Reblog This If You’re Okay With Fellow Self-shippers Gushing About Their F/Os In Your Ask Box!

Hey, just saw your post about autistic proshippers and I (dude who is audhd) didn’t even realize that my ships could be a hyperfixation. Three definitely are, there’s no doubt about it, I can’t stop thinking about them. It’s an everyday occurrence. Soooo uh thanks for making me realize the obvious lmao, hope you have a good day.

Ohh interesting, feel free to pop in and talk about those ships anytime you'd like! I'm all ears. I hope you have a good day as well anon!

Is the anon from the pfp post ur friend or smth? Bc I would really feel offended if some random person told me to change my pfp (no hate for that anon of course, I just find it odd)

Hahah, no, i dont know them personally, but im not offended! I didnt take that the wrong way or anything, i actually appreciate them being honest w/ me!! But ty for the ask anyways lovely, take care!

nah i have scrupulosity ocd and jerking it to fic of toddlers getting raped is wrong end of. get help <3

Sorry to anyone who reads this ask, I will have it tagged. First of all I don't read fics like that, but is it of a FICTIONAL character? Then there is no issue. I'm extremely uncomfortable at the idea of a toddler aged character in a situation like that but I won't harass someone or say it shouldn't exist if it is STRICTLY FICTION. Also I think you lot forget that fictional characters don't look like, and sometimes, don't act like, real people. They are drawn in proportions that would look arguably horrifying if directly translated to real life. They aren't real, nor are they breathing or capable of feeling real pain. They are, essentially, the pixelated equivalent of dolls. Any fictional character can be put into any situation at any age, anytime, anywhere, and it would not cause harm to a real person because that character does not exist. You have to be able to learn to distinguish a real person from a fictional character, they are not comparable to each other. Also, get help right? Whether you believe it or not darkshipping is approved by a lot of therapists as a healthy coping mechanism. If your therapist tells you it isn't good for you to do/utilize, it's because they recognize that those fictional concepts cause you some form of discomfort. They will form their therapy plans around YOUR needs, so everyone will have different coping mechanisms. It not being the best outlet for you doesn't mean it isn't a good outlet for someone else. Alternatively, darkshipping doesn't need to be confined to "it's only acceptable if its for coping", it's fine to like dark content in general. If it wasn't fine, you guys wouldn't freely enjoy horror movies or video games like GTA. As I've said before, if proshippers make you uncomfortable and are apart of your DNI, don't stress yourself out by interacting with me first. Have a good day/night anon

I will

I will hug every proship🌸🏵️👑🌺

Proselfshippers with secret f/os, here's a reminder that they love you so much and they don't mind at all that you're keeping them secret! They're more than content and happy to just be with you, as long as you're comfortable that's all that matters. Just know that just because they're secret doesn't make your relationship with them any less real nor does it take away from how precious the connection is. No matter the reason they'll understand, they love you just as much as they would if you didn't keep them secret, don't worry <3

I've been hitting up like every request blog I can find that's proship about him I swear but like 😭.Maruki from Persons 5 The Royal has me by the heart, man!! It's not my fault he's a complete puppy dog of an antagonist!! Needs to be wrapped in a blanket I fucking swear.

MARUKI!!! He absolutely does need to be wrapped in a blanket, i agree! This is so cute tho, i ship you two v much :))) Feel free to gush abt him whenever!!

🦋[ TW: Inc*st/gr**ming mention: Does any other proship-selfshipper make their selfships incestual or age gapped cause of trauma?? I do that, where ill make my self insert the child of an f/o or the sibling to one and ship them, or my self insert will be way younger than the f/o, cause my family treated me really sexually and i got groomed a few times. I used to be terrified of telling my closest friend abt that but now i just dont care, and they dont either, but im kinda curious if anyone else following me does that?? Like i genuinely get so repulsed by the idea of it happening irl and i hated it sm when it happened to me irl but thinking about it fictionally helps me cope w/ it?? And honestly at this point i kinda need some reasurance for it, since i cant tell if i should feel bad for it lmao. Ily guys tho, sorry! Take care, lovelies <3 ]🦋

I always had a hard time with self shipping because people always made it weird that I was into it to the point I couldn’t, but other people did it no problem, and even now it’s hard to do without cringing like 😭

Awww sweetie! Im so so sorry, selfshipping is absolutely NOT weird, whatsoever! It is mainly used a coping mechanism too, and i dont stand for people making fun of coping mechanisms, or hypocrisy! If theyre allowed to do it then you are too, no buts about it! Have fun with selfshipping love, its not cringy at all no matter how you selfship, its a wonderful thing to explore and have fun with, be you and be happy, do what makes you comfortable, and just know i fully support you on it! Feel free to gush to me about your selfships whenever you like! ♡♡♡

I'm actually thriving with Love and DeepSpace, Caleb is so perfect ahhh <3 He was definitely made for the ones who prefer just a pinch 🤏🏻 of darker romance. But it also opened my eyes a little about just how sensitive anti's morals are? There are so many Love and DeepSpace players who can't enjoy Caleb's character AT ALL because he's a little bit possessive and obsessive, he borders on yandere but he really doesn't either? He won't kill just any regular person, he will really only kill/hurt people who harm MC. So even if they WERE ogling at her, that wouldn't prompt him to kill them, but he has many of the other yandere traits! And also, theyre childhood friends, who seemed to have a sort've brotherly-sisterly bond. Caleb never thought of it that way but he always kept his feelings hidden for the sake of making her happy! Though his character runs much, much deeper than that, the fandom makes it where you have to validate enjoying Caleb's character or else you're a freak weirdo who likes pseudo-incest, you do NOT need to validate enjoying his character omg 😭!! And so what if they do enjoy making them have a step-sibling bond while he's a love interest, I think of it that way sometimes myself, and I self-ship with him too 😭 People will act like if you can't 'validate' liking him based on their morals then you're p0rn addicted and an awful person, no!! There's so many sweet moments with him too, I ADORE all the sappy, romantic, tender and sweet moments, just because he's abit of a darker character, or just because he's a character whose much easier to use for darker dynamics, doesn't mean anything omgg 😭 Someone said 'So many people started playing the game because of the fact Caleb was like a brotherly figure who turned into a L/I and that's really concerning' no it isn't 😭 as long as those people aren't participating in those things IRL there is no issue, let them enjoy their fictional interests. There are FAR worse characters in media, in otome games in general, and no that doesn't mean you should bash those characters or their enjoyers, but it should open your eyes about just how common and OKAY it is to see people put their fictional interests into practice in their writing and art.

🦋[Hey lovelies! Do any of you happen to want positivity for a certain fandom? Or possibly certain types of ships or smth? Selfship and regular shipping included ofc, but i know sometimes people have alot of bad experiences with specific fandoms and i want to make up for atleast a small bit of it <3 So if youd like some positivity/reassurance for anything specific lmk! And honestly if you need it outside of proship-selfship related things then im fine with that too, im here for everyone and care deeply about all of you <3 Take care huns! My inbox is always open :)]🦋