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I am a girl. I am a girl because everyone my whole life has told me so. I am a girl because I wear skirts and dresses, because I like talking about boys with other girls. I am a girl because I wear bras, and need tampons, and need to shave my legs every week. I am a silly younger sister, and a caring older sister. I am a girl because my body chose to be a girl, and I love being one.
But I want to be a boy. I want to be muscular and strong, and to have a flat chest. I want to shop in the men's section for button downs, and shorts with large pockets. I want someone to look at me and think "He's so handsome." I want to own Nerf guns, and climb trees while scraping my knees. I want to be a mischievous little brother, or protective older one. I want to be a boy. But I am not. Because I am a girl.
Sometimes I want to be a mix of the two. I want to be a boy who wears skirts and high heels, and doesn't feel like any less of a man. I want to be a girl who intimidates and works long days to provide for her family, and who is still seen as a woman. I want to go a long time without washing my hair or shaving, and still be called Miss in the grocery store. I want to wear makeup and curl my hair, and still be told what a fine young man I am. But I cannot. Because I am just a girl.
Sometimes, when I am alone, I will take off my clothes and look in the mirror. At my body, who chose to be a girl. (Though I do not hate it because of that choice. It did not know that the soul that lived inside of it would not match.) And I will say to myself "I am a girl", and for that second I will be. Then I will say I am a boy, and I will become one for that moment. Sometimes I will say " I am a boy and a girl." and I can be both. Other times I will say "I am just a person." And my concept of gender will fade for that moment.
But after, the words will fade and I'll put my clothes back on. And I will be just a girl again. Not because I chose to, but because that is what I have been told my whole life.
I am a girl because everyone has told me so, and they will never see me as anyone else.
(This is my experience as a multi-gendered individual. I do not speak for anyone in the community except myself. People have different experiences with gender and sexuality. Nothing is universal. If you want to understand someone, ask about their own experiences. Don't presume. Make sure to take care of yourself.)
I feel like I should do an intro post so might as well do it now!
Hello!!!!
I am the host of a DID system! This intro will be focused around me as I will be the one who posts most often! I use I/me instead of Us/we 90% of the time ,although this is not because of anything specific other than preference.
Anywho, my name is Jasper! I am a MINOR!!!!!!! I am autistic and have ADHD as well as an unknown personality disorder (BPD?? AVPD??? Who knows but it's suspected I've got both). I am physically disabled and mentally delayed but please do not infantilize me as I am a teenager and can think and act for myself!
I am demiaroace and aceflux as well as a gaybian, lesboy, and turigirl! I am Novigender meaning my gender identity takes a very long time to explain and can be difficult or impossible to understand, although I will do my best! I am a woman, a man, nonbinary, agender, none, all, a mix, and each individually. I am everything and nothing and something between. I am not pangender or bigender or agender, I am each individually. But at the same time, I am all three. This makes all attraction I feel inherently queer. I use any pronouns besides they/hir/fae and I prefer a mix of a few (although that isn't necessary!!)
DNI: Endos and anything of the sort, creeps, nsft blogs, right wing fucks, bigots, homophobes, transphobes, disrespectful assholes
If you are anything that isn't on the DNI list, interact!! Any non-NSFT questions are welcome as long as they are respectful!!
Can you make some blinkies for nonbinary people and include them on your tdov celebrations too? We are still as trans as transmasc/transfem x
Omg I can't believe I forgot to include us HELLO?? I'm literally a demigirl .·°՞(¯□¯)՞°·. (under the nonbinary umbrella, which is under the trans umbrella yada yada)
Anyways, here's some more gender identities that fall under the transgender umbrella as blinkies for tdov!!! (*˘︶˘*).。.:*♡
Two different versions cuz I was feeling silly OH AND!!!! ↓↓↓↓↓↓↓
Bonus:
As usual, f2u if you credit + reblog 💚 og post here