The thing about persecutors is that there is a high level of nuance that systems as a community (especially the cesspool of syscord) don't talk about in a way that can help recently discovered systems navigate a healthy relationship with these alters.
In case you need to hear this; yes, some alters and persecutors are not safe for the system or responsibilities outside the system. No, some alters are not ready to work on themselves through the power of 'magic and friendship'. Some are violent towards the body or other things like animals/pets, wanting to destroy precious items or spend the system's money maliciously, or intentionally wanting to hurt people close to the system. THIS IS NOT THE SYSTEM'S FAULT OR THE COLLECTIVE ACTIONS OF THE ENTIRE SYSTEM WHEN AN ALTER DOES ACT THIS WAY. However: It is the system's responsibility in this situation is to do everything it can to control said alter's fronting or take appropriate actions to minimize this behavior/damage.
"That's not nice :(((" is going to mean nothing to them. Some will take years of help and patience to become a team member in the system, and safe to front alone.
One of our oldest members was a persecutor who did not begin his healing until almost 8 years later. It was not until his actions led to him losing the most important person and the only thing he cared about for him to finally be ready to listen and see his faults. And for some alters it will unfortunately be the only way to get off that path and listen.
This alter is not a bad person for how they formed; it is so important to remember that alters form as they are for a reason, and persecutors are most often doing things or believing fully their actions are the right ones, for the system's well-being or their own. And while you need to keep your system safe, you also have to have that patience and system teamwork extended to the struggling alter. In extreme cases, professional help is most often what is needed, especially when they pose a physical threat to others or the body.
They may spit in your face, and threaten that the second they are free they will do horrible things. But It is going to take a combination of both listening to this alter and granting them humanity, while also protecting yourself and people who are at risk of these alter's actions.
I was scrolling through Instagram, looking for some silly memes to post in my story. So, since I love bugs, the algorithm thought it would be a good idea to recommend me a video of some dickhead spraying a small nest of paper wasps with insulation foam just for some internet fame. I am just sitting here asking myself, "How can someone be so cruel to other living creatures?"
Look, I do pest control myself (I kill spotted lanternflies, spray for ants if they are infesting the house, etc.), but I would never go out of my way to purposely torture a living creature. What the man was doing was not for pest control, he was going out of his way to be cruel just to create a shitty meme.
I can understand having phobias, and I respect that, but if you go out of your way to torture a living creature, especially for some stupid Tik Tok or whatever, then you are an asshole.
End of rant
This is so old. My entire Identity, Personality, Role, Appearance, and Name has changed significantly. I night draw something new but my name is Skye, I'm still a Lesbian, but everything else is Totally different. Crazy... Oh im also not 16, I'm 14? I probably lied tbh
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Number 2 Nadia Skye
Nadia is a 16 year old bunhattic lesbian who goes by she/bun Pronouns and bunny doesn't take shit from anyone :) - Cordelia
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for anyone who is a fagdyke and gorey , a fagdyke in a gorey way , or simple a gorefagdyke
[alt text: DNI: basic dni, zionists, radqueers, anti mspec/good faith labels, nsfw agere/petre, irls/da's, non-traumagenic systems, ed blogs. I block freely. end id]
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An alter introjected from a dream about a character.
This alter might have memories and qualities from both the dream and the canon version of the character, and there can be differences between them. The alter's appearance might also differ from their character source and/or their dream source. They may feel more or less attachment to each of their versions.
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imagine for a moment theres a universe where they can all be happy, ok?
sys members draw themselves or whatever. Sup. 🐷
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+ Anyone who relates to or enjoys this gender may use or edit the flag for their own personal use but Puptoy will always originate from Bexxy. Dis is Bexxy's identity. no one can take Dat.
[coined by Nuclear Graveyard]
A Xeno identity made for Hypersexual Bitches with Gore Kinks (its us we are bitches)
Can be related to any type of gorey horror but its mainly for bitches with Gore kinks okay, not a child friendly xeno by any means. Minors DNI and also don't fucking use if you're a minor.