Imagine being "the exception" for your f/o. Being the one who they feel closest to, the one they confide in, you're the one they come to, because they trust you the most. Your f/o puts such loyalty and positive emotional energy into your connection, because you are that special to them. You make them feel loved, heard, accepted. And that is something your f/o will always be thankful for - the opportunity to be themselves by someone who gets it, who gets them.
selfshipping having a proper community is literally the cutest thing ever. literally the love community where we talk about how much we love our guys (gender neutral) and support other peoples love for their guys. how cute is that it's so wholesome 🥰
robot and AI f/o havers imagine your F/O(s) nearly short-circuiting bc you gave them a lil kiss
Creating a self insert (who looks a bit like me) is the best thing I've ever done, as it makes me feel so much better about myself. I can be a person in the world of my fav media? I can have adventures with magic, superpowers or just hang out with my fav characters? And there are characters who like or even love me for who I am? Amazing <3
Your f/o fantasizes about you, do you know that? When they’re bored, when they’re stressed, when they’re sad… you’re on their mind. They think about your smile, your laugh, your joy. They think about what it’s like to hold you, to be held by you. They think about your kisses, your touches—so full of love, so soft .
You always seem to occupy their mind, such a lovely presence in their life .
For selfshippers with an absurd amount of f/os imagine them all fighting over you, but it's in a reality show format.
Imagine the hero f/os all trying to woo you by showing off their heroic achievements, while the villains are promising that you'll be able to stand beside them when they rule/destroy the world.
Imagine if one of your platonic f/os are the game show host, and are just relishing in/creating drama.
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Platonic F/O: Hey, did you know that [Insert F/O] is planning on taking [Name] on a date?
F/O: THAT BITCH!
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imagine kissing your touch starved f/o for the first time. maybe they melt into your touch, or they kiss against you harder because they don’t want you to pull away.
imagine how they sheepishly ask you for more kisses because they liked it so much and want more.
big big hug to all selfshippers who have ships that they're uncomfortable with (both canon or doubles) you guys are the strongest soldiers ever!
just know that your f/o loves you and you only. they won't look at anyone but you. you're the love of their life and they'd spend everyday telling you over and over again that you're the only one for them.
they look at you like you're the most precious gem in the world. they will never let you feel down because they're always there for you to hug and comfort you. you're theirs, and they're yours. 🤍
imagine this dynamic with your selfship
in-law f/os that tell you to call them by their first name. or by mom or dad. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying for dinner. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying the night. in-law f/os that give you your own key. in-law f/os that tell you to call them if you need anything. in-law f/os that welcome you into their lives easily because they see the way you love their kid and they see the way their kid loves you.
Just another day of projecting onto my fictional favorites