Owensarrows - OwensArrows

Some blinkies I made !

“Leave that bigoted person alone, they’re old"

Translation: They lived through almost every 20th century social movement & learnt nothing

-  Alex Gabriel

"I wish we met sooner" is such a gentle sentiment. I love you so much I not only want you in my future, but in my past too. I want to have known you when we were small stupid kids, have held hands together as we played outside. I want to have stressed out over exams together, nudging a mug of still steaming hot chocolate against your elbow to get you to focus. I want to have told you I love you before I did anyone else. I want to have held you in my arms when all those sad memories you describe to me were still fresh wounds. I want my past to have been full of you, and full of meaningful memories with you. I want my past lives to have been spent with you, whether as two lovers, or two housecats cuddling by the fireplace on a snowy day, or two flowers that just happened to bloom on the same day, next to each other. I want to have consumed your existence and intertwined it with my own since my birth, never to be separated from you for a moment. I want to have loved you throughout it all, for all time.

Is it weird i started to feel more comfortable being feminine after realizing i was a trans guy?

NOPE!!! NOT WEIRD AT ALL THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED TO ME

when i sat out to transition, i had a few things in mind. i knew that i needed my voice and body to be different. i knew that i was not a cis woman. however, i was still drawn to femininity. at the time i was awakening as a gay man and i realized that i had a feminine side, but it had nothing to do with womanhood. absolutely nothing. to me, my femininity is part of my manhood, and my genderqueerness, not my womanhood.

i transitioned partially so i could feel comfortable being and dressing feminine! i actually told people that during the beginning stages of my transition, that i was excited to masculinize myself so i could be femme without dysphoria. being seen as a feminine cis woman was utterly painful, but living as a femme gay man... that was liberating. i finally felt so many pieces of myself click into place.

you are NOT alone in this, i hear this experience a lot from other trans men, and ive actually heard the opposite from tons of trans women- that after transitioning into womanhood, they felt a lot more comfortable in their masculinity. feminine doesn't mean woman. masculine doesn't mean man. it's okay if you find that femininity is now much more comfortable and enjoyable after realizing you were a guy. being a feminine man is a beautiful experience

i hope that helps! feel free to ask any more questions you may have! you're definitely not alone and it's not weird at all!

Still not over the fact that there's people out there, putting their laptops in their fridges to cool it down..

i feel like one of the weirdest realizations you (or at least i) eventually have a few years into transitioning and being mostly around other trans people, is that moment where u notice that like ur brains mapping of like specific voices to specific genders is just kinda gone. like it rly is just all social constructs programmed into u by society, and living outside societies idea of gender just kinda melts that shit away, and it's not just voices, like other traditionally gendered attributes also suddenly don't matter anymore*

*except for myself of course, i am obviously totally failing at being a girl but everyone is doing it perfectly, dysphoria is so awesome lmao

An artist : Aw man! I saw my arts were reposted on Instagram. I’ve asked them to take my arts down but they ignored me.

Me : Say no more! Click this link, then click ‘fill out this form’. Fill the form and wait for about 1-2 days, the staffs will remove the image you were reporting from the reposter’s account :^)

No, a QPR is not 'more than a friendship'.

No relationship type is inherently worth more than another, and none are superior or inferior.

Relationships do not exist on a hierarchy, despite what society may have you believe.

Relationship types just are. You can participate in them or not, that is up to you.

But no, a QPR is not a relationship type that is 'more than a friendship'.

Certain relationship types cannot be more of a relationship than another.

QPRs are just another relationship type to exist. You can be part of one or not, it doesn't matter.

But just stop saying they are a relationship 'more than a friendship'.

Because relationship hierarchies are fucking bullshit.

Btw decolonizing the Levant/Palestine/Eretz Yisrael means an immediate end to Israel's violence, dismantling Israel and its apartheid, acknowledging the Nakba, and it also means all Levantine peoples are Indigenous to the region.

Including Jews, Samaritans, Palestinian Arab Muslims and Christians, and Palestinian Circassians and Druze. All.

All of these peoples have ongoing historic, cultural and religious relationships with the land. There have always been multiple peoples in the Levant/Palestine/Eretz Yisrael, any other claim is just ahistorical.

A free Palestine means right of return for all Levantine peoples, neither a Jewish nor Arab ethnostate.

A free Palestine is possible.

I’m Not Arguing, I’m Curious

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