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•.・❥・♡꙳𓂃𓂂*・❥・꙳•.

"Human is a >>spoken<< animal, but only individuals who have something to keep silent about with each other mate for life."

- Wojciech Kuczok

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“I was quiet but I was not blind.”

— Jane Austen

•.・❥・♡꙳𓂃𓂂*・❥・꙳•.

Similar souls exist. They call, seek and attract each other, and their mutual search is something so natural that one never feels any tension. Rather, it is a matter of imperceptible and harmonic vibrations. This affinity, this magic between them, is music that you have to know how to listen to...

.•.✦𓂃☆𝔀𝓮𝓫･࿐

.・꙳・.✭.・♡˚✦𓂃☆.•・.

Punishment with silence

He doesn't reply to messages. He pretends not to hear you. He is silent, although he knows you are waiting for a word.

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This is not ordinary silence. This is not a need for solitude. This is not a moment to think.

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This is a weapon. Precise and aimed straight at you. Causing pain without leaving a mark. Hurting without touching. Punishment with silence. A sophisticated method of control. A way to break your spirit. A technique that makes you beg for attention.

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And this person? They are just waiting. Waiting for you to break. Waiting for you to be ready for anything. Waiting for you to understand "your guilt".

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This is not love. This is not care. This is not even a bad mood. This is emotional abuse. Silent. Subtle. Devastating. No shouting. No hitting. No brawls. And yet it leaves scars on the soul.

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You need to know this: Real partners talk. Real friends explain. Real loved ones do not use silence as punishment. You are not guilty of someone else's silence. You are not responsible for someone else's game. You don't have to beg for the attention of someone who deliberately ignores you.

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You deserve a relationship based on respect. You deserve a relationship in which silence is peace, not a weapon. You deserve someone who sees you as a human being even in conflict.

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Remember: Silence is golden only when someone does not use it as a weapon.

~ R. Wicijowski

I will have a word of love for each of your scars...

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,,By night, tie your heart to mine and let them both in dreams defeat the darkness."

—Pablo Neruda

・❥・"And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." ・❥・

Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

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We need dreams to live well and the ability to transform them into reality. Because if the night dreams make you feel better, the waking dreams will always save your heart and soul. .•.✦𓂃☆𝔀𝓮𝓫･࿐

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"Night is purer than day; it is better for thinking, loving, and dreaming. At night, everything is more intense, more true." .•.˚☆࿐

—Elie Wiesel