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Xenogender - Blog Posts
Relationships: (not really there but still somewhat mentioned) Iguro Obanai/Kanroji Mitsuri
Characters: Kanroji Mitsuri, Iguro Obanai, (mentioned) Rengoku Kyoujurou, (mentioned) Kaburamaru (we can't forget our favorite snake!)
Pronouns: Mitsuri (she/her), Iguro (they/them)
Prompts: lovegender!Mitsuri (with agender Iguro!)
Additional: Fluff, small smidge of angst (so much so that i don't think it counts as such)
A/N: my first writing post! i don't really know how tumblr posts work. this is my first small writing project that i have ever finished, yayayay! i hope you enjoy!
DNI: anti xenogender, n$fw blogs, lgbtq phobic, racist, abliest, and all that
Mitsuri never really understood how people talked about their gender. She knew, objectively that she was a girl. But, at the same time, she wasn't. Yes, she felt feminine, yes she liked cutesy and girly things. But she didn't really always feel like a girl.
Iguro-san gets it. Iguro-san told her multiple times when it was just the two of them (well, three, with Kaburamaru), that Iguro-san never really felt like a man. She then asked Iguro-san if they felt like a woman, and they responded that, no, they felt more like neither, or, more specifically, like they did not have a gender.
Ever since that conversation, Mitsuri has been doing her best to gender Iguro-san correctly whenever it was just them. And she also made it clear that when (or if) they came out, she would punch every person who disrespected them, which had then evolved into a small crying session from both parties, and she promised not to tell anyone about it.
But, now that she knew that she wasn't alone, it made her heart feel light and full of love.
She remembered a conversation that she had had with Rengoku-san, before his passing. One about her breathing technique. Love Breathing.
He had asked her why and how she had created her breathing after a feeling. At first, she didn't know how to respond. She simply breathed the way that felt the most natural to her. The way that felt most like her. And, now that she thought about it, she understood.
The way that felt more like her. Her very being was love. She felt love for everyone, (well, except demons. (Nezuko did not count, as she was far more human than any demon she had ever met)). And, what she had always thought was what she was supposed to be, was instead love.
Her very being is love.
She didn't need to be referred to as a girl, woman, or anything like that. Because, whenever Iguro-san referred to her as 'love' she felt content. And nothing else mattered.
Ayo that looks so dang cool!
Imagine
Wanted to make my first actual talking post cause I need y'all to know that this space is safe for those who may not feel welcome in their own communities.
No matter anything, you are loved.
Aspec people? Your love is so different from what others expect it to be, and if you're loveless you're so so valid and I love you in the same way I love the universe. Asexual, aromantic, aplatonic, asensual, every a- out there: you're not broken. You're not wrong for being yourself and I love you like all the stars in the sky, so many more than what's visible.
Alterhumans? No matter what/who you are, you're beautiful for exploring your identity as something non-human, human-adjacent, or human in a different flavor! You're amazing and wonderful and I'm so proud of you for even considering being yourself in a world not built for you. Human, animal, object, concept, doesn't matter because you still deserve respect and love. I love you like all the little bugs I find outside, all beautiful and free.
People with conflicting labels? You're so cool. I don't care if you identify as a man and a lesbian at the same time. I don't care if you identify as a woman and a gay bear at the same time. I don't care how you identify, you're a living being and you're just as valid as everyone else. I love you like trinkets, all so unique and beautiful in your own ways.
Systems? You're spectacular and no origin of system or headmate could change my mind. Your system came about from trauma? I'm so proud of you for coping with your trauma and living your life happier and healthier with others that can support you. No trauma? That's okay! It's none of anyone else's business how you came about, what matters is that you're living your life the best way you can and I'm so proud of you. I love you like yarn, all so wonderful and varying and full of endless possibility.
Disabled people? Your disabilities don't make you any less deserving of respect and love, no matter what anyone says. You don't need to prove your usefulness to anyone that actually deserves to know you. You're allowed to be "useless". Your existence is a blessing even though I know it can be so difficult or impossible to do even basic tasks, and your worth is way beyond whatever anyone tells you you "should" be able to do. I love you like plushies, made to love and be loved, made to exist.
Neurodivergent people? You're so strong. This world was not built for your mind that varies so greatly from what's expected of you. Those of you that have a "dangerous" disorder, you're so valued and I'm so proud of you for being your best self, no matter those that say you're insane or manipulative just for being yourself. I love you like nature, unpredictable or scary to those unwilling to understand, you're beautiful not despite your brain but in tandem with it.
Xenogenders? You're epic. It's so awesome that you've been able to identify with concepts, objects, animals, characters, literally anything! You can be anything! Isn't that amazing? I don't care if it's cringe, I don't care. You're being yourself and that's so amazing. I love you like art, found in every place you look if you're looking with an open mind.
Religious people? It's so amazing that you've found something to believe in that helps you live your best life. As long as you're not using your religion to put others down, you have my support. It's so spectacular that you have something you believe in. Please don't let anyone take that away from you. I love you like rainbows, a miracle of life and a wonderful sight to see.
People with personality disorders? You're so valid. Granted I don't know much, but I do know that you deserve love and respect just as much as anyone else. No matter how misunderstood or mistreated, you're safe here. I'm always willing to learn and understand how to be a good person to everyone, no matter how "scary" you are. You're wonderful and I hope you know that. I love you like the ocean, full of so much vastness and beauty below the surface.
I love you I love you I love you!!!
However,
If you are a shitty person who forces yourself onto others or thinks that others are below you for what they believe in, do NOT be anywhere near my page. If you are any sort of -phobic, any sort of "minor liking person", any sort of asshole: I will automatically block you and you are NOT welcome here.
If you use my wholesome post to start drama or controversy I will block you. This is not a safe space for you if that is your intent.
This page is for loving, not hating.
Eclipse xenogender pride flags!!!
Eclipsic <333
Wet Floor Bot xenogender pride flags!!!!
Floorbotcharic!!!!
Glamrock Bonnie xenogender pride flags!!!!!!!
I couldn't find any so I made my own!!! Glamboncharic my beloved <333 I hope you all like them!!!!
axolotl jewish
When you are Jewish and in anyway connected to axolotls
[ID starts On the left flag, at the top a dark skin pink, then a light skin pink, then a light blue-purple, and then a darker blue-purple, in the middle a dark blue Star of David, on the right flag, at the top a dark skin pink, then a light skin pink, then a light blue-purple, and then a darker blue-purple, in the middle a dark blue Star of David, on the bottom right corner there is a pink axolotl, on the top left corner there is a blue axolotl
end ID]
Jewish tfem intersex !
When your intersex, Jewish, and trans fem !
[ID starts A flag with five stripes running horizontally. From the top down there is a dusty pink stripe, a lavender stripe, a white stripe, a muted mustard stripe and a cerulean stripe. In the middle there is a hot pink Star of David. End ID]
jewfish system
When you are Jewish and connected to any fish,
[Start ID 5 stripes, top to bottom it is a gray purple, next is a pink purple, then is a gray-mint green, then is a light mint gree, and finally there is a sea-foam green, with a Star of David in the middle end ID]
Rat: for Jews who want to reclaim being ‘dirty’ and ‘filthy’ and ‘vermin’. This person may be physically dirty and disorganized/unkempt or may feel mentally ‘dirty’ because of generational guilt, trauma and other things.
[ID Starts
Two identical flags, each with seven stripes running horizontally. From the top down, the first stripe is a muddy brown, the next stripe is a murky green, the next sty tip is a dark tan. The stripe after that is a dirty eggshell. Under the dirty eggshell stripe, the three colors prior are mirrored. All stripes are equal in width other than the two dark tan stripes. The only difference between the two flags is that one has a gray of David in the middle and the other does not.
End ID]
Jewish (koi) fish
When your Jewish and connected to (koi) fish in any way
[ ID starts
two flags, starting in the left there are 5 stripes, top to bottom it is a gray purple, next is a pink purple, then is a gray-mint green, then is a light mint gree, and finally there is a sea-foam green, with a Star of David in the middle, the right flag is 5 stripes, top to bottom it is a gray purple, next is a pink purple, then is a gray-mint green, then is a light mint green, and finally there is a sea-foam green, with a Star of David in the middle, in the bottom left corner there is a koi fish, in the top right corner there is a koi fish again
end ID]
Lizard: a presentation and/or identity flag exclusive to Jews. It’s for Jews who would like to reclaim being called lizard people and the history behind it- whether they identify with being green and/a lizard, anything to do with the illuminati, being in power, such as a government or lawyer, ‘shapeshifting’ or any other stereotype surrounding Jewish lizards.
[ID Starts
Two identical flags, each with seven stripes running horizontally. From the top down, the first stripe is a dark blue, the next stripe is a dusty sky blue/teal, the next sty tip is a dusty light green. The stripe after that is a dusty lavender. Under the lavender stripe, the three colors prior are mirrored. All stripes are equal in width other than the two dusty light green stripes. The only difference between the two flags is that one has a dark purple Star of David in the middle and the other does not.
End ID]
Hyper-demi-caed-tetelary
Hyper-demi-caed-tetelary
[ID starts Six horizontal stripes, the top one being black, then a lavender purple, then a night sky blue, then a slightly lighter sky blue, then a blue gray, and finally a tan
End ID]
hyper feruvel
Hyper feruvel is when you are feruvel but to an more extreme, when you feel even more like a beast, animal, or anything related to that
[ID start
Four horizontal lines, the top one being a dark purple-maroon, then a dark red, followed by a light purple-red, and finally a bright red
End ID]
Goblin: a presentation and/or identity label for Jews who want to reclaim the creature and history behind them. This can be through either identifying with/being ‘greedy’ or ‘cheap’ with money, mischievous, enjoying collecting things (especially shiny things like crystals, bottle caps, soda can tabs and coins), liking precious metals- it can be in simple things such as jewelry!
[ID starts
Two nearly identical flags, each with seven strips. From top to bottom the colors are a grass green, a golden yellow, a golden orange and a dirt brown. All strips are the same width except for the golden orange lines, which are thinner. Under the dirt brown line, the strips mirror themselves. The other flag is exactly the same other than a silver Star of David being in the center.
End ID]
Eepy Jewish catboy
When your Jewish and an eepy catboy
[ID starts A flag with four horizontal strips, all the same width. From the top down, the first color is a very light pinkish gray. The second color is a dusty lavender. The third color is a very light peace. The fourth color is similar to the first, only a bit lighter. In the middle there is a dark blue Star of David. In the top left corner there is a cartoon cat face, the same color as the star.] End ID]
dog and cat jewish
Dog Jewish (first photo) is when you are connected to dogs in anyway and are Jewish cat jewish (second photo) is when you are connected to cat I anyway and are Jewish
[ID; the left flag ; four horizontal stripes, starting at the top is a dark sky blue next is a dark brown, then a dark blue, then a light brown; the right flag is four horizontal stripes, starting at the top is a egg white/tan, next is a light light brown, then a gray, and finally a dark brown End ID]
Troll: a presentation and identity term for Jewish people who want to reclaim the creature and history behind it. Whether it be used for a physical description (a large and/or hooked nose, short and not skinny/broad built, being hairy) or behavioral (asking lots of questions, dry humor, good faith complaining (kvetching) being called or identifying with being a JAP or NJB)!
[ID starts
Two identical flags, each with seven horizontal stripes, the top one being a brown, then a egg white, then a light forest green, then a slightly darker forest green, then an egg white and finally a brown one again. The only difference between the two flags is that one has a navy blue Star of David in the center of it.
End ID]
Jewish intersex: a flag for those who are both Jewish and Intersex!
[ID start
A light blue background. In the center there is a yellow circle, its inside transparent to show the background color. In the circle there is a Star of David in a deep blue.
End ID]
purple jewish
A flag for Jews who are connected to the color purple in any way
[id; a lilac purple with the Star of David in the middle end ID]
mint gender
Mint gender is for anyone who feels contacted to mints (the food, he color, etc)
[id : four different shades of green, a light green, a slightly darker green, a light forest green, and a green cyan
space cat gender ^w^
Thank you so much for our very first request!
The post is right here!
Warmly,
Sunny ☀️
Space cat gender: a gender identity related to identifying with space and cats, being a cat in space or liking both space and cats!
[ID starts
7 horizontal lines in total. The first three lines, starting from the top, goes as follows: a dark blue, warm purple, and a dark purple pink. The first and third lines are thicker while the purple line is thin. The middle is a thin navy blue line, the same width as the purple one. Under the blue line, the strips are mirrored with the same colors and width as the top side. In the middle there is a black cartoon cat face.
End ID]
toxic sun
Toxic sun is a gender identity when you feel the sun is toxic, you are the sun and toxic, or any version of this
[ID starts
The flag’s colors are split in half horizontally. The top half is black and the bottom half is a very bright lime green. In the middle of the flag there is a sun symbol, filled in white with spiky rays.
End ID]
Sunmanic
Sunmanic: when being in the sun brings you such elation and excitement it feels akin to a manic episode and/or being in the sun brings you happiness and euphoria.
[ID starts:
there are 7 horizontal strips in total. From top to bottom there is a thick yellow line, an orange-yellow line that’s thinner, a thin orange line, a white line with the same thickness as the orange yellow line. The three colored lines are mirrored on the bottom half, under the white line. In the center there is a large black sun which rays almost make it look like a flower. In the middle of the white stripe, there are three thin, black waves running the length of the flag.
End ID]
granite gender
[ID a red vertical stripe and a blue vertical stripe with a photo of granite from Steven universe in the middle]
tenth doctor gender
[ID starts Two flags. The first with four horizontal strips. From top to bottom the colors are a navy blue, a deep royal blue, a purple-ish blue and a medium jean blue. The second flag is identical to the first, the only difference being a diagonal picture of a Sonic Screwdriver. It runs from the top left corner to the bottom right corner. The top has a bright blue button, the middle is silver metal and the bottom tip is black. End ID]
SunMoon gender: A gender under the gender fluid/flux system. It can be described as feeling different genders during the day and night, going between two opposite genders or the sun and moon affecting your gender in some other way.
ID: (from top to bottom) one straight strip of deep blue, one straight sight of light blue below that. Below the light blue strip there is a warm yellow strip and underneath that there is a yellow, almost orange strip. On the blue strips there is a cartoon sun in the two shades of yellow below. On the yellows, there is a cartoon crescent shaped moon, filled in the color of the deep blue strip. End ID
So… I just found out about the Nightshade Two Time skin (Forsaken), and I immediately got super strong kin feelings about them, and like a normal person, one of the first things I did was coin a charic gender based off of them.
Nightshadetwotimecharic
A charic xenogender connected to Two Time’s Nightshade skin, from the Roblox game, Forsaken. It may also be a kingender, but it doesn’t have to be.
And while I was at it, I wondered if there was a xenogender for the nightshade plant itself, but after I did some digging, I realised there wasn’t, so I coined that as well. I bet you weren’t expecting a double coining post from Aatami, eh?
Nightshadic
A floragender connected to nightshade. It may be connected to the plant itself, and / or qualities associated with it, such as deception and betrayal.