Your F/o Having A Crush On You But They’re The Worst At Hiding It .. Always Perking Up At The Mention

idk who needs to hear this but all of your f/os would cheer you on when you want to wear something that you're normally too insecure or self-conscious to wear !!!! they'd give you so many compliments !!!! your romantic f/os ? they'd look at you with heart eyes !!! your familial f/os ?? they'd fight anyone who tries to judge you !!!! your platonic f/os ??? they'll wear the same thing with you so you're not alone if you need/want them to !!!!!

Imagine your F/O being really, truly infatuated with the way you look. Of course, you have plenty of other traits they adore and admire, but they would be lying if they said they didn’t find you the most beautiful person they’ve ever laid eyes on. They could write endless poetry about how your eyes sparkle, how your smile makes them weak at the knees, how angelic you look even when you’re just standing there. They’ll always feel like the luckiest person in the world for having been chosen by you.

big big hug to all selfshippers who have ships that they're uncomfortable with (both canon or doubles) you guys are the strongest soldiers ever!

just know that your f/o loves you and you only. they won't look at anyone but you. you're the love of their life and they'd spend everyday telling you over and over again that you're the only one for them.

they look at you like you're the most precious gem in the world. they will never let you feel down because they're always there for you to hug and comfort you. you're theirs, and they're yours. 🤍

Your f/o adores you. They cherish the ways in which you express yourself. They see the way you live, as yourself, and that is the most beautiful thing in this great wide world to them. Even just doing anything, the way you listen to that song on loop or your laugh when something truly entertains you. How you show them so much appreciation, how you act you wake up and go to sleep. Everything about you, to them, is the beauty of existing all put into one individual. And they find it (and you!) breathtaking.

Friendly reminder that it is COMPLETELY NORMAL to feel extremely attached to/have intense feelings for fictional characters.

The human brain cannot differentiate the feelings and attachments we have to irl people from the feelings and attachments we have to fictional characters. Chemically, the feelings are the exact same

More to the point, if a character you love ever gets hurt or god forbid dies, it is absolutely normal to feel genuine grief and hurt because of it. As far as the chemicals in your brain are concerned, you genuinely just watched your friend/partner/family member get hurt.

Your feelings are valid and normal.

Imagine showering your f/o in kisses!

Imagine cupping their head in your hands, pressing your lips into every feature on their face. Cradling them close as you give them all your love. How would their demeanor shift? Content smiles or blushy giggles? Maybe they’re laughing and bashfully trying to wiggle away! You won’t let them, of course. Perhaps they give a reluctant smile as you continue; kissing their jaw, shoulders, hands, any and every part of them!

No inch shall be left without your affection.

proship no touch !!

Imagine being "the exception" for your f/o. Being the one who they feel closest to, the one they confide in, you're the one they come to, because they trust you the most. Your f/o puts such loyalty and positive emotional energy into your connection, because you are that special to them. You make them feel loved, heard, accepted. And that is something your f/o will always be thankful for - the opportunity to be themselves by someone who gets it, who gets them.

btw ur allowed to take ur selfship as seriously or as unseriously as u like. as long as it’s good for u and it makes u happy, u can do whatever u want. it’s not “too much” <3

Stoic F/Os losing their composure around you,,,, getting flustered and blushy when you laugh or smile at them,,,,

Ooh. Please please make more self-inserts. Not only is it fun you have no idea how much it can help you be kind to yourself. Have the hero of the franchise fall in love with you for what you think are your annoying quirks. Have the wisest man in that fictional world, tell others that your are the kindest and the smartest person he has ever met. Have the evil guy fall for you and revoke his evil ways cuz youre just that hot. Allow yourself to be loved by the fictional characters you look up to and in time you may also begin see how wonderful you really are.