If You Have Time To Worry, You Have Time To Relax.

if you have time to worry, you have time to relax.

doubting, worrying and spiralling lead you to nothing BUT it feels productive as you are doing it because it feels like you are protecting yourself from danger.

doubting is you trying to protect yourself from disappointment. worrying is you trying to predict all future dangers so you can avoid them. spiralling is you just giving into fear.

doubting, worrying and spiralling are all just THOUGHTS. that is what they are. if you learn how to step back and OBSERVE thoughts rather than BECOMING them, you will be free.

if you learn how to watch your thoughts from a healthy detached position, you will no longer be a slave to them.

if you have time to sit and spiral, you have time to learn how to observe. when you observe, your thoughts will naturally dissolve and make way for inner peace.

people won't want to do this because thinking is ADDICTIVE. like an addiction to social media, an addiction to thinking is exactly the same. it's such a normalised addiction though that people don't even notice it. it might not feel easy to break this addiction but it's so worth it.

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2 years ago

π’π“πŽπ π‹π€ππ„π‹πˆππ† π˜πŽπ”π‘ πƒπ„π’πˆπ‘π„π’

π’π“πŽπ π‹π€ππ„π‹πˆππ† π˜πŽπ”π‘ πƒπ„π’πˆπ‘π„π’
π’π“πŽπ π‹π€ππ„π‹πˆππ† π˜πŽπ”π‘ πƒπ„π’πˆπ‘π„π’

𝐓𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 πŽπ… π‚πŽππ“π„ππ“π’ β€”

β€’ WHY YOU PROBABLY LABEL

β€’ LABELS SHOULD NOT EXIST

β€’ EXAMPLES

β€’ HOW TO STOP

π’π“πŽπ π‹π€ππ„π‹πˆππ† π˜πŽπ”π‘ πƒπ„π’πˆπ‘π„π’

βšœοΈβŒ‡π–π‡π˜ π˜πŽπ” ππ‘πŽππ€ππ‹π˜ 𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐄𝐋 . . .

Since our whole lives, we’ve been conditioned to believe we have to work for β€œbig” things such as a job, getting lots of money, etc. But I’m here to tell you, hard work does NOT equal prosperity! Read that again and again until you understand. You don’t need to work hard. You do not have to lift a finger ever. We’ve also been conditioned to believe certain things that aren’t β€˜proven’ by science is false. You do realize that science is … man made as well? Science, logic, etc. are not related to manifesting. Get rid of logic while manifesting; Neville & other people revised once passed away people, back to life. People have manifesting talking hamsters, wings, mind reading powers, etc. ANYTHING and EVERYTHING is possible.

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βšœοΈβŒ‡ πƒπˆπ“π‚π‡ 𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐄𝐋𝐒 ππŽπ– . . .

First of all, things have no value or meaning until YOU yourself give it value/meaning. Read that again and again until you understand. There is no such thing as a small or big desire. Literally. It’s all based on perspective. Manifesting the things you give importance to, compared to manifesting something you don’t care about is no different. Both are within reach and they all have the same process. Labeling your desires as β€˜big’ only hinders you and makes you prone to doubts, struggles, etc. Ditch the labels now.

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βšœοΈβŒ‡π€ 𝐅𝐄𝐖 π„π—π€πŒππ‹π„π’ . . .

I meant it when I said there are no small or big desire. Here are a few examples of what I mean:

- manifesting a penny is as easy as manifesting appearance changes.

- manifesting a sp is as easy as manifesting food.

- manifesting supernatural powers is as easy as manifesting clothes.

- manifesting a mansion is as easy as manifesting free coffee.

- and so on.

β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €

βšœοΈβŒ‡π‡πŽπ– π“πŽ π’π“πŽπ π‹π€ππ„π‹πˆππ† πƒπ„π’πˆπ‘π„π’ . . .

β€’ STOP PUTTING YOUR DESIRES ON A PEDESTAL β€”

Why on earth would you put your desires on a pedestal when you KNOW you’re in control? YOU are the pedestal. Put yourself on a pedestal. Remember, idolizing something = the more prone you’ll be to fear, worry, doubt, etc. You need to realize how everything is within your reach. It’s not and will never be unattainable. Which leads me to my next point . . .

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β€’ SELF CONCEPT β€”

If you are having doubts, worry, etc. You should really work on self concept! If you think you can’t manifest certain things, you don’t believe you’re limitless then, when in fact, you ARE limitless. Working on self concept leads to you being confident, no longer having worries/doubts, which results in FASTER manifesting. Self concept is essential and there’s a reason why Neville Goddard and many bloggers recommend it.

❝ Before planting a seed (your desire), make sure the soil (self concept) is good. ❞

Working on self concept saves you from future stress and frustrations. Begin to have unwavering confidence; embody it and watch how the world reflects that.

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β€’ REGARDING THE 3D β€”

Ok Starliet, but how do we not spiral from the 3D? How can I know I have my desire when the 3D doesn’t show that? Here are analogies that truly helped me with this:

- When it’s raining, you are confident that the sun is still there. You are confident that the rain will leave. No matter the weather, you KNOW the sun will rise and set. Now see this in relation to your outer reality. Your 3D may show you rainstorms, but that doesn’t mean the sun (your desires) doesn’t exist.

- When you’re at the movie theaters, you don’t get worried or doubtful about a bad ending, because you KNOW the ending will be fine. Now, see this in relation to manifesting. Don’t get worried or doubtful over your manifestations β€” You too will get that amazing ending because once you KNOW you have your desires, that is exactly what your 3D will show you.

Take a leap of faith and persist in the assumption that you have / will get your desires. What do you have to lose? Nothing. What would you gain? Everything, so take that leap of faith; what are you waiting for?

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βšœοΈβŒ‡πŽπ”π“π‘πŽ . . .

There is truly nothing out of your reach, darlings. What are you doing feeling limited? Aren’t you God? That’s not very Godly feeling limited, right? You ARE God, you ARE in control, you can have anything you want and EVERYTHING is easy to manifest. That is the truth and your refusal to believe that is the only reason why you are struggling!

To end this post, STOP. LABELING. YOUR. DESIRES. NOW.

2 years ago

For the 10k challenge, Is it 10 k affirmations in one day or 10k affirmations within 5 days?

From @98VIPER on twitter:

For The 10k Challenge, Is It 10 K Affirmations In One Day Or 10k Affirmations Within 5 Days?
For The 10k Challenge, Is It 10 K Affirmations In One Day Or 10k Affirmations Within 5 Days?
For The 10k Challenge, Is It 10 K Affirmations In One Day Or 10k Affirmations Within 5 Days?

This is about you, and this is FOR YOU. Everyone is going to have a different take on it, and everyone is going to have a different level to challenge themselves on. What I mean is someone may find it easier to do it in one day because they already affirm often. We’re all starting at different points. I personally just affirm as much as I can, I remind myself to affirm when my mind just goes off and starts worrying about stressful things in my life or when I start worrying about my manifestations or when my mind is just wasting precious time and energy on thoughts that aren’t my manifestation. I just bring myself back to my desired thoughts. I use a counter to keep track and to motivate myself to affirm more. It will only get easier and become automatic so you can set a small goal for yourself and you will automatically hit higher and higher goals. You can do one day, 5 or 7. You could find a version of the 10k challenge someone else designed and stick to that, or you can make your own. This is about you and it’ll work no matter what.

2 years ago

Self-love affirmations

Self-love Affirmations
Self-love Affirmations
Self-love Affirmations

β™‘ i am the god of my reality and i create all the beautiful things i deserve

β™‘ i am unique and i can’t be replaced

β™‘ i accept that i deserve all the love that is surrounding me

β™‘ i am proud of the person i am

β™‘ i choose myself over anyone and everything

β™‘ i am worthy of joy and happiness

β™‘ i am worthy of love

β™‘ I deserve everything i desire

β™‘ i am the most beautiful human being in the universe

β™‘ i always have positive thoughts about myself

β™‘ i love myself

β™‘ i radiate love, confidence and success

β™‘ i am the reason why i smile everyday

β™‘ I’m in love with my body and personality

β™‘ i am grateful for the person i am

β™‘ i am enough

β™‘ i choose me everyday

β™‘ i am learning to love and accept myself more and more everyday

β™‘ everyday i love myself more than the day before

β™‘ my past doesn’t describe who i am today

β™‘ no one is like me

2 years ago

🧑HERMIONE GRANGER EFFECT 🧑

🧑HERMIONE GRANGER EFFECT 🧑

🧑I'm the brightest student of my age

πŸ§™πŸ»β€β™€οΈI'm a whole package - I'm very smart & intelligent , loyal , beautiful , witty , caring & brave , hardworking

🀎I'm known for my intelligence and bravery .

πŸͺ„I'm knowledgeable, practical & logical

πŸ“šI'm the person who knows it all , I'm never wrong .

🧑I'm extremely dedicated & committed to my studies.

🧑HERMIONE GRANGER EFFECT 🧑

🀎I value learning for the sake of it .

πŸͺ„I'm ambitious

πŸ“šI'm righteous, I always stand up for what I believe in .

🧑I'm full of curiosity, I love to read books

πŸ§™πŸ»β€β™€οΈI have a strong willpower & determination

🀎I'm always organized , what is procrastination???

πŸ§™πŸ»β€β™€οΈI'm independent and I only depend on myself for protection or entertainment .

🧑HERMIONE GRANGER EFFECT 🧑

πŸͺ„I am very opinionated & unafraid to disagree with others .

πŸ“šI am okay with being slightly nerdy & bossy

🀎I'm secure & comfortable In who I am

πŸ§™πŸ»β€β™€οΈI'm an inspiration to everyone around me

🧑I'm compassionate

πŸͺ„I radiate gryffindor house vibes .

πŸ“šI Have all the traits required to be in Griyffindor - talent , courage , determination & chivalry .

I tried my best !!

🧑HERMIONE GRANGER EFFECT 🧑
2 years ago
loalily - Dreamgirl
loalily - Dreamgirl

AFFIRMATIONS TO MANIFEST YOUR SP

Β· i am living the most beautiful love, sp writes me letters, sp kisses my hands, sp reads to me, sp leaves me notes, sp dances with me, sp gives me everything i want and more

Β· sp consistently gives me passionate love

Β· sp simply enjoys having me living on their mind every second of their day

Β· sp's love for me is so genuine, pure and beautiful

Β· sp prays for my well being in every aspect of life always

Β· sp genuinely loves me with their whole soul and heart

Β· sp always opens up to me, sp expresses their feelings for me genuinely, sp always needs to tell me and show me how important i am for them

Β· sp knows how wonderful life is because i exist

Β· sp wants me so bad, sp wants to be in my heart, sp wants to belong in my heart

Β· sp is crazy for me, sp loves me crazily

Β· there is nothing in this world that sp wouldn't do for me

Β· sp doesn't hesitate any second to show me how worthy i am of all the best in the world

Β· sp wants to give me all his time and all his attention always

Β· i'm always on sp's mind, i'm always on sp's thoughts

Β· sp is texting me, calling me and checking on me all the time

Β· sp adores loving me, sp desires me crazily and deeply

Β· sp is obsessed with me in the most healthy and beautiful way

Β· sp can't think in anything else except me because sp simply doesn't want to stop thinking about me any second

Β· sp loves me with every cell of their body

Β· sp's soul desires my soul

2 years ago

Specific person affirmations

Specific Person Affirmations
Specific Person Affirmations
Specific Person Affirmations

β™‘ my sp calls me and messages me everyday

β™‘ my sp is always thinking of me

β™‘ I am everything my sp ever wanted

β™‘ my sp dreams about me every night

β™‘ my sp thinks i am the only right person for them

β™‘ i feel so loved when i am with my sp

β™‘ my sp wants me to be with them forever

β™‘ me and my sp have the perfect relationship

β™‘ my sp is so obsessed with me

β™‘ my sp always takes care of me

β™‘ my sp makes me feel safe

β™‘ my sp loves spending time with me

β™‘ my sp just can’t get enough of me

β™‘ i am the best thing that ever happened to my sp

2 years ago

πŸ’appearance/self concept affirmations (part two)πŸ’

never had a glowup because i never needed one, i’ve always been perfect.

i don’t desire a glowup, a glowup desires me.

i am way too attractive to be reacting to the 3d.

i am so attractive that the greek gods are asking me for beauty advice.

i’m so damn sexy that i literally turn myself on by looking in the mirror.

i’m sexy and i know it.

i am so gorgeous/handsome/attractive that every modeling agency is fighting over me 😩.

i look good in everything i wear.

i look good in every photo taken of me.

i am so perfect that i can’t go to the mall without every single person staring at me.

pretty privilege exists, i literally have it.

my appearance is perfect & ideal, always has been.

i receive compliments about my perfect appearance everywhere i go.

i’ve never been called unattractive, not even as a joke, because everyone knows that i look good asf.

all i do is sit there and look good 24/7.

everyone tells me that i’m perfection in human form.

i’m literally #1 on the worlds most attractive male/female/person list.

my face has no flaws, my body has no flaws, i’m literal perfection.

my appearance is flawless.

i look perfect in every single photo ever taken of me.

i was born perfect.

i’ve been flawless my whole entire life.

i think i should be in museums because my body’s a masterpiece (s*x talk by megan thee stallion)

people always say no one’s perfect until they see me.

my beauty/handsomeness/attractiveness is unattainable.

my beauty/handsomeness/attractiveness is out of this multiverse.

my beauty/handsomeness/attractiveness is out of this whole mf dimension.

i am so mf perfect that cars stop just to look at me, people honk their horns when they see me, everyone stops what they’re doing just to stare at my fine a*ss. people open doors for me, people offer to pay for whatever i want, people treat me like a prince/princess/king/queen. i love being perfect.

2 years ago

GETTING AND SUSTAINING COMMITMENT - AFFIRMATION TAPE TEMPLATE

Hello my loves, happy new year! To cut it short it has come to my attention that men seem to worship me but β€œtotally DONT” get real weird when there’s serious commitment involved and their friends β€œtotally don’t” start to piss me off and my dates and quality time are β€œtotally not” screwed up, SOooOo I decided to create an β€œinjection” of flipped beliefs towards it, so if ur done with fuckery too, buckle up ur seatbelts!!

If y’all have been here for a while u already know. Go to ReadLoud and pass there onto ur box and adapt as u like. I always choose Sally voice and speed 3.

β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”β€”

Everybody knows that I’m a good person and that I didn’t do anything wrong.

Once I decide I want them, they see me in a perfect light forever and only think highly of me.

Everything always goes well for me.

Once I decide I love them, they love me even more and never give up on me.

Once I decide I love them, they love me even more permanently and it never goes away.

Once I decide I want to commit to them, they want to commit to me even more and never give up on me.

Once I decide I want to commit to them, they are sure they want to commit to me immediately and for the rest of their lives.

We want to commit to each other. We are always safe, secure and happy to commit to each other, we are sure of it. And we are not scared because we know only good and amazing things await us as a couple.

We are always able to sustain our commitment and our desired lifestyle with each other.

He always wants the same exact things with me that I do with him.

Once I decide I want them, their friends, family and career always come second to me.

Once I decide I want them, they refuse to be with anyone that isn’t me in any way.

Once I decide I want them, they do everything to be around me and live with me.

Once I decide I want them, there is nothing in my way.

Once I decide I want them, everything and everyone brings us together. We get along perfectly and our bond grows even stronger.

Once I decide I want them, we become inseparable and everything goes well for us.

Once I decide I want them, I become their favorite person.

Once I decide I want them, they will do literally anything to be with me and our relationship becomes the number one priority to them.

Once I decide I want them, nothing is more important than me to them and they act like it.

Once I decide I want them, I’m the only one they like, love, want, are attracted to and connect with.

Once I decide I want them, I’m the only one they need.

Once I decide I want them, we automatically belong together and no one can take my place.

Once I decide I want them, they can’t be taken from me.

Once I decide I want them, everyone and everything else is nothing compared to me.

Once I decide I want them, everyone and everything else is a joke compared to me.

Once I decide I want them, they gladly and immediately abandon everything that doesn’t serve our relationship.

Once I decide I want them, they don’t care about anyone but me.

Once I decide I want them, they want me even more and nothing nor anyone can change their mind about staying with me.

Once I decide I want them, nothing nor anyone can keep them away from me.

Once I decide I want them, they can’t get enough of me.

Once I decide I care for them, they care for me even more and consistently prove it to me.Β 

Once I decide I care for them, me and our relationship is all they care about.

They always want to support me and it brings them joy to take care of me.

I am never asking for too much. People will gladly do anything for me above all things.

Once I decide I want them, they always put in consistent effort into me and into our relationship.

Once I decide I want them, they’re always respectful, sweet and affectionate to me. They always treat me like a god and they always appreciate me.

One I decide I want them, I only get the best treatment from them.

Once I decide I want them, they’re super clingy towards me in all the ways that I love.

Once I decide I want them, they’ll do anything to adapt and become the best partner for me.

Once I decide I want them, they’ll do anything to make me happy because making me happy makes them happy.

Once I decide I want them, they want to be with me and talk to me 24/7 and our conversations and time together are always great.

Once I decide I want them, they know I am the best for them and they invest in me.

Once I decide I want them, they’re always honest and transparent with me. We know we can trust each other.

Once I decide I want them, they are my rock.

Once we commit to each other, we are each other’s rocks. We bring each other peace, stability, happiness and we fulfill each other’s needs perfectly. I’m the only one who can do that for them.

They know I’m the real deal, I was born with it and no one else can replicate it.

Once I decide I want them and we’re committed to each other, they’re always super romantic towards me and we’re each other’s best friends.

Once I decide I want them and we’re committed to each other, I am the closest person to them on all levels.

Once I decide I want them, I am extremely attractive to them on all aspects.

Everything about me is always attractive and lovable, specially to them.

Once I decide I want them, they want to stay by my side forever no matter what.

Once I decide I want them, they’ll do literally anything to be with me, to stay with me and to be my husband.

Once I decide I want them, they are literally convinced I’m their one and only soulmate and the best thing that has ever happened to them and no one else matters but me.

Once I decide I want them, nothing nor anyone has power over them but me.

And once I commit to them and we’re committed to each other, they keep that energy and dynamic with me forever.

2 years ago

Healing Love ~ affirmations

Lovers = sp

I am worthy of good, healthy lovers

I am worthy of commitment

I am worthy of consistency

I am worthy of clear communication

I am worthy of being prioritized

I am always prioritized and pursued

My lovers are always showing up for me

My lovers want the best for me

I have such a healthy and beautiful view on love

If I were to describe my relationship with my lovers in 5 words it would be: divine, committed, fulfilling, consistent and healing

I have such a beautiful love life

I only experience deep, fulfilling relationships

There is always consistency, love, abundance and harmony in my relationship with my lovers

My lovers are always supporting me

I only experience the best of the bests

My lovers are always attentive towards me

I am always experiencing beautiful things with my lovers

I am always appreciated, respected, prioritized in my relationship

I am worthy of only the best of the bests

I am irresistible and unforgettable

I am always treated like the Queen/King I am

My self love is unshakable

I live with such a secure self image

Nothing can disturb my inner peace

Struggling in love is such a myth, I am always experiencing beautiful love

I have such a unshakable self confidence

I am love

I am constantly receiving unconditional, pure love

I allow people to love me as deeply as I love myself

I am the embodyment of divine love

My life is the perfect example of divine love

My love life is perfect

I am in a secure relationship with my lovers

I have a secure relationship with myself

My relationships are fulfilling, and I am always in a state of tranquility within myself

I feel safe in my relationships because I feel safe in myself

I am always heard, prioritized, seen, respected and understood in my relationships

I am whole

I am perfect just the way I am

2 years ago

how i manifest.

 How I Manifest.
 How I Manifest.
 How I Manifest.

This is what works for me and make manifestations fun for me. This is how i manifested waking up with all of my desires every morning.

Some things i manifested :

Dream life :

Dream house

Dream family

Dream apparence (body + face)

Dream wardrobe

Dream friends group

Dream voice

Dream talents

And more

HOW I DID IT ?

I'm gonna do this section step by step so y'all understand . How easy and FUN it is to manifest your dream life. The life you deserve and should have. Reminder: this is what works for ME.

1. get off of tumblr :

theres so many different opinions and ways to manifest here. Please, get YOUR own opinion and don't stick to what feels good and works for others. But stick for what works for you and make you feel good not others

2. Back to basics :

I had to go back to the basics and clear my mind from all overconsumption. Here are the basics of manifesting; 1. Choose desire. 2. Affirm or know you have it. 3.persist

3. Find what works , is fun and easy for you

For me its : affirming to saturate my mind, relying in my 4d = basically in the end and strict mental diet .

4. Persist no matter what. You already have it.

stop counting how many days you've been persisting. Its already yours. Stop searching for info and overconsuming. Its already yours. Stop waiting. Its already yours. Stop wavering and conforming to your 3d.its already yours. Stop it all and start persisting FRL.

Outro

Hope this helps, I really think y'all needed to hear this. You already know the basics. Stop overcomplicating everything and living with assumptions that aren't yours. Stop relating with what you don't wanna be.

Xoxo leen.

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