Me at all the wacked out lib fems on this hellsite.
It's always "If this first draft isn't perfect I will literally die." or "Hahaha, I don't give a fuck anymore. Typos. Grammatical errors. Yeeet."
There is nothing in between.
History is SO important, and not just in the real world. If you're writing a book that takes place in a fictional world, you'll need to do worldbuilding. And having a history for the world is a HUGE part of that!
1) think about what's presently taking place in your story. What in the past could have led to the current plot? What influenced it? What in the world has changed? Has an event of the past caused the modern conflict?
2) don't be afraid to take inspiration from past historical events! Or you can create something completely on your own. Either one is fine.
3) write EVERYTHING out. Even if you think it won't end up in the final idea, just write it down. Trust me bestie
4) you want a world's history to mean something to the story, not for it to just be thrown out there and then forgotten about. Even if it's something such as a myth, give it meaning! It's such an effective way of worldbuilding, and it helps the reader connect so much more to the setting
5) if you're stumped, watch things such as the history channel or read articles on historical events! Maybe you'll get that one little spark that ignites an entire history for your world. Trust me, it can work. And besides, history is interesting to learn about either way!
reblog if you agree
reminder to everyone that mike can be bi and not have loved el romantically from the start
π© Where's the lie though? π©
I compiled all of the byler evidence I have ever found into this 210 page google slides. I mainly made it for my own brain to have all the evidence organized in one place, but also to share with my friends so I can explain to them why byler is real LMAO. I thought I would post it here too in case anyone else might like it!
I know it's a lot of slides, but I wanted to make sure it was really detailed and extensive! I promise it doesn't take super long to read :)
(I just want to preface none of the edits in here belong to me, I am not taking credit for them. Most of them I found on pinterest where I couldnβt find credit given, but I know some are from @kaypeace21)
lucky girl syndrome
β i am the luckiest girl in the world β everything literally works in my favor β everything works out the way i want it to β luck is always following my around β i'm always at the right place at the right time β things always work out too perfectly for me β life is always rigged in my favor β only good things happen to me β i only experience the best outcomes β i get the perfect things at the perfect time β everything i want is always following me β i only deserve the best, and recieve the best β everything goes better than planned β the world is shaped to work for me β luck is always on my side β the world is my servant, serving me β all the good things come to me at the right time β good things keep flowing in my direction β i can always count on my luck β i always find the best things β it always turns out better than i expected β i am destined to have the best things β i am destined to experience the best things β i am destined to have everything i desire β everything i want is mine right now β every situation works out in my favor β every day goes by in my favor β i am so lucky, it's unexplainable β why am i this lucky? β why is everything in my favor? β why are things so perfect for me? β why is life so perfect for me? β why is everything always in my favor? β miracles keep coming towards me β my life is full of miracles β i always experience miracles β luck is flowing my direction β everything always unfolds in my favor β life is always working for me β i know it will end in the best outcome possible β everything starts and ends the way i want it to β every sign shows that i'm in the right direction β the best things are coming to me β the best things are chasing me β the best things keep running towards me β i'm meant to have the best things β i'm meant to have good luck β only good things are meant to be β it's all turning out perfectly β i love having lucky girl syndrome
why do ships hit so much harder when they aren't explicitly canon. why do i choose homoerotic subtext over genuine representation every single time
ππ‘DEALING WITH HATERSππ‘
πOh that person said this about me πThey commented rude things about me βΉοΈThey attacked me for expressing my opinions π₯². Girl stop it π βοΈ Get over yourself . We need to step into our " IDAF" ERA !
π‘BEING HATED ON IS A PRIVILEGE
Being hated on means you are RELEVANT ! You are so extremely relevant because that person is taking their time off to focus on YOU rather than themselves. Only the insecure people would choose you as their target because they are threatened by you.
πSTOP PUTTING YOUR HATERS ON A PEDESTAL
Why are you putting your haters or bullies on a pedestal ? Why do their opinions outweigh your own opinions ? π€ Value yourself above these haters. Reassure yourself and put yourself on a pedestal. You should know you are great and you know your intention. Their words stay in your mind because you are giving them your power , precious energy and attention to them. You are giving their words more power than your own words.
π‘YOUR WORTH DOES NOT RELY ON EXTERNAL OPINIONS
You are not an opinion of someone who does not know you or care about you. Realize this and you will be free ! As I told you before in my know your worth post , your worth should not rely on external opinions, if your worth relies on external opinions , you are a slave to other people. Your worth is intrinsic, it comes from within and it is present since the day you were born.
πJUDGEMENT IS THE GAME OF THE MISERABLE.
Haters are miserable. It is a fact. Even if it looks like they are doing better , they are not. Your hater could be the prettiest person in the world but when they look at themselves , they feel ugly. That is why people who usually bully or hate on others try to make the other person make insecure so that they can feel better about themselves. Happy people do not hate .
π‘IT IS NOT PERSONAL
It is never personal, it is not about you, it is about them.It is so important to realize that haters are always projecting.
πNO RESPONSE IS THE BEST RESPONSE
The best response to a hater is no response. Do not give them your precious energy and time. If you show them that you are hurt by their comments , they will not feel bad for you . In fact , they will be happy because they won , they wanted your energy, time and wanted to feel they have power over you. Just be unbothered , do not give a damn about these losers. That is how you take your power back . Other people need your permission to make you feel bad about yourself, do not give them the permission.
π‘A-T-T-E-N-T-I-O-N
If someone has an issue with you and they are telling everyone except you , they do not have a real issue with you , they just enjoy the attention they get from talking about you.
πI DONT CARE , YOU ARE YOU , I AM ME
Like our Queen Wonyoung said, if someone says something about her that is not true , she does not care . I don't care , You are You, I am me.
π‘LOVE YOURSELF
Focus on your good qualities about yourself. Love yourself. Our Queen Wonyoung said that people will give you criticism even when you do not need it , so she only gives herself nothing but love. That is how you should think too. Give yourself nothing but love.
π FOCUS ON YOU
Have a life. Be too busy to focus on these gremlins. If you are sitting idle and rotting in bed the whole day , of course , your brain will wonder. Have a routine. Be too focused on yourself to care about them.
π‘KNOW YOURSELF
If you know yourself and understand yourself , you will not care what other people think about you. For example , if you know you are smart and beautiful , you will not care if someone else says that you are dumb or ugly. Take it like this, you are wearing a red t-shirt , someone comes upto and says your t-shirt is blue , will you believe them ? Will you try to explain yourself to them ? Or will you just be like - oh what a dumb person and move on with your life ?
πHAVE COMPASSION
You need to stop seeing them as a toxic , mean or evil personπ . See them as someone who is unhealed , hurt or insecure . You do not need to be nice, kind or say anything to them. Have compassion for them and wish that they heal from whatever they are going through. Shift your energy from hurt and sadness to compassion. You will protect your peace and you will be unfazed.
π‘THEY ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT
Does this person contribute anything to your life ? Will their opinions help you pay your bills? Will their opinions help you pass your exam ? If no , why do you care about them ? They are not that important but you are . You should take care of you and not lose yourself because of what one person or many people say about you. They do not matter. They are irrelevant. You are the main character of your life.
πYOU ARE NOT BORN TO IMPRESS
In this world of social media , we often try to impress people who we do not even know. Always remember that YOU ARE BORN TO EXPRESS , NOT TO IMPRESS.