Can't Affirm The "i Am" Statements Without Feeling Disconnected? Don't Worry Fam, I Got You

can't affirm the "i am" statements without feeling disconnected? don't worry fam, i got you

initially when i started affirming, i had extreme self-worth & self esteem issues. i struggled with being overweight & couldn't really say the "i am" affirmations without my body literally rejecting it. i found a way that helped me so much. when i first started consciously affirming, i wrote down my affirmations : "i am beautiful", "i am healthy & glowing", "i am worthy of deserving love in every body shape or form" , "i have the body of a goddess" , "i have a tiny waist" etc

i felt so fucking disconnected & the affirmations seemed so far away from who i genuinely felt like in the moment. it felt unnatural & delusional. ofcourse i had just learned about the law & did not honestly trust it wholeheartedly. i would speak my affirmations into the mirror, but with a twist - instead of "i am", i flipped my affirmations to "you are". pointing to the mirror i would say - "you are beautiful", "you're stunning", "you have the body of a goddess", "you absolutely deserve everything you desire", "you're a powerful manifester" etc.

why this feels easier to me : the "i am" statements put pressure on you to feel confident & secure when really you don't feel like that's you in the moment. "you are" statements help you detach from your current state & it feels way easier to compliment someone else than yourself if you've had a pattern of self worth issues. so imagine this as a conversation in the mirror with someone you love and trust (aka the new you!) , reminding them of what they deserve. you can eventually switch to "i am" affirmations when you feel comfortable or confident enough. you are actually worthy of everything you desire & active unlearning of self hatred & old assumptions is important but don't be hard on yourself! it takes a lot of guts to rewrite new assumptions over shitty old stories. i'm glad you're doing that. i'm so proud of you!

also!!!! feel free to affirm whatever, however & whenever you feel like. affirm in the language & tone you feel most comfortable in. affirming may feel uncomfortable in the beginning because you're rewriting years worth of shitty thought patterns & your brain will go 'wtf' at times. so what do you do? keep affirming! you won't feel like this forever! and don't worry about the tense. if you're someone who feels like "it is done" feels like a scam or doesn't feel real, you can still affirm, "i know i'm gonna get my desire, it has no other choice" or "my manifestation is coming to me any minute now, it's already mine!" you can affirm in the future, past, present, whatever tense you want to. make your own rules & learn what works best for you!

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2 years ago

πŸ’— SP affirmations i've been loving lately πŸ’—

SP puts me up on a pedestal

i am the centre of SP's universe

SP can't live without me because i am his oxygen

everytime SP blinks, he thinks of me

SP can't even function without talking to me

SP finds me absolutely irresistible & stunning

SP sees my name everywhere

i haunt all of SP's wet dreams

i am the love of SP's goddamn life

SP can do anything for me because i'm amazing

2 years ago

He’s mine πŸ«€

He and I stay together forever. It’s always been him and I. We have a perfect relationship. Nobody can come between us. To be honest, he’s such a simp, he only gets hard over me. His family loves me. His mom adores me and treats like her daughter. His sister loves me so much and she’s always getting me gifts. His parents spoil me and love when I’m around. They know I’m making their son happy. He’s the happiest he’s ever been because he’s with me. He plans to marry me. Can you imagine he spends his time imagining our future together? He only wants me, forever. His loyalty is infallible, which is why I never overthink with him. No one can ever question our love. There’s no way he could ever get tired of me. All of his wet dreams are about me. Every minute, I get more attractive to him. Every minute, he loves me every more. Gosh, he loves spoiling me. Whenever, we go out together, he’s always paying, voluntarily. My baby never complains about buying me things. He does because he loves me so much. I know his love for me is unconditional and eternal. There’s nothing I could ever do to make him stop loving me. He’s my twin flame! People wish they had a boyfriend like mine.πŸ’“πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ«€

2 years ago

ok so this is a reminder for anyone who needs it: START NOW. stop being scared of having your dream life and desires, stop being too lazy to make progress, stop letting intrusive thoughts eat you alive. do you really want to end up like the average person who never got the opportunity to live the life of their dreams? we are the 1% out of BILLIONS of people who know about the law. the 1% that know that we can change anything we want about ourselves just with our thoughts. most people think that they have to work their whole lives for what they want, but we know that this isn’t the only way to get our desires. LET THAT SINK IN!! It’s so simple when you actually think about it. YOU HAVE THE POWER. stop being scared of what you hold within you. stop waiting for a tomorrow, and another tomorrow, and the cycle continues. JUST STOP. there’s no better time than today. the world is yours. mwah πŸ’‹

love,

glamourbae πŸ’‹

2 years ago

How i fixed my self concept in 3 days? πŸ’Œ

I used to have a bad self concept,but i changed it in three days by doing the 10k affirmation challenge and affirming "i have ultimate self concept" and affirming "i manifest instantly by only affirming once". And in these days and then i saw many huge changes.

1. I saw many angel numbers and i mean many..they were popping out of nowhere

2. My negative thoughts,doubts got completed vanished and they don't come back in my mind nowadays.i feel so much more confident in manifestation and in my daily life

3. I manifesting instantly by only affirming once,like i manifested my ideal teacher to take my class,my school having a half day,some delicious food, butterflies following me everywhere I go outside,manga eyelashes,ideal report card,having the highest grades in social science and entering the void

I didn't completed the 10k affirmations completely because my desires got fulfilled on reaching 3,500

2 years ago

Some Of My Posts That You Should Check Out [ Part- 1 ]

β•°βž Some Affirmations For Your SP.

β•°βž How Do You Stop Negative Thoughts During Manifestation.

β•°βž Pillow Method.

β•°βž How to Shift Reality.

β•°βž How To Manifest Love.

β•°βž When Manifesting...

β•°βž Manifesting Tips

β•°βž Is it Possible To Manifest As An OverThinker

β•°βž Negative Thoughts? That doesn't exist in my reality!

β•°βž Manifesting Many Things At A Time? yeah You Can Do That!

β•°βž Forgetting To Affirm? It's Not In Our List

β•°βž Checking The 3d? Nah Babe

β•°βž The Circumstances Doesn't Matter

β•°βž Living In The End Is Not About Believing

β•°βž Manifesting Is Easy As Breathing

β•°βž Manifest Appearance Changes

β•°βž Clear Skin Affirmations

- Euphoria πŸ¦‹

2 years ago

✭ π‘π„ππ‘πŽπ†π‘π€πŒ 𝐔𝐑 πŒπˆππƒ πŸ’ π†πŽπŽπƒ ✭

✭ π‘π„ππ‘πŽπ†π‘π€πŒ 𝐔𝐑 πŒπˆππƒ πŸ’ π†πŽπŽπƒ ✭
✭ π‘π„ππ‘πŽπ†π‘π€πŒ 𝐔𝐑 πŒπˆππƒ πŸ’ π†πŽπŽπƒ ✭

by venuscelebrity

I feel like this post has the potential to shift all of your manifestation journeys to a more positive and successful ass direction. I’ve discovered SOO much these past few weeks regarding how manifesting works that is changing everything. If everyone were to apply this knowledge there will be no questions as to why your manifestation β€œhasn’t come yet” or why it feels hard for you.

Now look. 90 percent of us are familiar with the whole 10k Affirmation Challenge (repeating affirmations 10,000 times for it to become fact in your mind) This trend has been HUMBLING to say the least. It has made me as well as many others realize how little we are actually affirming for our desires on a daily basis, as our minds are still mostly flooded with BS.

(By the way, I’m NOT making everything about this you don’t have to do that challenge tbh just helps with the point)

If you think 10K thoughts is a LOT, read this:

✭ π‘π„ππ‘πŽπ†π‘π€πŒ 𝐔𝐑 πŒπˆππƒ πŸ’ π†πŽπŽπƒ ✭

😳😳😳

NINETY PERCENT OF WHICH ARE REPETITIVE!

And if you’ve seen my last posts, this also coincides with this information in β€œBreaking The Habit Of Being Yourself” by Joe Dispenza, where answers are provided as to why our subconscious tries to revert back to our original thought processes.

✭ π‘π„ππ‘πŽπ†π‘π€πŒ 𝐔𝐑 πŒπˆππƒ πŸ’ π†πŽπŽπƒ ✭

THIS is why PERSISTING and REPETITION is so important!! Our bodies try to fight the change it’s not comfortable with.

You have to just make yourself push through that temporarily uncomfortable feeling of not being used to a certain way of thinking.

think about this. you know you aren’t going to accept going back to your old story, so you might as well stop half-assing and letting your old programming have your way every time. It will save you lots of mental frustration due to everyday being a roller coaster (one moment you are so confident have your desires the next you’re unsure and reliving all old past beliefs and circumstances because that’s what you’re comfortable with knowing.)

You will humble yourself so fast like I did if you set timers on your phone for the duration you want to affirm/do ur techniques for your desires. I used to think I’d affirm so long when I wasn’t timing anything until I realized I wasn’t even talking to myself in the mirror for 5 minutes. This is how we see our desired thoughts become dominant

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Venus

2 years ago

astro notes

love and roses edition

& informative

Do not repost, plagiarize, translate, reword my work.

Check out Master-list I for more informative posts.

Astro Notes
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Astro Notes

🍷 I have noticed one thing about the 8th house and it can tell you what backfires on you.

πŸ’ Sagittarius in 8th indicates that your humor and beliefs can you get in trouble. Not everyone will understand the same things you do. You see these in people who get cancelled for making jokes or something they found not serious at all.

πŸ’ Libra in 8th not choosing a β€œside” of things may also get you in trouble. You don’t like drama and you may want peace but this could be the end of you. Final decisions may put you in trouble if not handled properly. Stand your ground.

πŸ’ Pisces in 8th lying should always be your last resort to things. Lying may backfire on you heavily. Always stick to the truth and try not distort things for your own benefit. Things from the past comes back up to haunt.

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πŸ’Œ One thing about Pisces placements is that they attract people who wanna distort them on who they are. You commonly find people trying to spread rumors about Pisces placements. Pisces placements may start to believe they are those rumors themselves. They attract people who wanna push them on a different path very often. This could also be applied to north node in 12th.

πŸ’Œ With North node in 12th these individuals attract people who wanna push them on a different path. They have a lot of hidden enemies who don’t want them to succeed. People who give you advice that you didn’t ask for should be looked out for.

πŸ’Œ People with heavy Scorpio in their chart have a very heavy energy. It’s commonly found that these people attract people who either love them or hate them. People who have Scorpio placements may find themselves attracting constant jealousy and people who don’t wanna see them succeed. Scorpio energy has the power to trigger people on what they hide. They will show the sides of themselves that you yourself are hiding. It’s no mistake though.. a Scorpio placement may be personally be very different than you originally thought. These people hide things like crazy and will take things to the grave if they have to. Master-mind energy.

πŸ’Œ People with heavy Saturn on their chart get two sides of the coins. If you do them wrong, karma will come bite you in the ass 100x more but thing is these people if they do something morally wrong themselves, they will learn the lesson very harshly. Saturn is a harsh but fair teacher. (Capricorn & Aquarius & Saturn dominance)

πŸ’Œ People with Mercury in 8th have their words as their ultimate weapon. These people may win on having the last say on things. But also remember your words can back-fire on you a lot making you regret things you have said in the past. You may attract people who wanna dig up on your past and use what you have said agains’t you.

πŸ’Œ 18 degrees make someone extremely sharp-witted and intelligent. These are the type of people to plan out things a while before it happens. They have the talent to be able to fore-see disaster before it happens but they tend to have a very strong energy. People with 18 degrees in their chart may find themselves having a battle with the mind especially if placed in moon or mercury. They may fall into very bad episodes themselves. I have done some research on this degree and it doesn’t always mean you’ll end up evil. (No stereotypes.) HOWEVER, there is a tendency to attract people with not the best intentions and situations as well. (Nothing to panic about) For example Venus in 18 degrees may attract lovers who aren’t in their best state.

πŸ’Œ Leo placements have this influence that makes other feel small this is even more exaggerated if there is pluto & scorpio influence. Leo placements throughout their life may attract people who wanna make them seem smaller they know their potential and their worth and want to dim it down for their own benefit. Another manifestation is that they attract people who wanna use them for what they have and leave. They may be used for popularity & their love & resources. Leo placements have a big influence and others can see it.

πŸ’Œ Mercury in 1st people have this effect on being whoever you want them to be. Mercury rules tricks and these people can charm their way out of anything. With their intellect, they can play off things well & may even be able to fool people easily. In another manifestation they may get accused of lying about things since it rules trickery. But there is an air of knowledge about them and a youthful aura you can’t get enough of. It’s not said enough people tend to be VERY curious about these people.

πŸ’Œ Aquarius placements have this praise energy. I commonly see Aquarius placements getting very praised (as you should) but it could even for the smallest things. Aquarius placements tend to work on building a community for themselves & peace. Aquarius placements tend to strive on healthy friend groups even if their circle is small there is an aura of being friends with everybody even if you don’t really know them.

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Astro Notes

πŸ’Œ One thing about Capricorn placements is that they stay minding their own business and being unbothered. Because of this they hate when people try to interrupt their peace asking so many questions this may seem normal however I have seen a lot of times Capricorn placements do not like being asked questions they see as β€œno sense” they don’t like small talk, get to the point with them they can see through it! You’ll never see a Capricorn placement sticking out their nose where it doesn’t belong and I truly admire that. They also value their privacy and love people who are private themselves.

πŸ’Œ What is it with the Gemini unfaithful stereotype? See the funny thing is Gemini placements tend to have low attention span I find it very bad that they are stereotyped as cheaters when they can’t even focus on things they don’t find interesting. Besides someone being a β€œcheater” is much more complex than just placements it goes with them as a person and bad manifestation of aspects. So stop with this.

πŸ’Œ Also Gemini placement culture is telling yourself you’ll answer that text then forgetting to days later. They have a lot on their minds.

πŸ’Œ Sagittarius placements hold their beliefs up high. Sagittarius + Taurus energy in a chart will make someone who holds their opinions in a very high way and stays loyal to themselves and what they believe in.

πŸ’Œ Adding onto Sagittarius placements is that they have very good learning ethics. They will teach themselves a whole subject if they have to (If they find it interesting enough, they have so many interests)

🍷 Wanna know the impression + slight vibe you give off? This is a way how!

πŸ’Œ In the ascendant persona chart which dives in deeper on how you present yourself & identity, look at the rising sign (then some 10th placements + signs). Understand it in the normal way you’d understand the rising signs in the natal chart but in more of a subtle way + your natal rising sign combined will be the ultimate vibe + first impression.

πŸ’Œ Someone with a Libra rising in the ascendant persona chart may be seen as conventionally attractive & charming & very aesthetic. Easily liked by everyone. Will give off a venusian vibe more.

🍷 Mars can be activated strongly when you are doing a sport or something to fuel up energy.

πŸ’Œ Because of this you’ll see people with an exalted & domicile mars & strong mars (Scorpio Mars, Capricorn Mars, Aries mars); more easily able to fuel up the energy for competitiveness therefore being able to win more & etc. This isn’t to say other mars placements don’t have this ability! Because they do 100%! But they will need a good routine! For example a Cancer mars needs to have all their security and comfortable needs met 100% before fueling up Mars energy.

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🍷 Scorpio in your chart can show what you are very private about.

πŸ’Œ Ex; Scorpio in 9th could be secretive about their roots & who they truly are & some of their beliefs & maybe stuff like their age.

πŸ’ŒEx; Scorpio in 4th= Secretive about family & doesn’t wanna be in a vulnerable spot & secretive about how they truly feel and so on.

🍷 Aries in your chart will show where you will have to be a leader and where you will fight endlessly to victory.

πŸ’Œ Ex; Aries in 1st could be someone who constantly fights for themselves. People may try to rumor about them or make rash assumptions quite quick. People may see them as β€œangry” where they are just standing up for themselves. In a positive note, they are someone people follow because of their independence. I call this a natural leader who may let you in their soft circle if you’re worthy. ( Libra in 7th)

πŸ’Œ Ex; Aries in 4th fighting for their emotions. Could have conflicting emotions and may try to fight themselves on things. Strong emotions. They may protect their family at all costs perhaps their mother but look at the whole chart. Protects their heart. Will fight for security that may have been stolen from them. πŸ’ŒOne thing about a Pluto in 10th is that they need to keep their true self private. They may feel as if they have to truly hide who they are in order to feel safe. People with this placement are more likely to deal with jealous people some that are jealous of their success and reputation. Because of this there is rumors around their reputation people who wanna try to bring them down, yet it doesn’t work.. they have this powerful aura.

πŸ’Œ A lot of people with Pluto in 10th struggle with dominant authorities, this could come as a form of a argumentative dad & the dad could have scorpio placements. Something about the dad could’ve scarred them or empowered them in a way. Usually when you ask them their relationship with the dad or authority figures it’s a complex answer.

πŸ’Œ Some people are scared to confront a Pluto in 10th individual cause they know they got powerful people to bite back with them. All the jealous ill words are always behind their back never to them directly.

🌹Where Chiron is placed in your chart is where you can have the power to heal others.

Ex; Chiron in 1st individuals will always hype up everyone & boost everyone’s ego and confidence because they know how hard and bad it is to feel down and neglected. They sympathize through who you are and your potential.

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🌹🍹Want a pro tip of what your future spouse & soulmate may be like? (This is all very complex and a lot has to be taken into consideration.)

Juno’s ways

What is Juno in astrology?

Look at your Juno sign & the degree of it. The degree will matter a lot.

Ex; Juno in a Sagittarius degree: (9 & 21) Knowledgeable spouse & could meet in college or learning areas. May meet while traveling. Traveling is relevant. Marriage will be prominent as well (like actual commitment.) Educated spouse & family. Spouse could have sagittarius placements.

Alma’s ways

πŸ’Œ This asteroid is great for ultimate soulmate connections & your best soulmate. Check out my throughout alma post here.

πŸ’Œ Ex; Alma in a Scorpio degree (8 & 20) Soulmate connections have a great intensity involved. May attract soulmates who need healing and trouble soulmates (soulmates with trouble lives.) More of a potential to attract karmic soulmates. The ultimate love. A very passionate love & a bond you can’t destroy. A feeling of knowing each other beyond this lifetime.

πŸ’Œ Gemini placements astrology creators may like to post astrology observations more than anything because it lets them express their thoughts without a responsibility of keeping order & track of what they are writing. (If it it makes sense.. so you can jump to a topic to another more easily than a formal Mars sign post) That’s what Gemini placements like to do for stimulation.

πŸ’Œ Sagittarius placements just wants someone that gets them if that makes sense. Sagittarius placements can be very social & fun.. sure but they may disappear out of nowhere & change plans because a Sagittarius placement is always moving & so is their moods. They may be someone you talk to for days then they randomly need a lot of alone time then they bounce back.

πŸ’Œ Virgo mercuries are one of my absolute favorites. You’ll never hear bullshit come out of their mouths because they have already planned it out so well. They are very good advice givers because of their analytical nature. You can rely on them for advice. I really love them. Though.. they may over-think things like interactions & what to say.. Socializing can get very tiring for them. They need constant breaks for the mind since they can get stressed quite easily.

πŸ’Œ People with natal mercury retrograde may experience devices glitching on them more & technology problems. Like they may rage at the internet lmao. This can also at the same time make them addicted & love the internet. Also I’ve noticed people with this placement tend to attract people who misunderstand what they say and at worse can twist it. They may see themselves having communication problems in relationships, netherless working on this will be able to fix this. They can be very big homey people who think too much and keep their circle small. I’ve noticed they may have hard time expressing what they truly mean. On a positive note.. they always come up with really innovative ideas like wow how did you think about that?

πŸ’Œ Don’t ever push a Capricorn mercury too much. Capricorn mercuries say what they mean & have a power tone to it. (As you should!) Asking the wrong questions & putting your nose where it doesn’t belong will really throw them off. However, you may be quite skeptical of information that comes around you.. do try to be more open to it.

πŸ’Œ Scorpio mercuries / 8th mercuries always amaze me. They know so much more than they let off. If they suspect you.. it’s over.. they’ll play their cards right until they get exactly what they need to see. Their intuition is always right about things & people. But they may have the tendency to not trust anything at all.

🍹🌹 Where Capricorn is in your chart is where you will face most heavy karma experiences.

πŸ’Œ Ex; Capricorn in 11th: Karmic experiences with the internet. May meet & be-friend older people online and that could cause karma. Karmic experiences with friend groups. It may take a while & later on in life for the individual to find solid friends who they trust. Karmic experiences with goals and inspirations; needs a solid ground on them.

πŸ’Œ Virgo risings / Virgo in 1st have the habit of being too critical of their appearance they are making & especially their physical appearance. Please remind your local Virgo rising that they are beautiful and loved. They tend to have a road to self love. They love to make others feel special though.

🍹🌹 Where Leo is in your chart is where you seek praise & have an easy time getting it.

Ex; Leo in 6th= You may want & get praise for your work you do. You want praise on how you handle yourself. In a negative note, praise may become something they rely on at some point. Like positive feedbacks to their work and etc.

πŸ’Œ People with Gemini in 4th may have a family with a lot of talking & information spread like wildfire. May have a gossipy family & who has all the tea. At worse could indicate lies around the home & twisted information. Mother may be very quick and intelligent but also may have a family who was very quick to snap back at things.

πŸ’Œ People with Rahu in 1st have a very beautiful physical beauty to them. They tend to have a feature that stands out. (Vedic Astrology + more on my blog<3)

πŸ’Œ I really love Cancer Venuses / Venus in 4th they do their best to take care of everyone but needs to at times take care of themselves more. They provide everyone a safe home especially for venting and etc. Make sure people don’t take advantage of you because of this.

πŸ’Œ Look into the ruler of the 4th house for more information on your family life & early environment.

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2 years ago

how to live your life like the BRATZ β™‘

How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘
How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘

self love & confidence!!

living life everyday with self-respect and self love will take you such a far way in all aspects of life, and will make your life more enjoyable and easy. make sure you take the time out of your day to remind yourself just how amazing and capable you are. be your own best friend. understand that what you focus on grows.

How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘
How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘

self care !!

you deserve to be treated with the upmost care. schedule times to pamper yourself and also check in with yourself.

taking care of your mind and body goes hand and hand.

for caring for your mind:

meditate, journal your thoughts down, do some yoga, connect to your religion/spirituality if you follow one, make affirmations for yourself that cater to your needs, practice gratitude.

for caring for your body:

create your own spa! indulge in a bubble bath or relaxing shower where you can use yummy scented body washes/soaps/exfoliators and body conditioners, do a hair mask give yourself a manicure and pedicure, do your eyebrows, have a set skincare routine that is catered personally to your skin problems/goals, give yourself a head massage, wear matching or yummy scented lotions and perfumes, work out, trying new delicious recipes and making sure you are eating good for your body.

How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘
How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘

hobbies !!

all of the girls had their own hobbies they were into! explore new hobbies or start the ones you’ve always been wanting to do but have been putting off! not only are they fun but they enhance your life! you get to learn more about yourself and find out possible hidden talents or grow new ones, you meet new people and make new friends too whether it’s you doing the actual hobby or running across someone who enjoys the same things that you do! some hobbies to consider:

any dance class: ballet, hip-hop, k-pop etc.

photography

any sport: tennis, ice skating, golfing, etc.

gardening

reading & writing

camping

crafting

blogging

cooking & baking

How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘
How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘

school and personal goals !!

one thing i love about the bratz is that they took their education seriously and helped each other whenever one of them needed the help. nothing is more fabulous than being educated and ambitious. you can do anything you put your mind to. οΏΌ

create a study schedule for yourself and limit your distractions, when it’s time to study put your phone away and remove anything that you know will serve as a distraction to you, give yourself breaks from here and there too!

create a vision board! cut and paste pictures of things you want for your future onto a poster board or be creative and draw and color everything out! this is a great reminder everyday for yourself if you put it somewhere you’ll be able to see whenever you wake up or a spot in your room that you’re always looking at for example. (what you focus on grows!)

jot down all the things you want to do or improve on, whether thats creating good habits for yourself, learning a new language, etc.

How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘
How To Live Your Life Like The BRATZ β™‘

have a passion for fashion !!

would this be a how to live your life like the BRATZ without it? explore and find your own fashion sense! find out what colors and patterns make you happy, express yourself through your clothing, shop until you drop and have fun!!

2 years ago

✦ . ππ„π‘π’πˆπ’π“π„ππ‚π„: 𝐭𝐑𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐒𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐒𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐒𝐧𝐠

✦ . ππ„π‘π’πˆπ’π“π„ππ‚π„: 𝐭𝐑𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐒𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐭

so we all know how self concept is one of the big keys to manifestation. how you view yourself in relation to the world around you is extremely important and can greatly affect how you manifest. however, there is another key to manifestation that often gets overlooked and that is persistence.Β 

now i understand why. it can be HARD! of course, manifesting in general is very easy but it does require a certain amount of discipline and mental work. when it truly gets difficult for most people is when an unfavorable circumstance happens in your 3d (external) reality. everything seems to be going alright then all of a sudden you start seeing the opposite of your desire or you're in a situation that makes you feel a negative way. suddenly, you start to question and doubt yourself and even start spiraling, not knowing what to do.Β 

if this is something that you’re experiencing right now DON’T WORRY! in this post i will be sharing how to get yourself back on track and how to PERSIST no matter what you’re seeing in the 3d.Β 

✦ . ππ„π‘π’πˆπ’π“π„ππ‚π„: 𝐭𝐑𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐒𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐭

𝐈. what exactly does it mean to persist?

Β Β Β perΒ·sistΒ Β /pΙ™rˈsist/ verb

continue firmly or obstinately in an opinion or a course of action in spite of difficulty, opposition, or failure.

in other words, persisting means to continue to pursue a certain goal despite the difficulties or obstacles that come in the way of that goal.Β 

in the context of manifestation, this means that we continue to dwell in your new assumption no matter what the 3d is showing you.Β 

𝐈𝐈. why is persisting so important?

why perisisting is important can be summed up in one of my favorite quotes by neville goddard:

"an assumption, though false, if persisted in will harden into fact."

this is the basis of the law of assumption. no matter how "crazy" or outlandish an assumption may be, no matter how delusional you feel, even if you don't believe a single WORD of your assumption, if you persist in that assumption it will ALWAYS become true. the 3d will always, without a doubt, conform to this assumption.

this is why persisting is absolutely key when manifesting, especially when first starting off. when faced with an unfavorable circumstances, you can trust that the 3d will always change and conform to your new assumption when you persist.

✦ . ππ„π‘π’πˆπ’π“π„ππ‚π„: 𝐭𝐑𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐒𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐭

𝐈𝐈𝐈. how do i persist?

i touched on persisting in a previous post i made about ignoring the 3d, but essentially, to persist means to live completely in your 4d (inner reality) and to disregard any unfavorable circustances that the 3d may throw at you. literally think of your imagination as the ONLY true reality that matters to you. when you see something you don't like on the outside, turn inwards to your imagination and live within.

in other words, think the thoughts you would have if you already had your desire. don't let yourself and your mind be swayed by outer circumstances, because they don't MATTER!

β€œhelp, im spiraling!”

sometimes, it become difficult to immediately persist despite the 3d and we get into a spiral of doubt, fear, worry, sadness, etc. no worries, here’s a simple step by step guide to getting out of a spiral! (original ask)

1. stop everything + relax

β€œthe main cause of a spiral is usually a result of seeing something unfavorable in the 3d and becoming overwhelmed. you feel like it’s difficult to change the circumstance. therefore you force yourself to go 2x harder trying to β€œfix” the 3d, (personally, i tend to affirm even more, repress emotions, over-consume info), which ultimately makes you feel worse. so, i would recommend that you take a break from ALL things manifesting-related for a few days to a week. delete tumblr, instagram, unsubscribe from loa youtube channels, whatever. in this time period, i suggest that you doΒ meditation and journalΒ out your feelings. let yourself feel any emotions and vent out whatever’s bothering you. don’t keep it all bottled up. do some deep breathing and take some time for yourself!”

2. work on your self-concept ONLY

β€œafter you feel like you’ve taken enough time β€œoff” from manifesting consciously, now you can start easing back in. i recommend choosing 1-3 self-concept affirmations to repeat throughout your day whenever you feel like it, or when you’re inΒ SATS. i’d suggest working on your self-concept for another few days to a few weeks, (and forever honestly, cause self concept is all you really need).

here are someΒ neutral affirmations and some good self concept affirmations!”

3. be still and know…and don’t seek validation from the 3d

β€œthis isn’t really a β€œstep” but just a good mindset to implement. you guys, when you’re truly in the state of KNOWING, whether it be knowing you’ll get your desires or knowing you already have your desires, you will be much less likely to spiral. why? well, as i stated in the first point, we spiral primarily bc we experienced something unfavorable in the 3d. but when we’re in the state of knowing, we KNOW that the 3d is temporary and that our desires ARE COMING!! it’sΒ inevitable, therefore there’s no reason to spiral over something that won’t even last.”

✦ . ππ„π‘π’πˆπ’π“π„ππ‚π„: 𝐭𝐑𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐒𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐭

πˆπ•. fun ways to persist!

so at this point you might be thinking, "ok i know persisting is important but it still seems hard and kinda boring!" well don't worry, here are some fun methods and techniques to help make persisting fun and easy :)

3DOL x ROE challenge

this is a super fun challenge by @starliet and @cleostoohot, in which you affirm in a way that implies that you always manifest in 3 days or less and you manifest everything regardless of everything (ROE). this is a great way to practice persistence because it reminds yourself that regardless of literally any circumstance, you can still manifest your desires (in a very short amount of time too)!

SATS

SATS, or state akin to sleep, is a method in which you visualize/affirm in a drowsy and sleepy state until you either fall asleep or feel completly natural in your new assumption. this is both an easy and relaxing method that is also extremly effective! here's a few posts on SATS, 1 & 2, that go into more depth.

vaunting

vaunting is a super fun way to affirm where you combine a bunch of affirmations together and turn it into an inner conversation. the reason why it's so effective is bc it makes persisting and living in the end feel more real and natural. @sexyandhedonistic explains her method here!

𝐕. conclusion

to wrap up, persistence, while sometimes hard, is extremly important to manifest your desires! the best thing to do is to remember your power and remind yourself that whatever happens you will manifest everything you want no matter what! remain faithful to your new assumptions and don't let outer circumstances rattle you. you are the operant creator and everything HAS to go your way no matter what! don't ever give up. persist, persist, persist, ALWAYS! the 3D will always conform to you!

✦ . ππ„π‘π’πˆπ’π“π„ππ‚π„: 𝐭𝐑𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐒𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐭

Β© celestialheartbeat - 2022

2 years ago

β™‘ Romantic life affirmations β™‘

I am grateful that I live a romantic life

Romance comes easily to me

I am surrounded by romance every day

Everything that surrounds me is my definition of beautiful

I have many charming and charismatic features

My life feels like a romantic movie

Life is beautiful

I am a charm

My desired person is completely in love with me

I am living the most romantic life

It is natural for me to romanticize life

Happiness is simple I am always motivated to start my day with gratitude

I live intentionally and mindfully

Every new and fresh opportunity opens itself up to me right now

I truly believe in my own abilities and strengths

All my wildest dreams have come true

I am living in pure bliss

Isn’t it lovely that I have everything I could ever imagine

Love and abundance flow easily to me

I am experiencing my romantic life right now

I am experiencing my dream life right now

I have mastered all of my desired skills and talents

Happiness is inevitable for me

I get everyone’s admiration and respect

I have luck and success in every aspect of my life

I am free from overwhelming emotions

I have infinite opportunities

I have a beautiful and glowing aura

I only attract high and positive energy

I am loved by all who surround me

My life is filled with meaningful connections

I am currently living my ideal aesthetic life

I am mentally and physically healthy

I show myself kindness, care and compassion as well as others

My life is like my Pinterest mood board

I am like a quiet walk through a forest after it rained

I know what I am here to do and I am achieving it

I am filled with confidence no matter what I am doing

Others admire my romantic lifestyle

Everything works for me right now

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