"but aces and aros can be in relationships"
Yes, I know that, but do YOU know that aces and aros in relationships are still aces and aros? Do you internalize that? Are you aware that we don't just suddenly turn straight, or gay or anything else?
Yes, even demis
Are you aware that a sex repulsed asexual will still be sex repulsed even in a relationship, and so, might never fuck you?
Are you aware that a romance repulsed aro will still be romance repulsed even in a seemingly normative relationship and might not like doing typical romantic gestures and activities?
Are you aware that a sex neutral or positive asexual might not actually be sexually attracted to you at all even if they do fuck you?
Are you aware that a romance neutral or positive aro might not actually be romantically into you even if they are comfortable with typical romantic gestures?
Are you aware that our identities are just as permanent as yours?
my pizza is overcooked and i can’t find my pizza cutter but don’t worry cause Everything’s Great
i would be the same if i didn’t watch things with sex scenes mainly with other people (not in a weird way i just don’t watch a lot of stuff by myself). i’m fine reading i just feel all gross watching a loving sex scene. i’m fine with scenes of stuff like quickies, or one night stands - no being all lovey-dovey abt it. but ik what you mean abt never having your books checked lmao
is it weird that i watch sex scenes in stuff like bridgerton and it’s all loving and stuff and i just feel gross but i watch sex scenes that are just hot and dirty and i’m fine with it (coming from an asexual if that makes a difference)
Literally this, if you want people to reblog try to be nice abt it??
I fucking hate when people say stuff like this. Especially when it's on a generally good post with valuable information. On the one hand I want to share that information because it could genuinely help someone; on the other, I don't want to spread this type of guilt-tripping and shaming and potentially trigger someone else like me. It's a lose-lose situation. No matter what I do, I am going to feel guilty. No matter what I do, I will feel like a terrible person. It sucks and I just wish people would stop doing this. I know it's shocking, but it is actually possible to make an important and useful post without guilting everyone that sees it into sharing.
we got a seaweed brain
the percabeth is percabething and my brain chemistry is altered
i fucking cried
im so normal about them
my tumblr just broke yippee
please
i didn’t screenshot it but i got [insert character] needs a hug :(
um
rb to tell prev they're being so brave right now and pat their head a little please
Shout out to all the Black ppl that can no longer participate directly in the fandom they love because of the stresses of racism 👍🏾 you contain multitudes of value and I'm sorry that the color of your skin and the power of your voice makes people not want to acknowledge that.