Hajime And Makoto With An Autistic S/o

Hajime and Makoto with an autistic s/o

Word count: 600

Author’s notes: I tried my best to research what things to do differently in a relationship with a neurodivergent partner as apposed to a neurotypical partner, but I apologize if I got anything wrong, as I’m neurotypical. I did, however, make sure not to take any information from Autism Speaks, because I’ve heard that they heavily misinform and are just overall harmful to support. Anyways, I hope you enjoy and please tell me if anything I’ve put in this is incorrect or just how I can make it more inclusive and realistic. :)

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Makoto:

He knew a little bit about what to do differently in a relationship with an autistic partner as opposed to a neurotypical

But he did still want to ask you what you preferred he do or don’t do, and asked if what he already knew was right or not

When you guys are talking, he’ll make sure to use physical tone indicators, to make it easier to understand the emotion behind what he’s saying. 

You guys even made a system for what each tone indicator is, so you know for sure what each one is; like holding your pinky up to mean positive indication, and your thumb and pinky fingers to mean joking, etc.

I feel like Makoto would ask for consent to hug/touch you before doing so, even if you tell him you are okay with physical touch

Or on the other hand, if you tell him that you feel uncomfortable with physical touch, he’d make sure to show you he loves you in ways that are more comfortable for you

If you have a rocking stim, and are okay with it, he’ll hold your hand and give you a little bit more momentum so he can feel like he’s helping

The first time you get overwhelmed and overstimulated, he would notice, but it might take him a minute to think of what to do

He’d apologize after wards for not noticing sooner, but it really wasn’t that long before he acted, so it was okay

Stim toys. He would get tons of ads on his phone for different stim toys and would send pictures to you to ask if that’s something you think you’d want or need 

He would make sure not to change anything without you knowing and okay-ing it; and because of his luck, changes- in routine or otherwise- wouldn’t often happen.

Hajime: 

At first, he wasn’t sure what was different between being autistic or not, so he researched ‘do’s and don'ts of being in a relationship with a neurodivergent person’

He also sat down and talked with you about what works best for you personally

And he does a really good job of following those do’s and don'ts

He even watched for how you reacted to different things in daily life and adjusted what he would do based on what he knew you liked/didn’t like

If you are out with friends and get overstimulated, he’ll know right away and won’t hesitate to excuse the both of you from the situation so you can self soothe and stim, if needed

He makes sure to ask you how you’re feeling throughout the day, and asking what he can do to help

When you happily stim, he watches and smiles, because he knows that you’re happy. If it’s a movement stim (like pacing in circles) he might even join you, if you’re alright with it, so he can bond with you

He’s definitely protective over you, and will make sure that everyone knows he won’t let anyone bully you about being autistic

If you ever want to make a comfort corner, with different things that help you calm down; like specific textured blankets, colors, or even items, he’d help you make it and keep it ‘structurally sound’

If you’re watching your comfort movie or show for the 30th time, he just sits with you and rewatches as if he’d never seen it before. Or he’ll point out little things he didn’t notice before.

He’s very good at keeping to a routine, and will try to keep everything going as smoothly as he can for you

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3 years ago

Not to call out the Sally Face fandom but

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3 years ago

Alright, I'd like to know your guys' thoughts.

I've been thinking about writing for other games/anime that I'm interested in, as well.

Should I just change my theme/name a little to reflect that and write them here too, or make this my danganronpa specific writing blog, and make a different one for my other interests?

I am especially thinking about it, because I tend to rotate my current interest/obsession. 99% of the time they come back around, I just dont indulge in that content much during that time. Right now is one of those cases.

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2 years ago

Okay so this has been on my mind for a few days and when I saw your requests were open I just KNEW I had to ask!

(Also I adore your fics and hope you're doing well. Remember to take care of yourself :D)

Onto the request!

Can I get a fic/drabble about what L would do if Light started slightly harrassing/bullying L's partner? Like even if Light was being mean about stupid stuff like where they put papers or how they always sit really close to L, for example (Light might be a lil jealous if you wanna add that?)

Anyways thank you for your time and I totally understand if this makes you uncomfortable in any way (^v^)

🕯~ hello, my dear, im so sorry for the wait :((( thanks so much for being patient, i love u @multi-write

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Okay So This Has Been On My Mind For A Few Days And When I Saw Your Requests Were Open I Just KNEW I
Okay So This Has Been On My Mind For A Few Days And When I Saw Your Requests Were Open I Just KNEW I

“So, Light- you’re entirely sure that the Kira that has appeared recently is someone affiliated with the Yotsuba Group?”

It was just you, L, and Light in the dimly lit room, illuminated only by the screens of a dozen monitors in front of your group. You and Light stood at one computer, observing the long list of the usual criminals Kira had been killing along with a good mix of business executives- an out of character move for the Kira the task force was familiar with.

Light sighed, a dubious expression on his face. “I can’t be one hundred percent certain- but that’s what it looks like. The names that don’t belong to criminals on this list belong to officials of almost every surrounding business in the area- but there are no names belonging to any of the higher-ups from Yotsuba.”

“That’s true,” you added, moving over to L and leaning over his body to point at the monitor right next to him. “And if you look at this live line graph containing the revenue that each of these businesses is gaining, it’s obvious the Yotsuba’s group is way up while the other corporations are clearly suffering.”

“Yeah, Y/N, we can see that.” Light joined you and L in front of the monitor, handcuffs clanking; you on one side of the detective’s swivel chair and him on the other and L in between you both. “There’s no need for you to bend over Ryuzaki like that.”

You looked over at Light, brow furrowed, and L glanced in his direction as well before both of you decided to brush it off. L ‘s arm wrapped around your hips as he opened his mouth to talk, drawing a noticeable scoff from Light, which again he chose to ignore. “The both of you are quite sharp- and judging by the rest of this data, Light’s conclusion is a safe one. We seem to have pinpointed Kira again- and this time, we cannot afford to lose him.” He let out a deep breath, eyes narrowing in thought. “So I suppose our next course of action would be to gain material evidence of this- perhaps an infiltration may be necessary. But that is something that would require the help of everyone here.” L turned to look up at you. “Y/N, would you mind calling the rest of the task force upstairs? No sense in both Light and I going down there cuffed together like this.”

“Alright. I’ll be right back.” You let a hand brush L’s shoulder passing him, but when you walked by Light, his shoulder suddenly blocked your path and made you bump into him, causing you to stumble backward.

You shot Light an beseeching look, clutching your upper arm while Light kept his eyes averted to one side, his expression stony. Finally, L turned around, a questioning expression on his face as he looked from you to Light and then back to you.

“Light- is there an issue?”

Light seemed surprised as he turned his gaze down to meet L’s eyes. “Not at all. Why do you ask?”

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4 years ago

Byakuya, Makoto, Kokichi, Nagito reacting to you breaking up with them

Word count: 450(roughly)

Authors notes: I know its short and nobody asked but here's just a few headcanons for these boys :)

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Byakuya:

Notices that you’ve been distant

Would ask you what’s bothering you without beating around the bush

“I see. Well, if that’s how you feel then I guess I can’t stop you..”

Would just get up and leave without another word

Secretly he’s hurt of course but he knew he couldn’t change your mind

Wouldn’t call or text you after that, but wouldn’t block your number either; in case you ever changed your mind

After a few days, he'd send a maid to come grab the rest of his belongings

Makoto:

Would ask what’s wrong, but he would first give you the chance to bring it up

If you don’t bring it up first, he’d bring some of your favorite things and talk to you about what’s bothering you

If you do bring it up first, he probably gets really quiet

Afterwards he just sits quietly to process what you’d said

But once it sinks in, he’d try to talk it out with you and promises to be better

Unless you’re adamant about it and then he’d know when to give up

 He would sleep in another room that night hoping you’d change your mind

If you tell him he needs to move out, he’d do it, but would call or text every once in a while to attempt to be friends at least

He would either send a mutual friend to pick up his stuff or would text you about the best time for him to grab it

Kokichi:

He’d tease you about being distant

"S/OOO why are you avoiding me?"

After you tell him that you want to break up, he’d go quiet for a minute

"You know I hate lies right..? Oh. You were serious.."

Gives you the silent treatment for a day or two to make you change your mind

If you don’t, he’d probably try to change your mind by saying you’re lying and that he hates lies and whatnot

But he’d still move out

While upset, would block you; At least for a little while 

He'd know the times you're out of the house and would pick the lock to get his stuff

Unless he's feeling really petty and then he'd do it when you are home but would act as if you weren't even there

Nagito:

Would immediately notice something’s wrong, and would blame himself

He wouldn’t ask about it right away, but if you don’t bring it up he would come to you later and ask straight up

If you come to him first, he’d say something like “I knew you’d realize sooner or later how trash I am.”

Would probably pack a bag and leave, but come back later to sleep on the couch because he doesn’t have anywhere else to go

Lowkey always felt like this day was coming, but when you actually said you wanted to break up he’d down spiral

Would never bother you, but wouldn’t block you or change your contact information or anything

He'd just leave his stuff there unless he absolutely needs it, but he'd put it off as long as he can because he's hurt


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