— ★ !! Five

someone said "hozier doesn't write about love, he writes about devotion" and i haven't slept peacefully since

being a woman is such a magical yet belittling thing to experience. it’s so so so important to make sure you take time to reflect and love yourself for who you are.

Do you have any advice for young women?

In general? Sure. Read whatever you can get your hands on, but especially work written by women. Put your hands in sticky things at least once a week (clay, paint, dough, soil), don’t date anyone for a few years, travel when you can where you can, learn the skill of listening to your body— rest when you are tired, eat when you are hungry, drink when you are thirsty, and move when you are anxious. Swim as often as you can. Try to live alone at least once. If you can’t live alone, make time to be alone often. Carry pepperspray and do not learn to hold your tongue. Learn to sew, or weave, or knit. Unlearn the impulse to apologize for things that are not your fault. Pleasure yourself. Every once in a while, remind yourself of how loudly you can yell, how quickly you can run, and wildly you can dance. Allow yourself to cry for your mother. Spend as much time as you can in female-only spaces. Spend even more time with older women. Listen to their stories. Memorize their gray hair and lined faces, their swollen joints and sagging breasts. Cherish the gradual appearance of these things in yourself as an inheritance. Hold hands with other women. Spend some time naked in your home. Adopt a cat, or a fish, or grow some caterpillars into butterflies on your window. Eat heartily and drink to enjoy it. Go hiking and scream from a peak somewhere. Sometimes, allow yourself to act like a child again— climb a tree, scrape up your knees, and lick cake batter from the spoon. When you clean your home, open all the windows and beat the dust from all the curtains. Laugh loudly. Do not become self-deprecating to encourage others to laugh with you.

i found this cutie patootie while scrolling on pinterest and i just HAD to share

— ★ !! six

masterlist ; next

a/n : i js started watching shameless and i can’t tear my eyes away from my computer screen.

tags : @kasqnxx @lvrsparadise @prettysturniolo @strniolo @urmyslxt @cupidsturniolo @opheliaofficial07 @thetriplets3 @sturn1olo-ffics @uhnanix @deadxrx @kitaysworld @slaysturniolo @wilmalovegood @ladylokilaufeyson5 @sturniolopepsi @strnilolo

— ★ !! absence

pairing : matt sturniolo x fem! reader

synopsis : after a huge misunderstanding, you decide to go ghost on social media for some time to yourself…

a/n : about two years ago, i was obsessed with tumblr and my favorite thing to write were smaus because that what was cool back in my day 👴 i'm rlly hoping these types of stories are still relevant because i love reading and writing them. they're so quick and easy yet so funny and lighthearted. anywayyy i'm hoping that you guys will enjoy this as much as i did when i was a youngen

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a/n : last chapter babes 😜 i genuinely rlly enjoyed writing this lil story and it was so fun to have u guys along with me while i did !! i’ll DEF write more series , some smaus and others might be just writing. but rn i’m just gonna work on writing more small fics (if u have any requests send them don’t be shy 😋😋)

tags : @kasqnxx @lvrsparadise @prettysturniolo @strniolo @urmyslxt @cupidsturniolo @opheliaofficial07 @thetriplets3 @sturn1olo-ffics @uhnanix @deadxrx @kitaysworld @slaysturniolo @wilmalovegood @ladylokilaufeyson5

I'm a matt girl but I LOVE follower so far !!! I love ur social media au's, u just write everyone's personalities so well omg! I love u and ur stuff and can't wait for more!! (whenever ur ready ofc no pressure) xx

AWW tysm gf that genuinely means so so so much to me fr ☺️🫶

THANK YOU !! 🫶

i think he’d fall for me if he saw this icl

Would you write for Nate

oh i DEF would but i have no ideas , so if there's anything you'd like to see you can request it <33