*wistful sigh*
â° i am the luckiest girl alive
â° everything goes my way and way only
â° i love how everything just naturally goes my way
â° i always get what i want because i have luck on my side
â° i was born into this life to be the luckiest girl alive
â° why am i so god dam lucky?
â° everything i want just instantly falls into my lap
â° i am a magnet for miracles
â° i attract more success and luck everywhere i go
â° I always get special treatment
â° amazing opportunities flow to me like water
â° everything just loves to work in my favour
â° literally everything always works out for me
â° luck is always on my side so i never have to worry about anything
â° everything i want just easily and effortlessly flow into my life
â° i am always in the right place at the right time
â° everything is working and happening for me
â° i am blessed with the abundance of luck
â° everything comes easily to me
â° life is a game and it is rigged in my favour
â° life is a game i always win
â° i was born lucky
â° i am just naturally lucky
â° everything falls into place perfectly for me
â° things just naturally go my way no matter what
â° i donât even try and im still the luckiest person in the world
"If prostitution empowered women; men would be against it."
Hey everyone, Abby here with another post! Today weâre talking a bit about world-building, and specifically your worldâs intelligent species. Letâs hop right in!
Iâve made a post in the past about creating new species in your world, and hereâs what I want to start with. Within the context of this post, Iâm defining race as any variation of an intelligent species for ease of language. That in mind, you will want to have your species developed.
There are some aspects that you just have to answer questions for in order to develop. Here are some basics for you to start with:
What is the origin species?
What defines a different race? Skin color, abilities, some physical marker? Something non-physical?
What is most known about this race as a fact?
What is most known about this race as a stereotype?
Are there any common variations within this race?
For Dungeons and Dragons players, think about the Dragonborn race. Different scale colors donât mean a different race, but they do mark different abilities.
There may be common variations in appearance, like different eye colors or heights, that donât have any other meaning. Just regular physical variation!
Are there any skills or other characteristics specific to this race?
What distinguishes this race from other races that may exist in your world?
How much interaction is there between different races?
Are there any areas of the world that each race tends to gravitate to?
Are there different expected life spans for each race? If they are different, why?
For example! In the RPG Iâm working on, Journey to Valeria, there are two races in the Steerean species: shallow and Reclusive. They share a similar origin species, but different characteristics have created other aspects enough for them to be considered different races. As a result, Iâve developed them as two separate races with their own characteristics.
Go ahead and compare this to some aspects of DnD as well! The game does an awesome job of distinguishing between races and making each one unique, and I find that looking at things in context helps me a lot.
You, as the creator of this world, are also its master. What things outside of just answering questions do you think is important to know right off the bat? For one of my races, I wrote about camouflage in the environment and some elements of magic because I think those are things important to the development.
These could be topics like:
History
Associated cultures or religions
Temperaments, if applicable
Strengths and weaknesses specific to this race
And anything else that you think is important. As Iâm developing the races on Steere, Iâm thinking a lot about how different races interact with the world, how they use technology, their general lifestyles, etc.
Usually when you create a fantasy race, your goal is to make this race as well-rounded as possible. Creating an intelligent species, much less several different variations of one, can be very difficult! This is something that will take time and a lot of thought, but itâs vital to the process.
I talked about Journey to Valeria a bit more than I anticipated I would, but what can I say? Iâve been on a kick lately, and I like talking about the things that matter to me. If youâd like, you can follow the projectâs blog @journeytovaleriaâ to see more updates and development!
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i'm losing hope of byler being an endgame :( milevens say that we are invalidating mileven, besides having several scenes that they show "passion/love". they make fun of us, besides always giving reasons why mileven is an endgame, and disrespecting other people's ship, and maybe actually Will will be with another boy right?? idk but I really hope I'm not being deluded
lol lets not focus on byler for a sec and mostly discuss mileven. what scenes show milevenâs âpassion/loveâ? Because the show invalidates mileven constantly-why theyâre so aggressive/afraid of us.THEY KNOW ITâS DOOMED (they live in head canons and nothing else). Iâm going to try keeping this short by doing bullet points.
-The writers in s3 threw in a telemarketing joke just for Mike to say âEl. no. sorry not interestedâ and hang up the phone.Â
Mike: âif weâre both going crazy. weâll go crazy together right?âwill: âyeah, crazy together â *smile and stare longingly at eachother *ââââââââââââââââââââ-Mike: âthey do say it makes you crazyâEl: âwhat makes you crazy?â(the exact opposite of crazy together as she continues to be confused over every explanation he gives of love đ)ââââââââââââââââââââ-During the byler fight Mike says âelâs not stupid!â After this, Will calls himself â so stupid â 4x . rips up photo where they said theyâd go crazy together and cries . But, El after fighting with mike happily says: âthereâs more to life than STUPID boys .â Elâs catchphrase being ânot stupidâ which she says in s2 before going to see Mike at the school. And Nancy before Mike says he loves El / Mikeduring the byler fight (about mileven) say âElâs not stupid!â
original gifs sources
-the s3 stobin confession parallels milevenâs s3 shop confession (full analysis in link). Both El/Robin have bandages on their legs and both pairings sit together (on the floor) during their confessions- and are interrupted by Dustin. And in both straight baits- the guys use the terms âstupid/crazyâ but subvert the expectation of it being romantic-as both girls say theyâre not âcrazyâ or âstupidâ for the guy. El saying âwhat makes you crazy?â in response to Mike. And Robin saying she was not into Steveâs âstupid hairâ (similar to El saying thereâs more to life than âstupid boysâ/other saying sheâs not stupid.âAlso the song âthe first i love youâ only plays twice in s3. During Steveâs romantic confession and robin rejecting him because sheâs gay & Elâs romantic confession and awkward kiss with mike (where Mike doesnât reciprocate). Cause Robin/Mike are both gay and will reject the romantic confession.
- Erica making he-man and barbie kiss: âHey , Theyâre in love!âLucas (livid- and standing right next to a rainbow forcing them apart): âNo, actually,  theyâre not. theyâre not even from the same planet.â El even watches he-man in s1! Mileven is not in love!
Cue El and mike being compared to ET and Eliot -WHO ARENâT FROM THE SAME PLANET (by the Duffers in multiple interviews and in the pilot script ) .  And then thereâs the  old euphemism of âgirls come from Venus, and boys come from Marsâ. The Duffers saying mileven isnât in love cause theyâre not from the same planet (aka the same gender) -is just them telling us Mike is gay so he canât fall for El-who is a girl/diff species. They literally have Will say to Mike âwelcome to my worldâ as a contrast. So El telling mike he should âstick with his own speciesâ (aka boys) is another gay hint.
In s2 they even had El wear the same shirt as a 1986 movie character (staring Winona Ryder). The movie is called coincidentally âlucasâ- and heâs in an unrequited romantic relationship with a gal named maggie. And he later says him and Maggie are  from âdifferent worlds.â El being movie-Lucas in a unrequited romance, in this scenario. And the other easteregg is the Duffers have st-Lucas  say the âplanet/worldsâ similar to movie-Lucas.
some milevens also attribute romeo/juliet to mileven cause Dustin mentioned it while mileven was out of shot. But romeo & juliet werenât actually in love-it was just kids in infatuation. And also used to describe the unrequited infatuation of Lucas/Maggie.
-Also when dustin in s1 says el is âlike a wizardâ (like Will.) Mike corrects dustin and says âmore like yodaâ. Really hammering down the alien references- which the Duffers reference to el in interviews all the time-by comparing her to et . In the pilot they even said mike and el are like âEliot and et.â They said they made el dress like a ghost cause et did so- and then for the extra burn they made mike a ghost hunter/buster. And they also said that ELâs makeover in s1 was like etâs in the movie. And sorry ... who compares the girl they âcrush onâ with a green gross alien (yoda)- kind of shows how he sees her more as this foreign superpowered entity rather than a girl/crush. And on what planet is et /Eliot romantic??Answer is -itâs not.Â
- In contrast, They have Mike and Will parallel  Diane and Venkman. In ghost Busters, Mike -is Venkman- and Will -is Dana Barret- who Venkman flirts with shamelessly until she is possessed. Dana finds a demon-dog in her fridge, and hires the ghost busters. And right before Venkman goes on a date with her she is possessed by the big-bad, Zuul, and is transformed into the gate-keeper (who controls demo(n)-dogs). Venkman proceeded to try to talk to the real Dana , ignoring her possessed form and eventually realizes how serious her condition is, is forced to sedate her. Eventually with the help of his team, Venkman closes the gate to Zuulâs dimension, rescuing Dana in the process. And Venkman plants one on Dana before riding away in triumph. While, El is a ghost and Mike is a ghost hunter XD
Notice in the same season lucas says mileven is ânot in loveâ and compares mileven to he-man and barbie . Dustin has a  he-man & Et next to each other (along with a ghost buster sign above them, and the ghostbusters-trap next to et). This just reinforces the mileven eastereggs Iâve already talked about -  and how they want you to make the connections  about mileven not being in love. They showed et/barbie next to he-man, had El watch he-man, compared El to Et (who had a barbie-like makeover/ghost costume), so the next he-man ref of ânot being in loveâ cause rheyâre from different planets would connect in a more obvious way to mileven.  Same with Et next to the ghost trap and ghost busters sign (and El dressing as a ghost and Mike as a ghost buster-as an extra burn).
- Mike dehumanizing El is hammered down again when they compare s1 mileven to s2 dart /dustin (a demo dog) , to further show how un-romantic it is. Fin even said the duffers told him Mike saw el (OFFENSIVELY) as a âpuppyâ (right after s1). And of course millie accurately said âwhat a horrible way to describe me!âBut the parallels are there: Dustin/Mike sharing sweets ( nougat vs eggos) for breakfast and saying theyâll have to wait for them to come home from school. And having mike annoyed, say  âa bond? cause you shared nougat?!â is dissing milevens who think the ego thing is cute/romantic. Dustin/Mike saying they âpromisedâ to take care of them and that they âtrustâ dustin & mike. Dart killing a cat and El almost killing a cat. Dustin/Mike trying to convince Lucas- Dart & El arenât bad. The boys thinking both El & Dart were bad guys causing both to end up running away because of that. Mike even admits in s1 he doesnât like eggos and told El she doesnât have to eat âlike a dogâ anymore. itâs ironic when Mike says to Dustin âsheâs not a dogâ cause he treated her as such. Why El says in s3 angrily , âam I your pet?â Itâs because he did/does unfortunately treat her this way to some degree.Â
*teaching the meaning of promise vs com-promise. And making âpromisesâ to eachother is not some super romantic thing- for just mileven.
* Telling her to eat âreal foodâ vs eggos
* saying her new look is âcoolâand saying itâs âbitchinâ after El says the look is.
* Saying others are âcorrupting herâ and in response gals say neither respect her ability to make âdecisionsâ in regards to romance. Hopper not accepting Mileven together (want them to break up) and Mike not accepting she dumped him.
* Max saying to not let Hopper/Mike control her
*El saying âyou lieâ to both of them
ok , back to listing other points
- they dance to âevery breath you takeâ a break up song about a stalker ex who canât accept he is now with her friend. The writer of the song also has said many times âitâs NOT a love song.â The duffers obviously knew that. Lumax also danced to it and Lucas was called a âstalkerâ . El also stalked Mike in s2 (all that stuff milevens found romantic- El watching him without him knowing. Mike says he was not ok with it in s3). And in s3 he said not to do that and she just says âi make my own rulesâ.Plus, sting (the singer) mentions itâs supposed to sound romantic but the lyrics are sinister. And that the ambiguity/deceptive happy -romantic tone was intentional. Kind of like how people think mileven is healthy and in love when the show (ambiguosly says ) that itâs not -and the âoppositeâ.Just like the song being misinterpreted as romantic because of its deceptive packaging -mileven is the same . Mileven got popular cause everyone missed all the warning signs it wasnât healthy (cause it was packaged as âcuteâ and â in loveâ) when behind the surface it was shown to be the opposite and not healthy.
 Not to mention Nancy teaching Dustin how to dance is a direct parallel to Mike teaching El.Â
Mike also tries to act like Dustin, and  forces Will to dance with a girl (whoâs wearing a rainbow hair clip). Trying to be a good sport like Dustin is about lumax. And right after this we see Dustin look sad about Max/Lucas dancing and Mike (next to Dustin) look sadly at Will/girl dancing in the same exact frame as Max/Lucas. As they switch between these 2 shots to emphasize their sadness/jealousy.Then they both sit down (mirroring each other) on the verge of tears before Nancy and El show up to comfort them and distract them.  As El once again (presumably) wears Nancyâs dress. Mike after El asks âwill you be my brother?â âyou cant go (to the snowball) with your sister... i mean you can but itâd be really weird.âÂ
- before their first kiss in s1 she asked if he would be like her brother (after being compared to a cousin, and being compared to Holly, and wearing Nancyâs dress.) In s2 they even make a direct parallel to Luke &Leia (who were siblings who had a weird romantic relationship/kissed before realizing they were related). Mike (as Leia) saying âitâs a trapâ to El (Luke).Â
- Mike in s1 writes a d&d story for Will inspired by star wars. Â in ep one Will tells Mike âit was a 7, the demogorgan it got me.âAt the end of the season Mike writes a whole story of him and his friends killing a 7 headed monster, and showing the decapitated head of the monster to king Tristan (Will). Similar to how at the hospital he tells Will to not worry cause âitâs dead nowâ. This is right after Will rolls a 14 (cause Mike and Will are 7s together). And Mike who is a fan of starwars has King Tristan give them medals after killing the monster. Cause he wants Will/king tristan (instead of Leia -a girl) to present him with medals and be his romantic love interest (and praise him for being a hero).
- They had Dustin call mileven âbullshitâ just like stancy (who were never in love). And in s3 for almost every single character in the show to dislike mileven . if that isnât a cry for help from the writers idk what is XD
other stancy parallels: Making out on a bed to cheesy music. stancy wasnât in love but they kissed the most in the series and nancy and steve (similar to mileven exchanged âi love yousâ) but werenât endgame and it was never love. Mike and Steve sing to their gfs and neither girls are fans and cut them off.In s1, both Nancy/Mike slap Steve and El and then both yell â What is wrong with you?!â Stancy/mileven are compared to Karen/ted who according to Nancy ânever loved each otherâ. El is a fan of tedâs lazy boy. (Karen in s3 looks at Ted in the chair when the lyric âI should have walked away â plays). And Steve and ted continuing to eat chicken as their gf /wife storm off from the table upset , and they do nothing. After the mileven and Karen/Ted fight- Steve says while eating âwhat did I do?what did i do?â And mike while eating says about el after their fight âwhat did i do wrong? what did i do wrong?!Steve and Ted both tell Mike to âstay on the bench/youâre on the bench.â Karen/ ted that they ânever loved each otherâ (just like mileven and stancy which are âbullshit.â) All 3 wheelers were with people cause it seemed like the rational choice ( rich guy/ popular guy/ girl). Not to mention mike said â I donât rememberâ ( in reference to saying he loved el ) . And doesnât say it back when el says âI love youâ. Which mimics Nancy in s2 saying âI donât remember â (saying the stancy relationship is bs) . And she is also unable to say she loves Steve when he saysâsay you love me.â And Steve and el walking away as both wheelers stand there in silence. Unable to say âI love youâ back.  Also, when stancy officially breakup it also pans to mileven on the porch as another parallel.And 11byers mentioned (at Christmas)  jancy has a moment but despite stancyâs issues she goes back to Steve where she looks sad over the decision .  Similar to how Byler have a moment , but then after , mileven talks about christmas  and they have that awkward kiss. In s3, steve when talking about stancy and trying to be popular even says âdustinâs right itâs all a bunch of bullshit.â (meaning Dustinâs right about mileven). Steve even says âeverything people tell you is important that youâre supposed to care about- itâs bullshit.â (same season Mike mimics Lucasâ words from s1 about El being the âmost important thingâ.
-They also had Mike tell Max âi donât hate you. I donât even know you.â Â Aka he canât hate Max or love el cause he knew both for a week-and doesnât know them. The amount of mileven burns that were in s2 -were insane XD.
besides the ones already mentioned. 1) âcrazy together/so stupidâ vs âwhat makes you crazy?/elâs not stupid/more to life than stupid boys & 2)Â âtheyâre not in love theyâre not even from the same planetâ vs bylerâs âwelcome to my worldâ
3) Mike has drastically different expressions after the byler/mileven fights and the difference in weather and music selection ,convey how Mike is feeling. He looks regretful with Will, and almost annoyed with El dumping him.  Mileven breaks up to upbeat music on a sunny day (the break up being in front a crowd and a joke) vs the morose music and the storm shown (with just Mike and Will fighting ). We are supposed to take the byler fight seriously and the mileven one as a joke.They had Mike apologize to Will immediately. But with El he says âwhat did i do wrong?â (Kind of like how ted, after pissing off karen says âwhat did I do?â)And then had Mike wait by the phone for her to apologize- says sexist stuff about her. Then have mike laugh/burp and talk about cheese and El to laugh about the break up/high five max and immediately oggle a pic of another boy/male celeb (unlike Will who looks sadly at the pic of Mike after their fight). And then after staring at the teen-male celeb, El says sheâs not sure if Mikeâs a good kisser cause heâs just her âfirst boyfriendâ and she has no other boys to compare him to (implying sheâs thinking of other boys in the future). Contrasted to Will who said he thought him & Mike would never get gfs but just spend the rest of their lives together. El after all these events, then happily reads comics as Max says she shouldnât hang out with Mike all the time. VS Will having him sadly read his comic to distract himself only to throw his comic on the ground right before he looks at the pic of mike from Halloween (where they said they would go âcrazy togetherâ), calls himself stupid (unlike El saying thereâs more to life than stupid boys/mike saying El is not stupid-aka in love ). And then destroys castle byers /crIES after the their fight. These events were perfect opposites.
4) When Mike says in the pool shed sheâs the âmost important thing in the worldâ to him. she cuts him off and says Hopper is right about them spending too much time together. But when Mike in the shed says asking Will to be his friend was the âbest thing heâs ever doneâ (it was practically the cliche of true love breaking the curse) XD.
When Mike says to El  âyouâre most important thing to meâ in the pool shed. El doesnât even acknowledge the comment (and neither should the audience- cause the words were empty). The framing of this mileven scene was not cinematic or heartfelt, and neither was the delivery from Mike. Heâs not crying, trying to reach her with proclamations of his genuine feelings. Thereâs no dramatic music, framing, lighting or shot composition (and the scene was incredibly short).And El just responds and cuts his supposed âtrue feelingsâ off- only to agree with Hopper and says â what if heâs rightâ  . I didnât speed this up FYI.
Juxtaposed to the MUCH longer byler shed scene. A literal single tear falling down his cheek as Mike , recounts the first day they met. This whole monologue is only of tight shots of just their faces (their bodies arenât shown like in the pool shed scene). With contrasting colors of light and shadow.This is a personal moment between them and them alone- and the fact we zoom in on their faces (expresses this to be important emotionally) . And when we see Willâs reaction to Mike saying âit was the best thing Iâve ever doneâ. We just see Willâs face only- no music is playing and all we hear is  Willâs whimpers and Mike crying in the background.*
5) Max in s2 at Willâs house questions how Mike can still trust Will now that heâs a spy for the mf . Max (in s3) at Elâs house: says that Mike doesnât trust El- and Mike mentions that her spying is why he doesnât trust her. in s2, Mike: âif anyone could stop them itâs Willâ. Max: â I thought we couldnât trust him that heâs a spy for the mf now?â Max in s3 calling Mike out : âEl has saved the world twice. And Mike still doesnât trust her.â Mike: you want to talk about trust really?! after... Eleven spied on us! I guess girlfriends donât lie they SPY!â
Not to mention - the fact is... El has âsaved the world twice but Mike still doesnât trust herâ to fight the mf. Yet he 100% believed Will could defeat the mf -despite Will being possessed/a spy for the mf . And despite the fact Mike thinks Will has no powers - unlike El ( but we all know he does , though :P). And, Mike even says Billy is dangerous cause the âmf is in him ...Billyâs mind is sick, diseasedâ (but with Will possession -Mike still trusted him). Max rolls her eyes and stares challengingly at Mike cause she remembers what Mike said about Will in s2- and the hypocrisy . And she finds it annoying how little faith he has in her compared to his almost unmoving-trust in Will (who at the time was possessed) . Mike has 100% trust and faith in Will-but simply doesnât trust El. And MAX KNOWS IT! Cause sheâs paying attention. Like her facial expression/raised brow, at the end, is a challenge- you think non-superpowered Will could defeat the mf but not El with a history of fighting monsters? You say Billy possessed by the mf is dangerous- but still have more faith in Will possessed by the mf- than your own gf?! tbh El couldnât defeat the mf (so technically him trusting Will over El was proven to be correct). He wasnât right about the El âgiving upâ bs and he was still wrong for not respecting El as her âown personâ with her âown free willâ : not believing in Elâs ability to make decisions like breaking up with him/ not believing El made the idea to spy on him, etc . But, Team work has always been what saved the day in s1-2, so over-relying on El to do it all and acting like she was the messiah ( like most of the st fanbase) was a poor plan . Itâs not the El-show (itâs an ensemble cast with several mains). When they relied on her only ,to be the chosen one- she lost her powers, 30+ people d*ed, and they had to save her.
6)Â ) El and Will both calling for âMikeâ alone in the upside down . And Mike ânever giving upâ on them.In the exact same ep (s2 e2) , both call for Mike from the upside down. El saves herself without Mikeâs help. But Mike rushes to save Will crouching to comfort Will (whose body language mirrors Elâs but who was alone in the forest after she sees mike and he did nothing).Â
in s2 ep 1, both call for Mike ,but Mike only comes for Will -not el. It was like how Nancy in s1 called for Jon, and jonathan pulled her out of the upsidedown. Â And as Jonathan and Mike both pull Nancy and Will back from the upside down , Jonathan says âI got youâ. And Mike says âI got him â twice. But mileven is like how barb while in the upsidedown called for Nancy (but nancy didnât hear her screaming her name-cause it shows symbolically Nancy does not return Barbâs romantic feelings). Just like mileven.
Mike even saw Willâs dead body but the second he heard his voice he convinced everyone he was alive. Mike deep down assumed El was dead he brushed off seeing El as seeing things (like how Hopper described seeing Sarah). He even tells Max â they took her just like they took bobâ who was dead. Then a few minutes later lies and says he ânever gave upâ on her when she appears alive (which was a lie cause he just said she was dead). When El goes to his house Mike doesnât ever go the forest to find her (unlike how Mike went into the forest in the pouring rain twice for Will). The truth is the only person he ânever gave up onâ was Will.
7) They have El & Will have pics of Mike on Halloween (same night of the âcrazy togetherâ speech). El only has a pic of Mike being miserable  and Will has pics of Mike staring at Will, and smiling next to him- despite the joke Mike never smiles in photos , this isnât the case when mike is next to Will (he always smiles with Will). Cause being crazy with Will makes him happy - unlike his relationship with El who he fakes being âcrazyâ about .
zoom in of Will & Elâs pics of Mike: Willâs pic on left vs Elâs on right . XD
8) Millie said El is âobsessed with Mikeâ so she has Mike-themed stuff all over her room. She has a drawing with a heart that says mike on it/random heart pics, mike pic, dice that spell out mike, mikesâ stuff. So, Itâs funny that mike has nothing relating to El at his place. In contrast to this, he still has 5 d&d drawings from Will on his wall (that heâs kept on his wall for 3 years despite removing an old poster from that same wall-which he gave to El). Mike even put up a 6th Will-drawing in s3- next to his new poster. And he never put a single 1 of her many drawings on his wall-just Willâs).
back to other points...
- They compared mileven to karen/billy. El in s2 , mimics Erica Kane who m(in the ep she is watching) rushes into a relationship with a writer named Mike Roy. (That relationship is not endgame-and literally ends with one of them stalking and sabotaging their next relationship, but eventually accepting itâs over). This, also parallels Karen/ Billy. Before she meets him in s2, Karen is reading a romance book that has a guy that resembles Billy on the cover. The Duffers even mentioned they changed the cover to show the resemblance between Billy and the fictional book character. And we see Karen reading the sequel in s3 before Billy appears. Both El and Karen donât/didnât love Mike or Billy- they just projected onto them fictional characters they were infatuated with. El being into Mike roy- but projecting her crush on to Mike wheeler.
-They had Elâs whole s2 arc be destroyed to show mileven is bad for her. âfriends donât lieâ to let me lie to my friends so I can kiss mike and ditch them. lucas even said âtheyâre lying (about her curfew).âAnd lie to Mike about hearing his confession. Then in s2 trying to leave the cabin to experience the world and see my friends and fam again. To literally ignoring them all for 6 months and never leaving the cabin-despite Hopper letting me leave the house in s3.
- El in s3 says Mike treats her âlike a petâ and âgarbageâ.
-In s1 Mike referred to her as a âweaponâ to help get Will back. smacked her when he thought she lied about Will being alive and said Lucas was right about her all along when he thought Will was dead and he couldnât use her anymore.Â
- They had El never apologize for spying/stalking . And Mike never apologize for lying -despite it being the cause of the breakup . And had mike not reciprocate the kiss/ or say âi love you â back and had his eyes open while the same exact song plays that robin came out to: called âthe first i love youâ). These are the only 2 times the song plays in s3. The âfirst i love youâ also sounds like âthe first lieâ - that song played when jancy said they were just friends. it sounds the same cause jancy lied about it not being romantic while mileven lied by saying it was. He never apologized for lying cause the love is the lie- like Max said âboyfriends lie ALL THE TIMEâ. And itâs why the camera panned to Will when Lucas asked why Mike lied to her. And he never answers Elâs question of âwhy do you lie?!â (he just looks up silent and guilt ridden).This awkward kiss all happens in Willâs room too while Mike is in front of an open closet (while El is holding Willâs old bear). Â
Plus he also fought with Hopper in s2 (âabout Elâ) in Willâs room too. He wasnât actually calling Hopper the liar he was calling himself âa stupid disgusting liarâout of self hate . That scene was foreshadowing his lying to El in s3 (about his feelings for her). He blamed Hopper for his feelings for Will cause he told himself it wouldnât have escalated if El had been around to âfix himâ . âI BLAME YOU! NOTHING ABOUT THIS IS OK! NOTHING ABOUT THIS IS OK. YOU STUPID DISGUSTING liar, liar, liar, liarâ.starts crying.
-Â Mike says âi never gave up on you (to El). â When moments earlier he says âit took her just like it took Bob.â HEâS LYING AGAIN. He always thought she was dead -he was just hoping she was alive so he didnât have to blame himself. He felt bad for treating her like a âweaponâ. Mike saw El and didnât even bother looking for her in the woods cause he assumed she was dead and was hallucinating. Mike saw Willâs dead body- but heard his voice and got him from another dimension (for El he couldnât even bother to walk into the woods). Despite going into the woods in the pouring rain 2x for Will in s1& 3. El and Mike both call for Mike in the upside down (Mike in the same ep only comes for Will).
- They barely spoke to each other and all they did was makeout for 1 ep (while Mike put a drawing of âWill (the fire wielding) wiseâ on the wall to help him kiss her/ with rainbows pic everywhere in the room to signify heâs gay and lying). All while listening to a mixtape Will gave him as he kisses El.As Mike moves her hands off him (and sings a song from âboy in the boxâ) and El says to Max later she doesnât know if mikeâs a good kisser . And Mike rushes to one of his many established double-dates with Will and lumax (x). And Mike in s3 when dating el, removes the sign of the heart being propelled by a rainbow (which he had before meeting El in his basement) .BUT it follows him symbolically ,as a drawing of a heart being propelled by a rainbow (in elâs room- cause no matter how much he kisses el there, he canât escape his rainbow/being gay.)
-as mileven kiss in s3 e1. We zoom in on the drawing of Will the wise (the lyrics over the pic are âa little more time can open closing doorsâ). And then Mike continues to sing this song from âboy in the boxâ (cough closet).Will in s3e1 says he wonât fall in love and the song then a diff song plays âlove that was new to you , you open up the door.â mileven at the end of s3 kissing in front of Willâs open closet door with Mikeâs eyes open not kissing back , and saying he doesnât â remember â the love you and just says it was âin the heat of the momentâ. The mike song being from âboy in the boxâ (closet). And they make out to âI canât fight this feelingâ which the singer says is about wanting to admit your feelings to your friend of many years and being afraid itâll ruin the relationship. Aka even when kissing El heâs thinking of Will and admitting his feelings and not being able to fight his feelings
- Mike saying about Max âawesome? you donât even know her.â Dustin says â i donât have to i mean look at her.â El was said in s1 multiple times to look like a boy (specifically Will). So Dustin and Lucas had no interest in her -only Mike did. BUT when max (a girl who looked like a girl) arrived- they as straight boys were smitten. And Mike was not interested at all (cause heâs gay). The fact people donât realize Mike was rude to her because he thought Will liked her too makes me laugh - he even was 1/2 honest in s3 saying he was jealous of her XDÂ
why in s3 (when she looks like a girl) the compliment to her look is almost the same as Hopperâs comment to her makeover in s2. Paralleling Mike to her dad is the opposite of romantic!
-people say in s3 Will saying âa day free of girlsâ is gay coded but everyone ignores Mike in s3 saying âBOYS ONLYâ. Same energy.
-MiKE has more rainbows than Will: Mikeâs rainbow bedroom blinds, the rainbow-heart wooden sign in the basement in s1, the rainbow heart drawing that says Mike in s3, a rainbow sticker in his room, byler standing behind a rainbow poster in s2. And Will with the rainbow ship and the girl he danced with having a rainbow hearts-hairclip.
- People mention Mike saving El in s3 was romantic ( when he hit Billy). But when Billy slapped max he charged in to save her too and tried punching him (despite their beef). that moment wasnât romantic (unless you think madweheeler is- which no). Mike is just a good person- he also risked his life for dustin. Heâs brave and will defend HIS FRIENDS.Â
- weâre almost to the end for those not keeping tract mileven is compared to stancy, ted/karen, karen/billy, stobin, Dart/Dustin, max &mike, barb/nancy, nancy & dustin, siblings & cousins & a parent/kid dynamic. And contrasted to byler.
- Finn, after s1, said the duffers told him,  Mike thinks of her as a âpuppy/ âetâ , and that Mileven was a  âfirst summer love thingâ- foreshadowing what was milevenâs downfall during the Summer (aka s3). He repeats this âfirst summer loveâ phrase 2x.  Millie when he mentioned what the duffers said, rightfully thought the puppy thing was âawfulâ, but Finn was clearly told mileven doesnât last -very early on.Summer loveâ by definition fails-as it only lasts during the summer. Â
-It wasnât a break it was a breakup. Like Max and Will said in response to Mike  â she said she dumped your ass! That doesnât sound like a break?!/ it wasnât!â Or El knocking all the candy out of the machine, except the kit kat Mike wanted. Slogan of kit-kat â having a break , have a kit kat.â In other words, it was NOT a break. It was a breakup. Difference is - in s4 itâll be El who canât accept this fact , not Mike. Max having to correct El that Mike is her âex boyfriendâ after the breakup (in s3) foreshadows this.The other couples in s3 who fought -were always still paired together in framed shots (jancy/ lumax) were on a break (but got back together- by the end of s3, not confident about their futures together, but they still have a distinction from mileven-based on such framing). That mileven didnât get back together. El in s3 was always on her own and Mike was paired with Will (while the other couples were in frame).Â
this could go on and on honestly. thereâs so much other stuff proving mileven is not going to be endgame. Not to mention all of Mikeâs queer coding (x) XDÂ Â
âRadical feminism is a perspective within feminism that calls for a radical reordering of society in which male supremacy is eliminated in all social and economic contexts. Radical feminists view society as fundamentally a patriarchy in which men dominate and oppress women.â
Prostitution
Purchased consent is not consent, itâs coercion. Sex work is dehumanizing and traumatizing for women, and fueled by sex trafficking. The commodification of female sexuality is a mix of misogyny and capitalism.
Pornography
Prostitution on camera. See above for key points. Additionally, female sexuality should not be monetized and sold for male entertainment. The industry is rife with rape, abuse, coercion, trafficked women, drugged women, and CP. It harms not only the women involved in the videos (physically and mentally), but it also harms the viewers in the long run.
Surrogacy
Similar to prostitution and pornography in the sense that womenâs bodies become acquirable products for sale or rent. A woman's organs should not be for rent, as it creates a perverse incentive. Most surrogacy is outsourced to disadvantaged women in developing nations, where they are made to sign contracts they can't read and undergo poor treatment.
Bodily Autonomy
Understanding that a woman should have complete and utter control of her reproductive system; including abortion, birth, and sterilization. Understanding a woman should have access to informed and accurate medical care. Understanding a woman should have complete control over when and if she engages in sex with a partner. Understanding that PIV is often an unequal act.
Nuclear Family
This allows for the isolation of women, both emotionally and financially. The family unit, ideally, includes a large safety net of family and friends who assist in child rearing. Women should not be financially dependent on men, as this open the potential for abuse and difficulty leaving via power imbalance.
Capitalism
The system that allows the commodification of women and their bodies. Women shouldnât have to sell or rent out their bodies in order to survive.
BDSM/Kink
Wherein the majority of subs are women and the majority of doms are men. Fetishization of slavery, power imbalances, rape, incest, pedophilia, and abuse. Hurting your partner does not suddenly become healthy if you can orgasm to it. Power imbalances that lead to physical and emotional abuse and trauma.
Patriarchal Religions
All holy books were written by men and serve to maintain and legitimize patriarchal power structures. Patriarchal religions falsely attribute the gift of creation to men when in reality every man on earth was molded from the flesh of women.
Postmodernism/Queer Theory
Radical feminism is based on materialism. Women are oppressed because of their biological reality, which is not subjective, subjectable to changes or personal interpretations. Postmodernism and queer theory are.
The Beauty Industry
Fills up the pockets of men who make money by ever-changing standards of female beauty. Keeps women insecure, low self-esteem, their value and self-worth forever dependent on their physical appeal (to men). Demands women change how they appear (makeup, shaving, dieting, cosmetic surgeries) to appear prepubescent (lithe, hair free, firm not soft) which is a part of what we identify as 'pedophilia culture'.
Marriage
Marriage would be described by some as the wheels on which patriarchy is carried onwards. Historically, marriage has been nothing but a transaction: a daughter, who belonged to her father, now belongs to her husband. Her reproductive labor, domestic labor, emotional labor, and physical labor all at his disposal. This is how marriage continues to work and act culturally in a majority of societies
Individualism
As opposed to class analysis. Arguably the most overlooked and hardest ââissueââ to overcome. Itâs understandable that most women gravitate towards liberal feminism because they donât have to analyze the reasons behind their actions, they donât have to come to difficult and unappealing conclusions, they donât have to feel the need to take action and stop engaging in whatever they are doing thatâs harming women as a class. Known as 'choice feminism', which affirms any choice as a personal one, despite what influenced that choice or how it may affect the female class at large (see: plastic surgery, "makeup makes me feel confident!", "I like being hurt during sex!")
Gender Critical/Gender Abolitionist
Gender is a social class applied to biology. Each individuals sex is innate, and gender is the series of roles, expectations, socialization, cultural practices, and personality traits applied to that sex. Sex is "this baby has a vulva" and gender is "so give that baby a pink blanket and a dolly". Therefore, radical feminists understand that gender is a means of oppressing women. They wish to abolish gender. This creates clashes with pieces of trans rights activism, which upholds ones gender as innate. Read more here on this topic.
The main clashing beliefs are as follows:
-Being dysphoric doesnât automatically means trans, since transitioning is only a way of treating dysphoria, and there are many reasons someone might be dysphoric.
-Instead of âidentifying as a man/woman/nonbinaryâ, we should abolish gender altogether.
- Males remain male and females remain female, even if theyâre dysphoric/gnc. Biology is innate. Therefore, for example, a transwoman that rapes someone, is an male abuser. It is male violence.
- Males have male privilege, regardless of how they identify, because society is built upon upholding and amplifying males.
- Females will be opressed, regardless of how they identify, because society is built upon the females-as-a-resource model that holds us as sexual and reproductive resources for male pleasure and male heirs.
Radical Feminist Goals
Women's liberation via the dismantling of male power structures, and the rejection of a woman's "role" within society as a lesser class.
Ways to Achieve This
Separatism/Male Exclusion - simply deciding to center oneâs life and actions around females in all possible aspects. The keeping and protecting of female only spaces. Ultimately, this might look like a female-only society that any girl or woman could enter or leave at will.
Introspection - analyzing oneâs actions and maybe asking oneself: why do I want these things? What's drives this action? Is this the healthiest option for me, physically and mentally? Am I hurting a woman or girl if I partake in this option?
Raising Awareness - of all the issues mentioned above. Talking to women and girls about radical feminism. This is not a solution but a step towards finding or creating more solutions as a community.
Being Politically Active - political agency and action is essential for female liberation; especially concerning topics such as reproductive rights, legislation of prostitution, electing representatives ETC.
Male Reform - investing time and effort into making men aware of the issues, in the hopes that theyâll do their part for the liberation of women and do the same with their fellow men.
Childrearing - Focus on advocacy and action around raising girls and boys the same way, to begin to treat the class divide at the root. This is very difficult without full societal support.
Conclusion
Radical feminism is for female people, by female people. It's ideology goes beyond these tenets, but the ideas presented above should allow you to derive answers as to what that might be. Radical feminism is also referred to as second wave feminism, and is compatible with Marxist feminism and the original principles of intersectional feminism. Thank you for reading.
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White allies do better....
Stop with the "oh well I'm white and i agree" or the "I'm white and I'm sorry for us" on posts about racism
Stop with the lengthy apologizes when you do something small like write the above on posts and someone calls you out on it
Stop asking me for my opinon on what this famous black person did
Stop asking me for my opinion on if a thing is racist or not
Stop asking me to explain basic racist shit to you
Stop telling black people about the time you called your racist uncle out on his racism or the protests you went to
Stop asking for my opinion on things you did that you're scared is racist/has racist undertones
Stop with the white guilt... It ain't helpin nobody
Stop asking one black person for their opinion on something about race... You gotta ask more black people if you want an accurate representation of something because not all of us are the same/think the same thing
Stop treating black people like we're "professors" on racism
Google is free. Can y'all please start treating black people like actual people and not someone to teach you about racism. It's exhausting
My dear friends: When a librarian or teacher says "Audiobooks count as reading", we do not literally mean that audiobooks are the same as decoding visual meaning via symbols representing sounds. We mean, among other things:
Audiobooks can expose listeners to new vocabulary and forms of syntax.
Audiobooks can present listeners with long-form fictional narratives with engaging characters, interesting literary devices, and poetic turns of phrase.
Audiobooks can teach listeners new information in a long-form manner that goes into depth or wide breadth on a particular subject or subjects.
Audiobooks can help listeners' verbal comprehension skills.
Audiobooks can do all these things without presenting the same difficulties to blind, low vision, partially sighted, visually impaired, or dyslexic listeners; listeners with ADHD; listeners who experience physical difficulty with holding a book or e-reader; or listeners who are disabled in a host of other ways that a physical book or e-reader might present.
The written word is not specially imbued with magical noble worth above the spoken word, and if you think it is, you may have some ableism and/or racism to deconstruct.