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If you are around people long enough you get to start figuring them out before they have even had a chance to explain themselves to you. People in general have certain modes, methods, and other ways about them that are unchanging characteristics which reveal a good amount about the type of person that exists inside.

This becomes no different with people that exist with in our lifestyle and with enough training and practice, you can point these people out in every day vanilla life, knowing who is a part of the lifestyle and who is not.

But sometimes you can simply not smell the wolf’s breath beneath the sheep‘s clothing.

Today I will discuss some common things to look for when encountering a new person who claims them selves to be a dominant or master, and give you some cues and signs to watch out for while properly vetting them.

1.) there’s a lot of ignorance in over eagerness.

One common character flaw that an inexperienced dominant or so-called master will have, is to be overly eager about something. Most of the time it comes in the form of automatically expecting you to give them your servitude and submission. They will begin their conversations with pet names, and then immediately expect you to give them respect and entertain their every want and need right off the bat.

Meanwhile… the true dominant or master will take his time making sure that you are properly suited for him to fulfill your needs.

Now notice I did not say for you to fulfill his… because honestly, at the end of the day, your needs are his needs… And his need is to fulfill yours. But you may scoff and say “Mister, he is the dom, he deserves that right?”

Wrong answer.

Your beautiful submission is something that you alone should only give freely of yourself after you have properly vetted the person and made your decision that they should be able to both have such an immense responsibility, and then nurture it, care for it, and bring it to its blooming fruition in the end.

Way too often we make the mistake of both trying to dominate someone we don’t really know, and allow ourselves to be dominated by people we don’t really want.

That’s like simply looking at a shirt and deciding to purchase it without checking out its size, materials, or that it’s even the right cut and style for us. It’s like being handed some strange drink and told to drink it without even inquiring about what it is or what it tastes like… And then you usually end up sick and puking in the end.

2.) fake masters are never concerned about your needs or your consent.

A good friend of mine likes to recognize the fakes and then troll them in her messaging to them. Ultimately she will pose a question that goes something like “ if there were no limits what would you do to me?”

Of course it’s a trap, but it’s also something of a weeding out process. A fake master will then launch into a laundry list of all of the things that he has planned… You know the scene that he has planned with you when he doesn’t even know how old you are, where you actually live, or what you’re actually into?

The same scene where he’s going to torture you and have sex with you into oblivion, while paddling you until you give up and cry mercy… Without ever discussing a SafeWord with you or even finding out if that’s what you’re into.

These are great signs of immaturity and ignorance.

A true master will carefully pose his words in such a way that makes you think and question him further on the subject, while also learning about you and what it is that you really want out of something like that. He would never go on a non-consensual rant having already planned it out, and will be more concerned about your needs for the scene than he is about his own.

3.) A true master or dominant is going to actually be uncomfortable with some things and push you back a little bit

It is a very common thing for Littles to be lonely and sometimes desperate. They have been burned so often and so many times that when they see a glimmer of hope amongst all the piles of garbage they ultimately go for it right away. This can also lead to acting out in ways such as sending nude pictures, being overly sexually aggressive, and just generally trying to get the person they are talking to to dominate them very quickly.

A fake master or dominant will then begin salivating and leap onto his prey without even giving it a second thought… exercising every false sense of security that he has about himself, while also slowly and unconsciously tearing the little apart again. He will only conduct himself in insular ways while getting what he wants and giving no thought to what the little actually needs.

A true dominant will put the brakes on and cool the situation down. He may actually be turned off by such behavior, thinking that the person on the other end has no value for themselves. A genuine master is going to look for someone who holds a certain set of traits and values that are important to him while also lightly testing the waters to see how that person behaves against how he believes they should.

Now that may seem a little bit self sided or picky perhaps… But we are talking about a real serious relationship here aren’t we? Otherwise you are just playing around and wasting each others time. Why would you not put in all of the effort and all of the time to properly vet the person and make sure that they are correct for you and your goals and ambitions?

4.) A true master or dominant is going to have goals in place and actively working towards them.

When you ask a person where they see themselves in five years, the answers are often very cliché but sometimes surprising. It can also be very tempting to believe yourself to be a person who is going to help the other person achieve those goals… Especially when you are a little. But ultimately a person will only change and will only accomplish things under their own self volition, a catalyst to that certainly helps, and does much more for a little who is being guided by a dominant than vice versa… But the fruition of a goal comes to place when the person actually puts in the effort.

The fake master or dominant will more than likely doing any number of the following: still be living with his parents or even a handful of roommates. He will be working a dead-end job, probably playing video games for hours a day, obsessed with drugs or getting messed up… or any combination of those things along with other activities that are getting him nowhere in life.

The man who lives without self-control and discipline is a man who walks a long road to shame and destruction.

Allow me to illustrate it for you in this way:

Let’s say that you signed up for the Armed Forces and went through Boot Camp, then you got deployed and your first day on the front lines of the battlefield the general in charge of you is sitting there on his phone snap chatting and browsing for memes and doesn’t really care about what’s going on.

He has no plan for how to win the battle, and is only thinking about getting his next meal or something else that is selfish and lacking in any kind of interests outside of his own bubble. When asked what you should do to accomplish the victory… He gets confused or doesn’t know, doesn’t have any real plans… or even makes up reasons for why they are going to fail and blames them on you.

You are almost guaranteed to die on the battlefield.

What kind of general would that be and how long would he last in the Armed Forces?

The person that you give your submission to and whom you put in charge of your life should be a pillar of stability and discipline. They should be able to guide you properly without overstepping their boundaries, and they should be a great leader while staying far from being a boss. And I understand it… If they are newer or maybe less experienced they should still always be wanting to learn and grow and to self evolve. They should have interest in going to munches and meetings within the local scene, they should have interest in watching videos about the lifestyle and reading blogs and trying to be a better master or dominant for you, they should have an interest in improving themselves so that they will be able to help you improve your self as well.

Is your daddy or Dom or master doing these things? And if not are they only making excuses as to why they aren’t?

Kind of tells you where their priorities are doesn’t it… And they are definitely not with you.

And of course there are many other things that I could speak on but these are the most common signs and red lights for you to look out for while you are properly vetting the person that you are going to give your beautiful gift of submission to.

And as a reminder I always recommend a period of at least six weeks before you make that decision. That way you have the proper time to talk to the person on the other end, learn about them, know what they do on Thursday mornings at 9 AM or how they like to sleep… Know their favorite food or movie… know them as a person before you turn your self over to them as their property.

Thank you for reading and enjoying this post. Feel free to share with others and reblog if you feel they may benefit from it.

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