When Your Comfort Ship Is Your Own Selfship

a bit of a personal post. taps chin. because i've been feeling highly insecure for an unspecified amount of time and so i thought i'd make an appreciation post !

putting this in big bold letters: PROSHIP DNI

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shoutout to selfshippers with bottling problems and/or tendencies. to those of us who keep our feelings locked up inside until it pops and pours out when we least want it to. to those of us who bottle so much to keep others feeling happy. to the selfshippers who are so scared to voice anything about how they feel because they've experienced negative reactions from those they've trusted, just by voicing their emotions.

shoutout to selfshippers who can't properly gush because they often feel like a nuisance to others. whether it's the kinda gushing that's about your f/o's lore, your f/o in general, your selfships— to those of us who find it weird and at times a bit uncomfortable to gush because we're so used to feeling like a nuisance. or that we won't even be given the time of day to have our stuff acknowledged.

shoutout to selfshippers who are genuinely not understood. who's reactions at times are viewed as unnecessary or overdramatic or illogical for reacting the way we do when we're scared of opening up.

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your f/o(s) wouldn't treat you like that. they'd listen to you oh so intently, to whatever you'd have to say.

if you've been bottling for so long, whether it's emotions or interests, your f/o(s) wouldn't let you keep that up. they'd gently encourage you to express yourself, even if it starts out small. they reassure you that they won't get mad about speaking your mind, that're you're not an asshole for how you feel, especially if your f/o(s) understand what cause your reactions and why you keep things inside.

your f/o(s) will do everything in their power to make you feel safe in being you, you who expresses yourself, just like every human should be allowed to.

Saw this few weeks ago, forgot about it..And now I'm like "Why not? Even If It's too late it would be fun :D"

Last song: Mighty (by Caravan Palace)

Favourite colour: All shades of green, blue and purple 💚💙💜✨

Last movie/TV show: "Indiana Jones and The Temple of Doom"

(Always wanted to watch this legendary classic. I've already watched 1st and 2nd movies ^^)

Sweet/spicy/savoury: Sweet = savoury(it's salty I guess..? I love them equally) Also I can't eat spicy food ^^""

Relationship status: In relationship with my f/o ^^ ( Is it counts? I think it is"")

Last search: How to draw a kissing couple..(////////)

Current obsession: Is my f/o counts? *giggle* Nah, I'm not that crazy or out of my mind. I just love him so much ^^

Also I'm quite obsessed with different crystals and gems✨(I love shiny things, what else I can add? ^^ ), and I'm a upset that I can't start colect them, like my friend Nika 😢

Tags: Well..I don't know If some of you guys did this before..But I'll tag you anyway ^^"

I tag @oli-draw, @moondane-lovers, @ghostwanderer, @fo-enjoyer @colakissing, @sharkii22 ..

..And everyone who wants to join!^^✨

Nine people I'd like to get to know better

Tagged by @meghawhopp <33

Last song: Down by the River by Borislav Slavov from the Baldur’s Gate 3 Soundtrack (or more specifically the cover of Down by the River by Nerissa Ravencroft)

Favorite color: Blue and purple!

Last movie/TV show: Seinfeld, I’m currently on season four!

Sweet/spicy/savory?: I have a huge sweet tooth, so sweet things

Relationship status: Single

Last thing I googled: I searched up the show “Arthur” because I was trying to find that one meme where Buster was like “You really think someone would do that, just go on the internet and spread lies?”

Current obsession: Fragaria memories and tears of themis mostly^^

Tag Nine People: @kyaruun @xinieeee @deadmansbistro @florapot @hunita812 @scuffle-with-spirals @rexonalapis @maxellera @manicpixiedoomedgirl

Alright I've never made one of these but let's try it!

Astrology based f/o ask game!! <33 (may or may not be very stereotypical to make things easier on me)

♈️- Are your f/o(s) quick to anger? Do they have anger issues? If so, how do they cope/how do you help them?

♉️- What kind of meals do you eat/make? Generally how does meal time with your f/o(s) usually go/Do you eat together at all?

♊️- Have/has your f/o(s) ever lied to you? If so how did it get resolved?

♋️- What are your f/o(s) like when they cry? What do you when it happens, if anything?

♌️- Does your f/o(s) enjoy the finer things in life or do they prefer to stay humbler?

♍️- Are your f/o(s) introverted or extroverted? A mix of the two?

♎️- How hard does your f/o(s) find it to practice self care? How self-destructive are they?

♏️- (suggestive) - How easy is it to get your f/o(s) in the mood? What are some ways that work if difficult?

♐️- Does your f/o(s) have trouble with commitment? If so, does this bother you at all?

♑️- What is your f/o(s) sense of humor like? Do they even have one?

♒️- How competitive is your f/o(s)? Would they ever let you win at a card/board game?

♓️- Are your f/o(s) indecisive or impulsive? To what degree?

Since this is my first ask game I won’t ask you to practice reblog karma! <3

-PROSHITTERS DNI-

does anyone understand my curse

robots were made to be kissed. You agree

OC time.

a humble tailor who lives somewhere in Munchkin Country.

he often talks to his living Mannequin who became alive after he was fixing the coat of a sorcerer and magic residue ended up animating the mannequin, who isn't terribly excited about being alive.

Remember, your F/O chose you too.

Imagine your f/o resting their forehead against yours. They close their eyes, taking a deep breath. After a moment of silence, they smile and whisper.

"You mean everything to me, and I appreciate your presence."

twisted cycle

Imagine your f/o gently holding your face in their hands, smiling kindly.

"You are so important to me," They begin, exhaling contently. "And I want you to feel loved, because you deserve it."