petalwick

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Actually making your selfinsert overpowered and friends with all your faves and a hybrid of the coolest species and in a relationship with your crush and the long lost sibling of the villain is called having fun and its cool as fuck

btw ur allowed to take ur selfship as seriously or as unseriously as u like. as long as it’s good for u and it makes u happy, u can do whatever u want. it’s not “too much” <3

Your f/o adores you. They cherish the ways in which you express yourself. They see the way you live, as yourself, and that is the most beautiful thing in this great wide world to them. Even just doing anything, the way you listen to that song on loop or your laugh when something truly entertains you. How you show them so much appreciation, how you act you wake up and go to sleep. Everything about you, to them, is the beauty of existing all put into one individual. And they find it (and you!) breathtaking.

your f/o having a crush on you but they’re the worst at hiding it .. always perking up at the mention of your name , getting you gifts and paying for your food , offering to take trips with you and do things for you , rambling on and on about you with their friends with the sweetest smile and flushed face , always stuck to your side whenever you’re around .. and somehow , it’s obvious to everyone but you ;3

'ford doesn't know about 9/11' Ford left earth in 1982. Ford doesn't know the cold war fucking ended.

Sorry guys infighting is canceled today all trans men, trans mascs, nonbinary + agender folks and trans women and trans fems will be friends and we will go get ice cream together. Reblog with what flavor you want.

Just saw Transformers One with my brother, I feel like my guts were ripped out and replaced with something else

People can say whatever they want, I loved it.

robot and AI f/o havers imagine your F/O(s) nearly short-circuiting bc you gave them a lil kiss

Stoic F/Os losing their composure around you,,,, getting flustered and blushy when you laugh or smile at them,,,,

Imagine your F/O just being absolutely lovesick over you. They walk through town and see you everywhere, random things like a snack or a shirt they think you’d like. Somewhere they wanna take you, or a plushie they want to get you as a gift.

Them spacing out during the day, maybe at work, thinking about you. Friends and family members catching them daydreaming and they just respond “Oh! It’s nothing, just got distracted.”

How after the two of you hang out, they look at the place you were sitting and just, ache. That you’re not there anymore. How they try not to look desperate when you text them, thinking that maybe if they wait a minute to open your messages, they won’t have to confront how down BAD they are for you.

Maybe they even swap clothes with you, maybe they take a shirt, or a hoodie or sweater from you, playing it off as a joke or just “something friends do”. But when they get home, it’s wrapped around their favorite pillow, or they wear it around the house sometimes just so they can feel close to you.

Fuck, they really are hung up on you, do they have the courage to actually confess their feelings? Or are they gonna draw it out until they absolutely HAVE to do it.

Imagine showering your f/o in kisses!

Imagine cupping their head in your hands, pressing your lips into every feature on their face. Cradling them close as you give them all your love. How would their demeanor shift? Content smiles or blushy giggles? Maybe they’re laughing and bashfully trying to wiggle away! You won’t let them, of course. Perhaps they give a reluctant smile as you continue; kissing their jaw, shoulders, hands, any and every part of them!

No inch shall be left without your affection.

proship no touch !!

selfshipping having a proper community is literally the cutest thing ever. literally the love community where we talk about how much we love our guys (gender neutral) and support other peoples love for their guys. how cute is that it's so wholesome 🥰

imagine kissing your touch starved f/o for the first time. maybe they melt into your touch, or they kiss against you harder because they don’t want you to pull away. 

imagine how they sheepishly ask you for more kisses because they liked it so much and want more.

big big hug to all selfshippers who have ships that they're uncomfortable with (both canon or doubles) you guys are the strongest soldiers ever!

just know that your f/o loves you and you only. they won't look at anyone but you. you're the love of their life and they'd spend everyday telling you over and over again that you're the only one for them.

they look at you like you're the most precious gem in the world. they will never let you feel down because they're always there for you to hug and comfort you. you're theirs, and they're yours. 🤍

imagine watching your f/o's face turn cartoonishly red with blush after you complimented them

Your f/o would never find you annoying. Asking to hang out? They'd love to make time for you. In a silly, lighthearted mood? They don't shame you. Opening up about your feelings? They'll give you that support. Your f/o will never view you or who you are as irritating, annoying, or bothersome.

Imagine being "the exception" for your f/o. Being the one who they feel closest to, the one they confide in, you're the one they come to, because they trust you the most. Your f/o puts such loyalty and positive emotional energy into your connection, because you are that special to them. You make them feel loved, heard, accepted. And that is something your f/o will always be thankful for - the opportunity to be themselves by someone who gets it, who gets them.

this is a reminder for selfshippers that its okay to make your f/os obsessed with you. so true they WOULD think about you all the time. so true they WOULD bring you up in every conversation. the world could be ending and your f/o would only mourn not getting to give you enough affection

Creating a self insert (who looks a bit like me) is the best thing I've ever done, as it makes me feel so much better about myself. I can be a person in the world of my fav media? I can have adventures with magic, superpowers or just hang out with my fav characters? And there are characters who like or even love me for who I am? Amazing <3

Self-inserts are a form of self-love. What’s a better self-confidence boost than saying “If I were in my favorite series, I would look SO COOL and all my blorbos would be MADLY IN LOVE WITH ME and I would have AWESOME POWERS and I would have the BEST BACKSTORY and the fandom would ADORE ME.”

Friendly reminder that it is COMPLETELY NORMAL to feel extremely attached to/have intense feelings for fictional characters.

The human brain cannot differentiate the feelings and attachments we have to irl people from the feelings and attachments we have to fictional characters. Chemically, the feelings are the exact same

More to the point, if a character you love ever gets hurt or god forbid dies, it is absolutely normal to feel genuine grief and hurt because of it. As far as the chemicals in your brain are concerned, you genuinely just watched your friend/partner/family member get hurt.

Your feelings are valid and normal.

f/o who doesn’t know they’re touchstarved until they meet you.

the heavy want grows in their chest and is absolutely undeniably there whenever you two even just briefly touch. when you’re so close that they’re so desperate have you closer, wanting to feel their body pressed against yours in a tight embrace, that the thought of your hand in theirs is barely enough. when you two finally hug, or whenever you do, they sink into your embrace almost immediately, a deep sigh of content heard as they wrap their arms around you to return the tender hug. it’s a little hard to get their arms off you afterward, with those small mumbles of “just a little longer” and “i don’t want to let go yet.”

maybe they’re super embarrassed about feeling so at first and are so glad whenever you indulge in their desire to have you, to feel your warmth. or they’re incredibly stubborn about it but their actions always say otherwise, finding every little chance to have their skin touch yours, to quietly tug on your sleeve or any other sign that you immediately know what they want with it.

eitherway they’re forever thankful that you’re so understanding. with the little touches you guys end up doing like from simply pushing a strand of hair behind an ear or running fingers through each other’s hair, they’re absolutely addicted. smitten, even, so incredibly much that they can’t put their love for this, for you into words.

Interact with this post if you selfship with one or more characters from Transformers and want mutuals who share sources!

in-law f/os that tell you to call them by their first name. or by mom or dad. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying for dinner. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying the night. in-law f/os that give you your own key. in-law f/os that tell you to call them if you need anything. in-law f/os that welcome you into their lives easily because they see the way you love their kid and they see the way their kid loves you.

nothing feels as amazing as knowing your f/o would be SO into you and knowing you're so into them. like the two of you giggling over how much you love each other. buying/making gifts for each other. doing the most to impress the other because youre so in love and you just want to be with them.

your f/o loves you sooooo much oh my god. Your f/o is like. actually obsessed with you? it’s peak romance. it’s awesome

Imagine your F/O being really, truly infatuated with the way you look. Of course, you have plenty of other traits they adore and admire, but they would be lying if they said they didn’t find you the most beautiful person they’ve ever laid eyes on. They could write endless poetry about how your eyes sparkle, how your smile makes them weak at the knees, how angelic you look even when you’re just standing there. They’ll always feel like the luckiest person in the world for having been chosen by you.

"Nice characters are boring" to YOU. I love characters who no matter what, will always have genuine love for humanity in their heart. Characters who dance and laugh and sing with sincerity. Characters who believe in others, and are willing to extend a helping hand to people when no one gave them the same luxury. Characters who have gone through so much but believe, no matter what, that humanity and life is something beautiful and worth protecting

your platonic f/o is holding your hands because they are excited to see you. how wouldn't they? they've been thinking about little plans they want to make a reality with you and every minute spent with you is like a treasure to them, having you as their friend must feel like having their own sun!