imagine this dynamic with your selfship
F/O: I loathe physical contact. I never let anyone touch me unless it's necessary.
S/I: You're literally sitting in my lap right now as we speak.
F/O: Because it's necessary.
selfshipping having a proper community is literally the cutest thing ever. literally the love community where we talk about how much we love our guys (gender neutral) and support other peoples love for their guys. how cute is that it's so wholesome 🥰
your f/o loves you sooooo much oh my god. Your f/o is like. actually obsessed with you? it’s peak romance. it’s awesome
do you ever just yearn so hard for your f/o that when you look over pictures/gifs of them you just get so flustered you just
Imagine your f/o reassuring you of how appreciated you are.
"You are loved by many, my dear, but especially me." They smile, kissing your nose. "And I'll make sure you never forget how much love you deserve and how cared for you truly are."
wanna put on some lipstick and leave kiss marks all over my f/o’s face. just want him to be a flustered giggly mess <33
Your f/o adores you. They cherish the ways in which you express yourself. They see the way you live, as yourself, and that is the most beautiful thing in this great wide world to them. Even just doing anything, the way you listen to that song on loop or your laugh when something truly entertains you. How you show them so much appreciation, how you act you wake up and go to sleep. Everything about you, to them, is the beauty of existing all put into one individual. And they find it (and you!) breathtaking.
imagine kissing your touch starved f/o for the first time. maybe they melt into your touch, or they kiss against you harder because they don’t want you to pull away.Â
imagine how they sheepishly ask you for more kisses because they liked it so much and want more.
 friendly reminder that every time your f/o thinks about you they get the cartoon hearts floating around them. friendly reminder that when you walk into a room your f/o lights up and everyone can see just how much they care. friendly reminder that every time you brush up against your f/o they feel their heart rate increase and a warmth spreads over them. friendly reminder that your voice brings your f/o’s mind to happy places and pleasant feelings. you affect your f/o just like they affect you.Â
nothing feels as amazing as knowing your f/o would be SO into you and knowing you're so into them. like the two of you giggling over how much you love each other. buying/making gifts for each other. doing the most to impress the other because youre so in love and you just want to be with them.