i feel like one of the weirdest realizations you (or at least i) eventually have a few years into transitioning and being mostly around other trans people, is that moment where u notice that like ur brains mapping of like specific voices to specific genders is just kinda gone. like it rly is just all social constructs programmed into u by society, and living outside societies idea of gender just kinda melts that shit away, and it's not just voices, like other traditionally gendered attributes also suddenly don't matter anymore*
*except for myself of course, i am obviously totally failing at being a girl but everyone is doing it perfectly, dysphoria is so awesome lmao
Autistic and ‘Needing to be Right’
Neurodivergent_lou
It’s time again
What are the limitations of friendship but a normalized social construct ?
I shall kiss my friends if we so desire, thank you very much
happy stimming is one of the purest forms of life appreciation and I will forever stand by that
truly i dont want to hear anymore about how terfs are so nice to transmascs from people whose only interaction with terfs is reading their propaganda online. like some of you are earnestly like "wow, do you really think an anti-trans hate group would do that? just go on the internet and tell lies?"
i had a terf physically assault me in the bathroom of a bar because she recognised me from some stupid facebook post where i disclosed my gender identity (wasn't even a man then! just a """theyfab"""!) and after she was done smashing my fucking head against the wall and groping my crotch she told me so smugly that "no one will believe you" about the assault. isn't that so funny.
and no, she didn't "mistake me for a trans woman". she very angrily informed me that if i thought i could "escape what it means to be a woman" that i had another thing coming- that thing being corrective sexual assault and a concussion, it seems.
happy aro month! abolish relationship hierarchies stay hydrated and be kind to urself and others. most of all be very very aro 🏄♀️🏄♀️🏄♀️
being in your 20s is like: i’m so young i’m so old. i should do everything i should rest. i can do what i want but i need to be careful. i’m an Adult™ but i need help from an Adult™. i’m so smart i’m so stupid. i’m leaving i feel left behind. i want to be a kid again and i can’t wait to be old. i’ve done a lot i’ve done nothing. i wanna be alone but i’m so lonely. like.... what the hell ??
The sad reality of what our human race has become
“money can’t buy happiness” wrong, actually. 100% incorrect. No shit post, genuinely and truly mean that in modern society, money ABSOLUTELY buys happiness. Because money buys LIFE, and before you can be happy you have to be alive.
As a neurodivergent, I experience a baseline of emotional dysregulation…
Neurodivergent_lou
You can call me Owen :) He/They 22 y/o | ND, cupioromantic, gay, polyam, witch, and some other things | frogs are cute
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