Saw This One Joke That "affirming For Anything Feels Like Gaslighting Yourself". Law Of Assumption Doesn't

saw this one joke that "affirming for anything feels like gaslighting yourself". law of assumption doesn't teach you to ignore or deny your feelings, it simply teaches you that you're god & your thoughts don't control you, you control them. you don't have to 'gaslight' yourself into thinking that everything in your 3D is fine. instead know that :

there's no need to be angry or frustrated at yourself for what you've manifested. it was your creation & you can recreate or uncreate it in the same way using your thoughts.

the 3D is not your enemy. you live in the end because you don't hold a grudge against yourself for creating this current circumstance in the first place. you accept your responsibility & focus on what you want instead. you know that your 3D is constantly shifting & has to always conform to your affirmations eventually.

you're allowed to react & it doesn't have to affect any of your manifestations if you assume the same. cry, have a proper disney princess style breakdown, it's okay if it lasts for hours or days, but when you're done, you're done. pick yourself up & persist again.

why will you always get your desires? because you're worthy & you deserve to, that's why. also because you're a god who came here to experience love, peace, luxury, orgasms, happiness, cats, good food, health & success. there's nothing wrong in knowing what you deserve. let this be the reason why you know you will always get what you desire. ♡

✦ . 𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐒𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄: 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠

so we all know how self concept is one of the big keys to manifestation. how you view yourself in relation to the world around you is extremely important and can greatly affect how you manifest. however, there is another key to manifestation that often gets overlooked and that is persistence.

now i understand why. it can be HARD! of course, manifesting in general is very easy but it does require a certain amount of discipline and mental work. when it truly gets difficult for most people is when an unfavorable circumstance happens in your 3d (external) reality. everything seems to be going alright then all of a sudden you start seeing the opposite of your desire or you're in a situation that makes you feel a negative way. suddenly, you start to question and doubt yourself and even start spiraling, not knowing what to do.

if this is something that you’re experiencing right now DON’T WORRY! in this post i will be sharing how to get yourself back on track and how to PERSIST no matter what you’re seeing in the 3d.

𝐈. what exactly does it mean to persist?

per·sist /pərˈsist/ verb

continue firmly or obstinately in an opinion or a course of action in spite of difficulty, opposition, or failure.

in other words, persisting means to continue to pursue a certain goal despite the difficulties or obstacles that come in the way of that goal.

in the context of manifestation, this means that we continue to dwell in your new assumption no matter what the 3d is showing you.

𝐈𝐈. why is persisting so important?

why perisisting is important can be summed up in one of my favorite quotes by neville goddard:

"an assumption, though false, if persisted in will harden into fact."

this is the basis of the law of assumption. no matter how "crazy" or outlandish an assumption may be, no matter how delusional you feel, even if you don't believe a single WORD of your assumption, if you persist in that assumption it will ALWAYS become true. the 3d will always, without a doubt, conform to this assumption.

this is why persisting is absolutely key when manifesting, especially when first starting off. when faced with an unfavorable circumstances, you can trust that the 3d will always change and conform to your new assumption when you persist.

𝐈𝐈𝐈. how do i persist?

i touched on persisting in a previous post i made about ignoring the 3d, but essentially, to persist means to live completely in your 4d (inner reality) and to disregard any unfavorable circustances that the 3d may throw at you. literally think of your imagination as the ONLY true reality that matters to you. when you see something you don't like on the outside, turn inwards to your imagination and live within.

in other words, think the thoughts you would have if you already had your desire. don't let yourself and your mind be swayed by outer circumstances, because they don't MATTER!

“help, im spiraling!”

sometimes, it become difficult to immediately persist despite the 3d and we get into a spiral of doubt, fear, worry, sadness, etc. no worries, here’s a simple step by step guide to getting out of a spiral! (original ask)

1. stop everything + relax

“the main cause of a spiral is usually a result of seeing something unfavorable in the 3d and becoming overwhelmed. you feel like it’s difficult to change the circumstance. therefore you force yourself to go 2x harder trying to “fix” the 3d, (personally, i tend to affirm even more, repress emotions, over-consume info), which ultimately makes you feel worse. so, i would recommend that you take a break from ALL things manifesting-related for a few days to a week. delete tumblr, instagram, unsubscribe from loa youtube channels, whatever. in this time period, i suggest that you do meditation and journal out your feelings. let yourself feel any emotions and vent out whatever’s bothering you. don’t keep it all bottled up. do some deep breathing and take some time for yourself!”

2. work on your self-concept ONLY

“after you feel like you’ve taken enough time “off” from manifesting consciously, now you can start easing back in. i recommend choosing 1-3 self-concept affirmations to repeat throughout your day whenever you feel like it, or when you’re in SATS. i’d suggest working on your self-concept for another few days to a few weeks, (and forever honestly, cause self concept is all you really need).

here are some neutral affirmations and some good self concept affirmations!”

3. be still and know…and don’t seek validation from the 3d

“this isn’t really a “step” but just a good mindset to implement. you guys, when you’re truly in the state of KNOWING, whether it be knowing you’ll get your desires or knowing you already have your desires, you will be much less likely to spiral. why? well, as i stated in the first point, we spiral primarily bc we experienced something unfavorable in the 3d. but when we’re in the state of knowing, we KNOW that the 3d is temporary and that our desires ARE COMING!! it’s inevitable, therefore there’s no reason to spiral over something that won’t even last.”

𝐈𝐕. fun ways to persist!

so at this point you might be thinking, "ok i know persisting is important but it still seems hard and kinda boring!" well don't worry, here are some fun methods and techniques to help make persisting fun and easy :)

3DOL x ROE challenge

this is a super fun challenge by @starliet and @cleostoohot, in which you affirm in a way that implies that you always manifest in 3 days or less and you manifest everything regardless of everything (ROE). this is a great way to practice persistence because it reminds yourself that regardless of literally any circumstance, you can still manifest your desires (in a very short amount of time too)!

SATS

SATS, or state akin to sleep, is a method in which you visualize/affirm in a drowsy and sleepy state until you either fall asleep or feel completly natural in your new assumption. this is both an easy and relaxing method that is also extremly effective! here's a few posts on SATS, 1 & 2, that go into more depth.

vaunting

vaunting is a super fun way to affirm where you combine a bunch of affirmations together and turn it into an inner conversation. the reason why it's so effective is bc it makes persisting and living in the end feel more real and natural. @sexyandhedonistic explains her method here!

𝐕. conclusion

to wrap up, persistence, while sometimes hard, is extremly important to manifest your desires! the best thing to do is to remember your power and remind yourself that whatever happens you will manifest everything you want no matter what! remain faithful to your new assumptions and don't let outer circumstances rattle you. you are the operant creator and everything HAS to go your way no matter what! don't ever give up. persist, persist, persist, ALWAYS! the 3D will always conform to you!

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loalily

2 years ago

i am irresistible to him

i am a magnet for his love and attention

i literally have him wrapped around my finger

he’s obsessed and completely infatuated with me

i am his true love

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loalily

11 months ago

★ Scripting your new life ★

~ these are a few ideas for scripting your new life / making your manifestation boards ~

Financial / Business :

Income you want to make

The title you would like to acquire

Where are you working

A business you'd like to start

What do you wear to work

Relationships :

The type of lover you wish to attract

Types of friends you'd love to be around

Lessons you'd like to share with others

How many children do you want

How do you show your love to others

What characteristics does your ideal s/o have

Health :

What are your health goals in the next 6m / year

What is your ideal body type

Health habits you would like to start

What are you eating to stay fit

How does your new body feel

Personal :

How does your new room look

Books you would like to read

Places your new self will visit

A problem you would like to solve

How do you dress every day

Where do you live

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loalily

2 years ago

self concept affirmations i think could be useful

I have an amazing and perfect self concept, mindset, and mental diet.

I can easily change my assumptions to my own benefit.

Life goes according to my desired assumptions.

I have the solid assumption and unwavering faith that my desires are inevitable no matter what.

I always assume my desires and the best in life.

I am a master at manifesting my desires.

It is easy for me to stay in the state of the wish fulfilled.

Manifesting my desires is fun, easy, effortless, and instant.

I am detached from any negative circumstances from the 3D.

My 3D reality only reflects my desires.

I am the Goddess and operant power of my reality.

Life is a dream I can fully control.

Miracles and blessings occur regardless of my state of mind and emotional state.

Life gets better each and every single day.

I feel SO amazing, happy, and fulfilled more than ever before.

Life is only spontaneous and unpredictable in favorable ways.

I can manifest my desires with any emotional state and state of mind.

All I need to do is affirm and acknowledge my desire and it will manifest.

I am so grateful, lucky, and blessed.

Everything works out in my favor.

Life keeps working out a lot better than expected.

I always get what I want or better.

I can be, do, and have anything I want.

Why should I worry when my negative thoughts never manifest?

I believe in myself and my power.

I love myself truly, deeply, generously, and unconditionally.

I am the priority and main character.

The only thing that’s on the pedestal is myself.

I am the bad-ass bitch that’s above it all.

I have all the love, peace, and happiness I need within.

I am hot, sexy, confident, and beautiful.

I am good enough.

I am worthy.

I am fit to love and be loved.

I am so incredibly loved, I feel amazing and on top of the world.

Everybody loves, adores, and cherishes me.

I am satisfied in all of my relationships

I am smart, knowledgeable, and wise.

I am independent.

I am in great mental health and physical health.

I am free from negative and intrusive thoughts, doubts, and limiting beliefs.

I am financially abundant.

I am limitless.

All of my desires are mine and here now.

I am a magnet to my desires.

I have the most beautiful thoughts and imagination.

My wonderful, human imagination is the only true reality.

My 3D reality has no choice but to conform to my desires.

My life is fulfilling in all aspects; family, friends, love, career, money, you name it!

Everything about my life is so easy to live.

I can’t believe my life is THIS perfect!

I manifest all my desires instantly.

There is no time lag, the 3d conforms to my desires instantly.

All my desires manifest in less than 24 hours.

The 3d rushes to fulfill all of my desires.

Why do all of my desires manifest instantly?

The 3d conforms to my desires alarmingly fast.

Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest my desires instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time

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loalily

2 years ago

✭ 𝐑𝐄𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐆𝐑𝐀𝐌 𝐔𝐑 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃 𝟒 𝐆𝐎𝐎𝐃 ✭

by venuscelebrity

I feel like this post has the potential to shift all of your manifestation journeys to a more positive and successful ass direction. I’ve discovered SOO much these past few weeks regarding how manifesting works that is changing everything. If everyone were to apply this knowledge there will be no questions as to why your manifestation “hasn’t come yet” or why it feels hard for you.

Now look. 90 percent of us are familiar with the whole 10k Affirmation Challenge (repeating affirmations 10,000 times for it to become fact in your mind) This trend has been HUMBLING to say the least. It has made me as well as many others realize how little we are actually affirming for our desires on a daily basis, as our minds are still mostly flooded with BS.

(By the way, I’m NOT making everything about this you don’t have to do that challenge tbh just helps with the point)

If you think 10K thoughts is a LOT, read this:

😳😳😳

NINETY PERCENT OF WHICH ARE REPETITIVE!

And if you’ve seen my last posts, this also coincides with this information in “Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself” by Joe Dispenza, where answers are provided as to why our subconscious tries to revert back to our original thought processes.

THIS is why PERSISTING and REPETITION is so important!! Our bodies try to fight the change it’s not comfortable with.

You have to just make yourself push through that temporarily uncomfortable feeling of not being used to a certain way of thinking.

think about this. you know you aren’t going to accept going back to your old story, so you might as well stop half-assing and letting your old programming have your way every time. It will save you lots of mental frustration due to everyday being a roller coaster (one moment you are so confident have your desires the next you’re unsure and reliving all old past beliefs and circumstances because that’s what you’re comfortable with knowing.)

You will humble yourself so fast like I did if you set timers on your phone for the duration you want to affirm/do ur techniques for your desires. I used to think I’d affirm so long when I wasn’t timing anything until I realized I wasn’t even talking to myself in the mirror for 5 minutes. This is how we see our desired thoughts become dominant

Venus

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loalily

2 years ago

MANIFESTING YOUR SP AFFIRMATIONS

· sp is madly in love with me

· sp is always waiting for me and only me because i am the only one for sp

· sp always sees me everywhere, all the time and in everyone's eyes

· i am sp's favourite obsession

· sp truly adores me with every inch of his body

· all that sp desires is just to be with me because sp needs me, sp needs my presence

· sp worships the floor i walk on

· sp always makes me feel comfortable and special

· sp has truly genuine feelings for me and sp can't help but show them and express them to me in every kind of way

· sp is so deep connected to me and incredibly attracted to me and only me

· sp's soul always loving my soul, his soul is always aligned with mine

· sp always takes cares about me, sp always makes me feel listened, understood and supported

· sp is completely in love with me in every aspect

· i am sp's dream come true

· i am sp's only option and i am the most important priority for my sp

· it's me and it has always been me in sp's life, in sp's mind and in sp's heart

· sp loves making me feel safe, secure and protected at all costs

· sp adores me totally, completely and crazily with their whole heart

· sp is completely dedicated to me in body and soul

· sp only has eyes for me and only for me

· sp is completely devoted to me

· sp is in love with every part of me, sp loves every single detail of me

· i am the most important thing in sp's life, that's why sp prioritizes me above everything and everyone

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loalily

2 years ago

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐓 𝐀𝐅𝐅𝐈𝐑𝐌𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒

‎ ‎ ┈───┈ ┈───┈┈┈───┈ ┈───┈

‎ ‎ 𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐓 𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐒𝐄 ⌵

‎ ‎ I believe in myself.

‎ ‎ I am okay.

‎ ‎ Everything turned out better than expected.

‎ ‎ I am safe.

‎ ‎ I am protected.

‎ ‎ I‘m in control, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

‎ ‎ I always get through anything, no matter how tough it is.

‎ ‎ I’m strong and can endure anything.

‎ ‎ I am grounded.

‎ ‎ I attract only what I truly want.

‎ ‎ I know intrusive thoughts hold no power over me.

‎ ‎ I am proud of myself.

‎ ‎ I am at peace with myself and everything around me.

‎ ‎ My desires are apart of me.

‎ ‎ I love myself.

‎ ‎ I am capable of everything I want to do.

‎ ‎ Nothing can hurt me or my loved ones.

‎ ‎ I feel at ease with everything.

‎ ‎ My fears, worries and doubts have no power over me.

‎ ‎ I know my desires are mine; it’s my birthright.

‎ ‎ ┈───┈ ┈───┈┈┈───┈ ┈───┈

‎‎ ‎ 𝐅𝐔𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐄 𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐒𝐄 ⌵

‎ ‎ These hard times will pass.

‎ ‎ I know these feelings are temporary.

‎ ‎ It’ll all work out better than expected.

‎ ‎ No matter how dark life seems right now, I‘ll end up okay.

‎ ‎ Better things are coming my way.

‎ ‎ I know my desires will be mine; it is my birthright.

‎ ‎ I will get everything I want; it’s inevitable.

‎ ‎ I will be okay.

‎ ‎ My fears will not hurt me or come true.

‎ ‎ I am capable of overcoming this.

‎ ‎ It will all turn out okay.

‎ ‎ I can get through this.

‎ ‎ Life has great things in store for me.

‎ ‎ I got this; I can do anything even if it doesn‘t seem like it.

‎ ‎ ┈───┈ ┈───┈┈┈───┈ ┈───┈

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loalily

2 years ago

SELF CONCEPT

affirmations

I am pampered, loved, well respected and the happiest person in the world

I get everything I want with atmost ease

my mind gives me my desires literally before I even finish desiring them

life is easy for me

I am immune to failure or any bad things happening to me

I am the God of my reality

I've got no competition whatsoever

I am addicted to manifesting, it gets me everything I want

I am addicted to my life

I can't stop being spoiled by my subconscious

I make the universe dance on my little pinky finger

I can feel the unlimited, great power residing with me and I feel confident in my ability to use it

Rant

what the actual fuck lol, manifesting is SO EASY??? like it's LITERAL magic. god I always loved those 'fictional' shows and little did I know I am already living in one as my reality. it's it's fun being able to control the world, like omfg nothing is too much for me. every thing in this universe exists because of me and I can change them whenever tf I want. I love myself and my life, it's so fun and happening!

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