matter what he is doing or who he is with, it's all about me. the fact is that he can't get me out of his mind. the fact is that he fell for me so fast, through a screen. the fact is that he is mine, i am all he wants and needs. i am his dream girl. i am the prettiest, the hottest, the cutest and the smartest for him. he only wants me. day and night, all he can think of is me. he never has enough of me. he always wants to call me, despite his schedule, he always wants to see me, to call me. the fact is that i am his one and only one. the fact is that i am his, he is mine. he always looks at me so lovingly. he always talks to me softly, with all his attention. he always wants to hear me talk. and he loves talking to me. our relationship is based on trust, passion and real love. he is touchy and cuddly with me. he is safe with me. i am his home and he always tell me he's the happiest with me. no one can compare. it's me. i am so worthy of a healthy relationship. he treats me like a princess. i am all his world. he always wants me to go with him to all of his schedules. he loves dancing with me, singing with me... he loves spending time with me. he loves sharing things with me.

spicy affs...🫢

he is always thinking about me when he does his things. i am the reason why he's hard. he is always thinking about me, i am his pretty princess. he loves my body, in every way possible. he respects me and my body. i am a masterpiece for him. he always makes sure i am good, he always makes sure i am okay with what he's doing. all of my pictures are safe with him. he loves touching me, he loves discovering my body and hearing my voice. he isn't shy with me. there is no toxic masculinity. he is always comfortable with me, he never tries to cover his moans. he loves sexting me. he loves sex calling me. he loves me in every way and angle. he is only hard for me. he can't finish if i am not here. he always makes sure to give me the best in bed. the aftercare is so sweet. his favorite thing is to shower together after sex. he loves cuddling me, he praises me, all the time. he is always telling me how much he loves me. he makes sure i never forget every moment we have together.

SELF CONCEPT

affirmations

I am pampered, loved, well respected and the happiest person in the world

I get everything I want with atmost ease

my mind gives me my desires literally before I even finish desiring them

life is easy for me

I am immune to failure or any bad things happening to me

I am the God of my reality

I've got no competition whatsoever

I am addicted to manifesting, it gets me everything I want

I am addicted to my life

I can't stop being spoiled by my subconscious

I make the universe dance on my little pinky finger

I can feel the unlimited, great power residing with me and I feel confident in my ability to use it

Rant

what the actual fuck lol, manifesting is SO EASY??? like it's LITERAL magic. god I always loved those 'fictional' shows and little did I know I am already living in one as my reality. it's it's fun being able to control the world, like omfg nothing is too much for me. every thing in this universe exists because of me and I can change them whenever tf I want. I love myself and my life, it's so fun and happening!

MANIFESTING YOUR SP AFFIRMATIONS

· sp's love for me overflows their heart

· sp knows their feelings for me grows intensely every second

· sp keeps fantasizing with me all the time because it what keeps sp alives

· sp knows their whole life changed completely when sp met me, i am everything for sp

· sp loves taking care of me, spoiling me and putting me in the pedestal

· i am the only one for sp because sp can't live without me

· sp fantasizes with me since sp wakes up every morning until sp falls asleep every night

· sp always wants to show me and expressing the most beautiful love language to me because i am their only one

· i am the most important and special person in sp's life, sp is always fighting for me and for our love

· sp got me marked in their heart like a tattoo

· sp feels absolutely connected and vinculated with me

· there is not even one night sp doesn't spend without dreaming about me

· sp doesn't want to get me out off their mind because the simply fact of being part of their thought makes sp so damn happy

· missing me and loving me is sp's daily mood

· i am like sp's favourite songs, sp got me in repeat, sp can't get enough of me

· sp never hesitates to give me reassurance, comfort and the most beautiful love

· sp is always gentle, caring, supporting and loving with me

· sp always gives me the softest and purest love

· sp admires every centimetre of my body, sp adores every inch of my soul and sp loves every thought of my mind

· sp is lost without me, sp needs me all the time

For the 10k challenge, Is it 10 k affirmations in one day or 10k affirmations within 5 days?

From @98VIPER on twitter:

This is about you, and this is FOR YOU. Everyone is going to have a different take on it, and everyone is going to have a different level to challenge themselves on. What I mean is someone may find it easier to do it in one day because they already affirm often. We’re all starting at different points. I personally just affirm as much as I can, I remind myself to affirm when my mind just goes off and starts worrying about stressful things in my life or when I start worrying about my manifestations or when my mind is just wasting precious time and energy on thoughts that aren’t my manifestation. I just bring myself back to my desired thoughts. I use a counter to keep track and to motivate myself to affirm more. It will only get easier and become automatic so you can set a small goal for yourself and you will automatically hit higher and higher goals. You can do one day, 5 or 7. You could find a version of the 10k challenge someone else designed and stick to that, or you can make your own. This is about you and it’ll work no matter what.