The Taboo Of Male Chastity

The Taboo of Male Chastity

Male chastity is one of those things that is often judged before being understood. Just the idea of locking a device onto a males sex organ, so he can’t get an erection or play with himself, often turns both genders off the idea.

It’s like looking in on a bdsm scene for the first time without any knowledge that it’s consensual and being creeped out. However, the taboo is created only out of misunderstanding of what it actually is, and what it actually does.

Male chastity, in it’s most basic sense, is abstinence. It’s just a device that aids a male to remain abstinent for his partner while giving her the authority to decide if and when his abstinence ends.

So chastity combined with her authority, just makes abstinence more fun, it makes it something difficult to endure, resulting in much deeper intimacy.

It’s also something that trains him to overcome all of his lust, and focus his attention not on his selfish desires, but on hers. It makes chastity the perfect tool for developing a sex life that works both ways and creates a very satisfied female partner, and a very happy attentive male.

The honor system can work, but generally it takes a lot more work, and many more accidents along the way. Tease and denial without chastity is definitely possible, and can be a lot of fun.

However, chastity does add an extra dimension, because it is a device that is wrapped around his genitals, and grips him gently all day long, reminding him often of his sacrifice for her.

It serves to keep her on his mind, which makes him automatically more romantic, more chivalrous, kind, thoughtful, and overall, far less argumentative. His sexual release being conditional upon her approval, keeps him in constant devotion to her. This can really show the difference between the honor system, and using chastity.

The idea that chastity is unsafe and unhygienic is often a concern that puts many off. When done right, and when fitted properly, a male can pee, and keep clean, with minimal removals.

This might take a bit of time to get used to, but the better the fit, or even a custom device, and hygiene is not a problem. Neither is safety, because once it fits right, it will not deter him from doing any activity, including swimming, going to the gym, or riding a bicycle.

One major concern is that it shrinks the penis over time. This is a myth that can never be proven because the penis cannot shrink, just like it cannot be enlarged. The reason for this is because the penis is not a muscle, it is a sponge that fills with blood.

After a while in the cage, it gets used to only being able to fill with blood a small amount, and like a sponge, it conforms to the size it’s allowed. Many instances on the internet show a submissive’s penis getting progressively smaller using chastity. This is true only to the extent that he keeps wearing small devices and never allows for a full erection.

Once the cage is removed, after a few days or weeks, the penis will naturally begin to grow back to its usual size. So yes, it can shrink it, but only if it’s never allowed to grow to its normal size.

Chastity is meant to be fun. It’s really not meant to be a method of sexual denial. It’s meant to be a tool that helps a male deny himself for her. Most males lack the self control, and after a few days, the temptation gets too great and results in gratification.

Chastity can really help with this, where the temptation is removed simply because the device reminds him that he’s not allowed to give in to temptation. It becomes a great tool for helping a male conquer lust and develop self control over his own sexual urges. This helps him become a better man, and have more respect for women in general, especially his partner.

Male chastity actually has a long history, and if you look back in time, men have used chastity for hundreds of years. They understood the power of sexual energy, and how it can be used for spiritual exploration, and enhancing and nourishing the physical body for endurance in all things.

Many athletes to this day practice abstinence and use their sexual energy to help them win over the competition. Men have also used chastity to bring sexual energy upwards through their body, to cleanse their body of negative energy and old habits, as well as to give themselves multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms extending throughout their whole body.

There is a whole lot of men who can learn from their sexual energy when it’s directed in ways beyond ejaculation. Chastity teaches submissive males this, and it brings them much more in touch with their body, and as a result more in touch with their partners.

When a couple within a female led relationship can see beyond the taboos of male chastity and try it for themselves, then tend to never go back. There is a huge following now, a new trend that is rising, because of male chastity.

The benefits speak for themselves, and the more males come in touch with their bodies, the more they understand about their partner creating harmony. It’s worth trying, even for fun as an experiment, just to attempt to understand it.

Many males fear that going into chastity, and giving up that much control, means that sex will occur less often, but that’s not true at all. Chastity actually sexually charges the relationship, and helps her to develop her own desire, which is something few women ever do. To really explore her desire, and know it’s okay, guilt free, and encouraged by her partner to do so.

This sexual charge, combined with her desire, means there will likely be a lot more sex. It’ll just be a different kind of sex, which a submissive male will come to love.

He may not get let out of his cage each time, but he’s going to discover the true value of giving pleasure. It will cater directly to his submissive desire, which will bring him deeper into subspace, that alone will automatically be more powerful than a sexual release for him.

He will come to love that depth of subspace, through giving pleasure, far more than being released from it. It will make him crave to give pleasure even more.

Eventually he will reach a point where he craves to give pleasure, more than his own sexual release. He will feel naked without his chastity device on, as a symbol of his submission to her.

In the end that’s all chastity becomes, a symbol that he is dedicated to her, devoted to her, and loves her without any selfishness. It’s a beautiful symbol and many female led relationships have discovered it’s beauty, and have incorporated it into their lifestyle and never look back.

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nifragtumble

7 months ago

My wife has me locked in chastity and is out dancing. I asked her to dress sexy and she looked gorgeous when I dropped her off. I have said she should have fun, get a hot guy to buy her a drink and dance. I’m just imagining her grinding against him, feeling his hard cock against her and then……

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She’s said that no guys are interested in her because all the young girls are much hotter.

I’ve said she should find a guy and make the first move………

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nifragtumble

2 years ago

My wife is away with the girls for the weekend next week.

I’ll be home in my chastity cage.

I’m thinking I should offer to shave her pussy before she leaves, just in case….

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nifragtumble

2 years ago

For the first time in ages I have just finished a story to publish on Literotica. As usual, it is based partly on fantasy and partly on real life, here is a very small sneak peek….

After fifteen years of marriage he had quite a few special memories which always made him get hard, or throb in his chastity cage if his wife had locked his cock away for a week or two.

There was the night only a week or two after they had first met and she had been sat next to him watching a film, she had suddenly moved her hand to his crotch, unzipped his fly, pulled his pants part way down, leant down and given him their first blowjob, sucking him and massaging his balls until he had cum in her mouth. She swallowed every drop and carefully cleaned his cock with her tongue before helping him pull his pants back up and snuggling herself against him to continue watching television as though nothing had happened.

Date night several months later when she had excused herself from the table to use the restroom and had returned only to sit and discreetly press her damp knickers into his hand. She had taken him for drinks afterwards and had flashed him her pussy as he held her underwear in his pocket.

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nifragtumble

2 years ago

A short story of mine on literotica, if you like it then please rate and share

https://www.literotica.com/s/shower-time-short-story

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Shower Time (Short Story) - Fetish - Literotica.com

BBW wife enjoys herself in the shower.

The couple are showering together, both naked and enjoying the jets of hot water on their bodies, steam hangs in the air.

Claire has already washed and conditioned her blonde bob and her wet hair is swept back out of her pretty face, her large BBW body has turned a healthy pink from the heat of the water and she uses a sponge to rub shower gel all over her big breasts and the rolls of fat around her stomach. She pays extra attention to her perfectly shaved pussy and adds extra soap to clean around her asshole, enjoying teasing her entrance by pushing a soapy fingertip inside slightly.

Claire cannot really reach her own back, but doesn't ask her husband to help. He is stood watching her, not quite fully under the jets of water and he has his hands behind his back.

Claire rubs the sponge all over his broad chest and down to his stomach, coating him in soapy foam before she reaches a hand down to grab hold of his cock, taking her time to give the head and shaft a careful cleaning with the sponge.

She then moves herself closer and begins rubbing the swollen head of his cock over the soft expanse of her belly before pointing it downwards, underneath her overhanging roll of fat, down between her thick thighs, teasing him against her soapy pussy lips for a few minutes before she turns around and rubs him in the wide crack of her ass, touching him against her rosebud.

He gives a moan of excitement and she gives a laugh and turns back around to face him. She kneels down and starts to kiss and tease him with her tongue and mouth.

She feels him trembling with desire as he keeps his hands behind his back, watching his wife intently as she pulls her mouth away from his cock and reaches down to pick up a thick metal ring around two inches in diameter.

Claire holds the ring up beneath his cock and then reaches two fingers through it, pinching hold of some loose skin from his ball sack and pulling it through. Claire carefully manoeuvres one of his balls through the metal ring before pulling more loose skin through and gently squeezing his other testicle into position and through the hoop, all the time her husband remains stood still without resisting.

Claire reaches a hand up and grips the shaft of his cock tightly, bending it over roughly and pushing the head downwards and into the metal circle, she ignores her husband's groans of discomfort and pushes firmly until the first inch of his cock is through the ring and she shifts her hands again to grip it and pull from the other side.

Within a minute she has expertly fitted and adjusted his cock ring.

Claire picks a second metal piece from the shower floor and tightly grips the shaft of his cock again, his is fully erect and she can feel his pulse through her fingers. She pushes the body of his metal cock cage against the top of his hard, swollen member, which is far too large to fit inside. She does not stop pressing and after several minutes the pressure of Claire's hand squeezing and the unforgiving metal cage begin to defeat her husband's erection and the cage slowly and inexorably slides down his length, centimetre by centimetre, until the cage eventually reaches the base ring, trapping his rapidly shrinking member inside the thick metal bars.

One final adjustment from Claire lines up a set of slots and the two pieces of metal slide together. Claire then holds his caged cock in one hand while the other gropes between her huge soapy breasts to find the thin silver chain with two small keys on it. She selects and uses the first key, which is attached to a brass fitting, to lock the cock cage, pushing the brass device into its slot then twisting and pulling the key away, leaving the metal device sealed tight.

Claire releases her husband's locked cock from her hands. He sees that she has finished and obediently turns himself around so his backside facies Claire, she reaches upwards and uses the second key to undo the set of stainless-steel shackles from around his wrists.

The heavy metal cuffs are placed on the floor just outside the shower before Claire returns to her husband who embraces her. She cuddles herself into him, lifting her face upwards to kiss him as he starts rubbing his hands across her wet naked belly, groping upwards to her breasts and playing gently with her slippery nipples.

She laughs and tells him that she had already cleaned her front and it was her back she needs washing, but first maybe he should get on his knees and give her an orgasm. He obliges without complaint, kneeling and using his tongue and fingers on her greedy pussy while his locked cock dangles useless and untouched between his legs.

Claire grips his hair tightly and pushes his face into her cunt as she feels her orgasm build; loving how hard her husband tries to please her even though he knows there will be no release for him today, telling him to fuck her with his fingers while he rubs his tongue up and down over her swollen clit.

He helps her lift one leg up over his shoulder to give better access to her pussy, holding her steady with one strong hand while using the other to pump three fingers in and out of her soapy wet hole while he continues to circle her hard clit with his tongue.

Claire reaches one hand behind and starts to rub around her asshole, she pushes a finger in up to her first knuckle before the sensations become too much and she has to pull it back out. She perseveres and begins to slowly finger fuck her own ass in time with her husband pushing his fingers into her cunt until she reaches her shuddering climax, almost collapsing on her husband with the intensity.

Suddenly her clit is too sensitive to touch and she moves away for her husband's tongue, letting the fingers slip out of her pussy and ass.

He continues to kneel in front of her and, after a short while, Claire steps forward and spreads her legs slightly using her hand to pull at her pussy lips, she moves her hips around in order to direct a stream of urine onto her chastity slave, aiming for his chest and cock. The golden liquid splashes over him as he grins in excitement, rubbing her piss over his body.

"I love cock cleaning night." She tells him with a laugh. "Now you can scrub my back."

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