I Got A Few Asks About Dice And Shuichi And Yes They End Up Getting Along (at Least On Dice’s Part).

*schlorp* OHOHOHO *shklump* AHAHAHA

So I don't know if someone already did it, but I just did so...

I’ve got another allistic ND person asking me if it’s okay for them to stim.

These questions break my heart, because so many of them seem to be told that it’s an autistic-only thing, that their stimming is somehow disrespectful to autistics. So many of them ask in fear and anxiety, needing the resources offered by general stim spaces or the use of stim toys, yet so afraid of offending me because they’re not autistic.

All I see is an ableist message of folks (usually allistic themselves) telling allistic ND folks that they shouldn’t behave or move like autistics. That they’re denying ND people access to tools, aids and behaviours that might help improve their lives. That they’re making the world less safe for me to stim in public by insisting that stimming remain shoved in the box marked “autistic”, consequently denying me normalisation and acceptance in wider society. That they’re, in the end, just using my diagnosis to justify their ableism.

It is in fact disrespectful to me, as an autistic, to tell an allistic ND and/or disabled person they are not allowed to stim. It is the direct inverse of the respect and support I need from allistic society, and I am tired, so tired, of the harm it does to allistic ND and/or disabled folks who need to, and have every right to, stim.

In 2018, I want to see the making of a world where no disabled and/or ND person ever feels like they need to ask permission of an autistic to stim, use stim toys and interact with general stim communities.

In 2018, I want to see allistics stop making comments on the matter of who has the right to stim.

Because this autistic, and most autistics, will tell you: stimming is for anyone who needs it.

You know when pitbulls do that expression?

You know the really tender soft “I am in love and am so happy” expression where their eyes shine and they smile so gently and can’t stop looking at their object of affection as they wag their tail and fall in love more?

I’ve been thinking about it for days and am brought to tears with how tender and sweet they are oh my god

under pressure

discourse kids and amami’s there too I guess

Volume 38 extra - Fumikage and Shadow's first blizzard!

Effin every Phantom Thief awoke to their persona by defying the palace ruler in some way, shape, or form. But like Akira’s gay ass decided “I just met this boy but I’m going to save his life”

Dude literally just “I’ve only had Ryuji for 5 minutes but if anything happened to him I would kill everyone in this room and then myself”

Nalu shitpost based off a Twitter comic 😆