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Calum and his jump in SLSP during The New Broken Scene event in Atlanta - October 31, 2015 [via me]

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Just wanted to let you all know that I'm working on You belong 20 now and that I'm so soft for it, it's so healing and my heart can't handle it ksksksk

Not related to what i usually post but I felt the need to vent, and the topic of my venting is Fancalls or more specifically Serial Fancallers. Now Serial Fancallers are people who get into almost every Fancall for a group or idol that is having one, I would consider someone a serial Fancaller if they got into around 5+ calls but honestly even 3 is pushing it for me. Now what bothers me is Dedicated Atiny getting little to no opportunity to win these Fancalls because the delusional fans (usually the stalkers) keep entering and winning. The reason they win is because they host GOs and are basically using other peoples money to increase their chances. Some GOMs (group order managers) straight up don’t tell their buyers that their claims are funding their entries for these FCs. I know people say “it’s their money they can do whatever they want.” Fact is though..it’s not really money from their own pocket, their followers and buyers are funding it and idk about you but I’d be extremely uncomfortable buying from a Serial Fancaller knowing they will be using it to get into Fansigns and calls.

The other real problem is that it creates parasocial relationships and I know that’s quite common in Kpop regardless of the calls, but they are definitely thee worst contribution to it. The more calls these people win the more they think they’ve formed some sort of relationship with the idol be it romantic or friendly. And not only that but most serial Fancallers are absolute scammers, say the most out of pocket things in the idols face and call people poor for not being able to Win any calls when their delusional behavior is brought up.

What Serial Fancallers have been doing nowadays is raffling calls here and there to their followers to make themselves seem nice and giving. This only happened when they started to get dragged/called out and regardless of how many raffles they do to give their followers an “opportunity” at the end of the day they don’t truly care about them. They’ll put them in group chats, barely give updates to those who bought from them and they’ll just straight up post about all their calls and fansign opportunities while their buyers are left to wonder where their items are. Why people still support BIG GOMS and refuse to buy from smaller ones is beyond me. I do get that the more popular GOMs can be trusted sometimes because otherwise no one would buy from them, but by buying from those kind of people you only fuel their indecent behavior.

Give smaller GOMs a chance, they are trying, they are polite and they only want one chance at something others get way too many times.

Also since some of yall won't hear the blacktiny side of this debacle, lemme hit you with the Hongjoong and Ateez side of this (bc from some of the anons, yall are putting Hongjoongie over Blacktiny and apparently this is the only way I can get through to some yall hardheaded and borderline or full on racist asses)

KQ following in the footsteps of bigger companies before them and putting Hongjoong in braids (several times, looking at those new photos hnn) isnt good for Hongjoong, Ateez, or KQ.

Looking back at bands who have had the same thing done and gone through similar cultural appropriation incidents (i.e, BTS, EXO, Blackpink, Red Velvet, Stray Kids, Mamamoo, iKon, NCT (all units, including the recent WayV incident), etc ), you not only insult your fans by mocking their culture and/or using them for a costume, you also sever ties with a lot of potential fans and on the business end of it, thats a completely unessesary loss.

To this day, even after apologies, bands that have gone this path STILL have people who wont even touch the band because of their cultural appropriation. Everyone is different, but at the end of the day, poc are not REQUIRED to forgive companies and bands and swallow the pill, so to speak, when these topics come up.

Understand when I say what I'm about to say that I dont condone bullying, but I am using the previously mentioned incidents as examples but

To. This. Day. Even after apologies and what appears to be understanding and remorse from companies and artists, both fans and 'antis' will still bring up these cultural appropriation incidents. Even YEARS after its passed and if there was no repeat offense in between. Again, i in no capacity am condoning bullying or threats, but to this very day idols like Bang Chan (SKZ), Taeyong (NCT), Namjoon (BTS) are recieving threats and constant harassment for mistakes made previously because companies refuse to learn.

KQ set Hongjoong up for some bullshit, and all of this is completely and utterly unnecessary.

Now, unpopular opinion or whatever, but I still hold to my opinion that Hongjoong did not want this shit. He has been nothing but sincere about his intentions to connect with Atiny of all cultures and build a strong relationship with us. I very seriously doubt he was in agreement to this.

That being said, it is perfectly okay to still be disappointed. In him, in KQ. He by no means deserves hate, but as someone who is not only a blacktiny, but also Hongjoong biased myself, anyone disappointed in him is valid in being as such.

On the same hand, I'd like us all to keep in mind that Hongjoong is an idol. And I know a lot of us in the west have a very western view on things, but at the end of the day, we have to understand idol culture and companies are different from over in the west.

These idols may have *some* creative freedoms and control, some more than most, but at the end of the day, unless they completely run their own company and make their own rules, they do not have full say in what happens to them and their careers.

Idols have been very vocal about this in the past. And again, I'm in no way saying idols are completely helpless or that *some* of them dont actually see the error in their ways (plenty of idols really are just,,,problematic, no company bullshit needed), but I ask yall, if bands that have been around half a decade or more still dont have full creative control over their lives and careers, what makes yall think Hongjoong (if he didn't want these braids, which I strongly believe he didnt) could actually say no to the company holding him and his whole band in their hands and stand a chance?

I cannot stress that I'm not telling people they cant be mad or hurt *at* Hongjoong, but I'm seeing a lot of people saying he could've just "walked out of the chair" "hes a grown man, he can say no" and??? Not really no he cant???

Moving on to the reason a lot of these companies give when we raise hell about CA (if they bother to respond to), thats rooted in so many problems.

They say they put (African) braids or dreadlocs in idols hair because its "cool" or "makes them look tough" or some shit.

It fits an aesthetic. Thats why. Because it fits a hood aesthetic.

I really shouldn't have to explain to yall the problem in using someone else's culture to fit an aesthetic, but since this always comes up, allow me to tell yall a bit of why thats a problem.

The braids come into play when they want their idols, (mostly rappers, a role adopted from black culture) to look "gangsta"/"tough"/"intimidating"/or 🙄🙄🙄"urban". They take hairstyles from black culture to fit an image thats ~intimidating~.

Our braids, our dreads (which, again, to some rasta peoples, is a RELIGOUS symbol and SACRED) are temporarily put on these idols so people can gasp and go "ooo intimidating."

Historically, black people who wear their hair in braids or dreads are turned down from jobs, assaulted wrongly, looked at with prejudice, or down right murdered for the same idea. Nonblack people are historically more intimidated by a black person with hair in braids or in dreads because media portrays black people who dont have short cuts or straightened hair as someone to be feared.

Our braids, they're protective styles.

Our dreads, also protective, sometimes religious.

Our hair isnt for us to look "cool" or "intimidating". That whack ass excuse doesnt work. Companes are in their 4th generation of kpop and refuse to learn from the mistakes of past companies and generations. Yall use our culture (and brown and latinx cultures) improperly and when we tell yall why its wrong, we're pushed aside by our own fandoms or the companies we're constantly giving money to.

We're not asking for an arm and a leg. We're asking for yall to listen to us and not blatantly spit in our faces. We matter just as much as East Asian and white fans.

Also, not nearly as relevant as most of this post, but standing with blacktiny and our allies for this voting really shouldn't be as controversial and hectic as it is.

Thanxx and Inception are amazing songs. Thanxx is not going to disappear if yall vote Inception. It literally means Inception will be the TITLE song, therefore the song getting the MOST attention out of the two, which is important because you're not forcing blacktiny to have to deal with a whole promotional period of pushing a mv where our culture is blatantly being disrespected. Thanxx as a B side is not the end of the world. No, people shouldn't be rude to you about the voting, but I ask that yall please take that into account when we ask you to vote Inception.

Stay hydrated. Listen to your neighbors when they're talking about their cultures and their pain. Thanks

Little Hybrid Illustrations by Sam Larson

American artist Sam Larson create tiny black and white illustrations with felt-tip pen, mixing wild landscapes and animals, shapes and food into detailed hybrid compositions.

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