so for those of you who don't know, I was recently diagnosed with ADHD-I. So far, I think my favourite thing that I've learned is the idea of "embrace the pivot".
Have you ever found a productivity system that works for you (whether it be your Google calendar, bullet journaling, agenda-ing, etc), and you're so pumped because it's like finally! Now I can actually get some stuff done! But then time passes, days or weeks or years, and the novelty of it runs out, and then it kind of just... Stops working. It can be so frustrating, because this thing that used to work no longer works for seemingly no reason.
But, that isn't a failing of the thing, that thing worked for a certain amount of time, and that's good! I used a massive agenda in my first year of uni, and it kept me on track for all my assignments. My second year agenda? Barely touched it. Instead, I started to use a bullet journal, and that was the thing that helped me through most of the year. But as time went on, my spreads got less creative, and in the final term, I didn't even want to touch it because it was too much work. So I switched to Notion.
The agenda didn't fail me, and neither did the bullet journal, it just worked for a certain amount of time. And when that time inevitably runs out, you can just say, "thank you for serving me for so long, I'm going to pivot to the next thing." And then you do it without feeling like you should try harder or like that thing failed you.
This doesn't just have to apply to productivity either. Systems, tools, habits, hobbies, coping mechanisms.. They all serve their purpose. It's okay to let them go when the time comes.
☆ - ̗̀✨ He's just Ken ✨ ̖́- ☆
My 11 PM headcanon on Jasper’s death :
after the bear attack, Cameron waits till the last possible moment to call an emergency from fear of getting his new came sued for child abuse/neglect Jasper ends up becoming feverish and sick with infection and it isn’t until there’s a scare where Jasper’s breathing stops that Cameron finally calls it in
However, on the night before he is supposed to be sent home/to the hospital, Jasper’s fever suddenly breaks, and he convinces Davey to take him to a high hill/cliff to overlook the lake and the stars
Davey agrees, but as their journey progresses, the little adventure turns into more of a symbolic path for Davey. If Jasper can make it to the top If he can admire the sky and nature and just the world in general that had been so cruel to him
perhaps then he’d stay alive just a little longer.
but during this little journey, Jasper becomes more and more weak, and by the end Davey is practically dragging him.
Jasper gets one final look at Spooky Island before falling unconscious, slipping into a coma, and dying in the hospital
But because of that final peek, Jasper’s ghost has been implanted in the island ever since. Both because that was were he had gotten attacked, and also because David’s wish for him to stay was, unfortunately, accomplished.
But thats just my head canon ;3
and then they adopted each other and lived happily ever after, the end (HA)
so yeah, go watch Nimona, it's great
Barbie (2023) ✦ Dir. Greta Gerwig
The equivalent of calling your teacher 'mom'... yes this is an excuse to draw wet cat ballister 🫡
thinking about Nimona’s face in this scene because she already knows how this plays out, she’s lived this already and while Bal has the hope that she once had in his eyes, she KNOWS what happening before the sword is even raised. She’s NOT SURPRISED she’s NOT SHOCKED she’s only DISAPPOINTED that Ambrosius can turn on the man he loves because she’s already played this out with Gloreth
backstabber :(
Just trying to survive this art block, requests open <3 Currently depressed out of my god damn mind
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