Spoil Him.
Once upon a time, I was an arrogant, self-centered brat who believed my husband was lucky to even be sharing the same air I breathed. I was beautiful, men flocked to me, and he should have thanked his lucky stars I chose him. I’m not even sure why he stayed with me, to be honest. I guess the old fashioned saying “Marriage is hard. If something is broken, fix it. Don’t throw it away” really worked in my favor.
Life got hard, arguments abound, and my effortless beauty started to fade. He’d tell me, I like blonde hair. I like toned bodies. I like tanned skin, and every suggestion was met with malice, resentment and defense. I was perfect, why couldn’t he see that?
Because I wasn’t perfect. I neglected him for my own needs. I saw only my ideals, my problems, and he was never good enough. I wanted everything and gave nothing.
Sex stopped. Love stopped, attention stopped and I felt lost for a long time. Then, when all was almost lost, I started doing the things he asked of me. I cooked our meals, I cleaned our home, I made myself presentable for him in ways I knew he enjoyed and appreciated.
Suddenly, our relationship started to bloom. The winter was ending. His approval, his praise, it made my cunt drip and sex became a drug. Feeling sexy for him became an obsession. He worked hard, paid the bills, provided for our family, and I saw beyond my own conceited pre-conceived notions and appreciated him for being a MAN. And now I’m happy, blessed and fulfilled to be his woman.
Traditional gender roles may not be right for you, but they are for us. I’ve never felt more right in anything I’ve done before than when I’m doing something for him.
And when he says “Get a tan” I lay in the tanning bed with a wet pussy.
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TRIGGER WARNING
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sex addiction - slave training
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I keep being asked the same question: “If I cannot be trained by a professional, is there anything I can do to turn myself into a mindless sex slave?”
There are many ways. I don’t recommend any of them. Without proper supervision and a place to go once your training is complete, the girl will most likely end up ruining her life and ending up in the streets.
So to be clear: DO NOT DO THIS.
But, “for science”, here is a “do it yourself” enslavement program which in a few months should rewire your brain turning you into a mindless sex object. Of course it will not be as effective as having a real trainer working on you, but you can still achieve pretty drastic results on your own. I’d recommend this program to long term couples who are fairly certain they are not going to split, where one partner wants a sex slave, but lacks the knowledge and skills to do the training him/herself. Good luck.
PHASE 1
Week 1: Orgasm every day first thing after you wake up for a week.
Week 2: Add one orgasm a day before sleep.
Week 3: Two orgasms right after waking up and one before sleep.
Week 4: Two orgasm after waking up, two orgasms before sleep.
Week 5: Three orgasms after waking up, three before sleep.
Week 6: Add 2-8 orgasms during the day.
Notes: The time line is not set in stone. Different girls will arrive at different stages at different times. A trainer would adjust things for you. On your own you have to figure it out for yourself.
Wake up always at the same time and go to bed always at the same time (and keep your orgasm schedule as consistent as possible). This helps speed up and cement the conditioning process. Try to give yourself orgasms always at the same time. Train your body to expect it to happen.
Take breaks. Skipping a day or two is not only acceptable, it actually help the training.
Train yourself to orgasm as quickly as possible. The goal is to orgasm on command (and on phase 5 to lose the ability to orgasm without permission), but for now give yourself 5 minutes for each orgasm and gradually make the times shorter. Using a timer is recommended. If you don’t finish in 5 minutes, stop. Try again at the next scheduled time.
PHASE 2
Start replacing your orgasms with edges.
Week 1 Replace one orgasm with one edge. Example: on Monday, the first orgasm after you wake up is now an edge.
Week 2 Replace 4 orgasms for four edges.
Week 3 Replace one day of orgasm with one day of edges.
Week 4 Replace two days of orgasms with two days of edge. One day a week no touch.
Week 5 Four days of edges, one day of orgasms, two days without touching.
Week 6 Five days of edges. Two days no touching. Flip a coin 4 times, if four consecutive tails give yourself as many orgasms as you want for the next hour.
Week 7 Same as week 6, but flip a coin 4 times on the first day. If four heads: no touch the whole week. Performing your edging sessions in your mind, watch pornography, do kegel exercises, use a butt plug, but do not stimulate your clitoris.
Notes: Start masturbating while watching pornography regularly. Find what turns you on, find what you find humiliating. When it is time to orgasm do so while looking at the most humiliating post you saw that day. Masturbate while listening to recordings of other girls having sex and performing humiliating acts. Repeat sex mantras out loud. Extra credit: record yourself moaning and saying the mantras, then say the words out loud while listening to your own recordings.
Around Week 4 Orgasm only when being penetrated. Around week 6 start anal training. Eventually you will not be allowed to orgasm without anal penetration. In the following phases you’ll gradually be taught to lose the ability to orgasm unless ordered to, but that requires an actual trainer.
Normally, with an actual trainer, there would not be “phases”. The training would be tailored to the individual girl and her future owner’s preferences, and various phases would overlap. In general though you can break training down to 5 to 8 phases. Phase 3 begins behavioral modifications. Phase 4 starts mental “restructuring”, where you sabotage the girl’s ability to concentrate and think for herself. Phase 5 is about mental enslavement, imprinting on her Master, dependency, depersonalization, etc. Phases 6 through 8 are optional advanced trainings for special orders, specialized triggers, behaviors, complete personality deletion, amnesia, memory creation, etc. Additionally, there is obviously a fitness regiment and sexual skills training that occurs through out the process, but that’s pretty standard.
I’ll revise this later. There is a lot more to it. Of course this program is nothing compared to being trained by an actual slave trainer but still…
Good luck!
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Recently, someone told me that if 10 people saw a situation, there would be 9 similar opinions and then mine. Mine would be unique, insightful and possibly easier, faster, less expensive and likely more appealing. I know this was intended to be a compliment. Sometimes comments like these make me sad on the inside.
The comment is likely to be mostly true both professionally and personally but it is this personality trait that has made me feel like an outsider most of my life, making me wish others thought like I do, see things the way I do sooner, communicate with a solution in mind. I think I need someone in my life that is so far away from the way I process that I wouldn't be frustrated that they are not aligned in my thinking because finding a similar person to me has been an exercise in futility.
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