Quick Rant But Im Sure Other People Can Relate. To Everyone Who Gets Weirded Out Or Confused By Asexuals..
Quick rant but im sure other people can relate. To everyone who gets weirded out or confused by Asexuals.. Why tf does our sex life and sexuality concern you? We told you we don't feel sexual attraction or want to have sex, and you respond with "Well how do you know if you've never tried it?". Shut your fucking mouth, okay?🖤 We are not your little sexual objects, and on that matter, stop fetishizing the fact that most of us are virgins because of our preference. Ive dealt with men before who i told i was Asexual to, they only kept asking and bringing up my asexuality like it bothered them, and kept trying to pressure me. Quick tip from Mama, if you keep acting like someone's hatred or disinterest in sex bothers you...its pretty fucking clear you only want to get in their pants, and you have no respect for them as a human being with their own preferences and boundaries. Our sex life should **NOT** concern you. It's our buisness, and ours only. Its the same if i went up to you and said "Hey how often do you like to get pounded?" its weird. So don't ask/tell us: "They must've been bad in bed, i can change your mind." ,"How do you know if you've never had sex before?", "Oh are you a R@pe victim?", " But you've never been intimate before", "One night with me", "Have you even ever had sex before?" "Then how are you going to have children?" (I swear its like some people don't know what adoption is..). In no circumstance are these ANY appropriate things to say to anyone at that matter. Keep in mind, at the time when i first got comfortable coming out as an Asexual i was FOURTEEN. And i got asked these things. You were concerned about a MINOR'S... Sex life. Pretty fucking creepy. Not only that but i remember a conversation going exactly like this with a my aunt's friend who keep in mind is a 46 year old woman, asking a 14 year old this: Her: "Holy shit...I had to take a double glance because you are so beautiful. Looks like you came straight out of a vampire movie girl." Me: "oh thank you!" Her: bet you get the boys all riled up? Me: "Oh i swing more towards girls actually.." Her: "Oh thats hot, so do I.. How many women have you slept with?" Me: "...um. Im..Asexual, i haven't..like.." Her: "...so you've never had sex? Then how do you know?"
At that point my mom had to literally interrupt the conversation, because an adult should under no circumstance say that to a 14 year old. Now i don't know if she was trying to groom me, or if she was just being fucking weird. But before any homophobes talk shit because it was a woman saying this to a child, this has happened to me with BOTH men and women. People in general... Make me sick. So to anyone who is creepy like that, Fuck you.
Stay safe out there loves 🖤
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So... I have this roomate, lets call him... George? Okay so he acts like such a womanizer and oh he loves boobs blah blah blah... And me and my other roomate, who we'll call..Poppy i suppose, always suspect hes a gay. As fellow gays we can smell one from miles, shut up 💅 anyways, George is always talking smack about women and thinks like Women should be in the kitchen, have kids, obey husband (baby the only husband im obeying is Leon Kennedy, period😩) But we always figured he said that because he was attracted to men. Now.. One time he got drunk and admitted her had been to gay bars for "funsies." However... Her got drunk at dinner yesterday and said "Ive slept with a guy before." UNPROVOKED. And its just so funny to me and poppy because he tries to act like...homophobic at times towards gay men...and...fetishes lesbians... 😐
Like... Its perfectly fine to be gay just don't act like its a plague when you've taken it up the hoo hoo before, PERIOD.
Anyways have a lovely day darlings 🖤
I never understood why parents punish/ground their kids for having bad grades. obviously, your child is struggling academically and needs help...so... Your choice is to punish them..? Maybe if you took time out of your oh so busy life, and tried to help your child study, make it fun even! they'd be doing better in school. They might even be struggling mentally, punishing them just makes it worse and makes them less modivated. Your child needs human understanding, they're not a robot. This can lead to your child being scared to ask for help, or pushing themselves to be perfect, stressing over a less than perfect grade. Stop saying your child is a failure, you're just a bad parent.
Underrated Goth bands I recommend🖤
The Long Losts The Shroud
Ex-Voto Skemer
The Red Ashes Sex Blood
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Blood Dance In a Darkened Room
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Gurlll I don't even check my inbox anymore because all of it is scams to the point it gets genuinely so annoying. The fact people, bots, ai, whatever is using the War in Palestine as a way to scam people is absolutely disgusting like...bitch we know damn well your name isn't Salwa, you do not live in Gaza, and you do not have kids. If it is people doing this then...stop?? Theres actually people who need donations and pretending to be one of them is so pathetic and wrong. Also stop flooding my inbox im broke as hell, as in the hell you'll be going to for doing thissss ❤️😝
If this gets by anywhere somehow and you would like to donate there are genuine Gofundme pages you can donate to, do not fall for these
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