Honestly Prob Could Still Do It Decently

fighting a god with the odd bird lady I picked up along the way, wish me luck 💪

big little universe

basic information :

name : nykenima (nyk).

goals : share oc art and stories.

hello! for the purpose of this blog, I'm just some guy haha. I'll try to stay impersonal here to keep the focus on the work I post. this won't be the case with messages and comments :]

this blog is best suited for teen and up audiences. the main story I'm writing explores more complex themes that should be handled with nuance and respect. 💙

quick search :

#my art for my silly drawings.

#my answers for my responses to asks.

post is tagged with the above two for easy access.

my ask box :

really, tell me anything! ask me questions, show me your art, your dog, share a shower thought - who cares! just have fun. Although, of course, I would prefer no NSFW, in thought or media, as there's a time and place for that which isn't here.

boundaries :

no DNI list, but I'm sure you guys understand to not be hateful. it's good for your peace of mind not to be too!

will not interact with minors the way I might with adults. that means some distance.

rude words will be ignored, please feel free to speak your mind otherwise.

otherwise, I hope you'll like scrolling through my blog! I make what I do mainly because I like it, but it would be an honor to know you did too. 💙

bonus! cool people :

@rainncoater - very kind, has been patient with me, haha. great artist too! lots of bright colours; good rainbow soup.

why are you so sweet (and hot) and I (74M) was recently hit by a car (2014 Honda) and died. My wife (5F) organized me a funeral (cost $2747) without asking me (74M) at all. I (74M) was unable to make it because I (74M) was dead (17 days). At the funeral I heard my dad (15M) and other family members talking about how they wish I could be there and now I feel bad for not showing up. AITA?

YTA I don't understand why you can't even do the bare minimum of showing up. Men these days are so lazy and incompetent. At least the Honda was an active contributing member of society by putting itself out there. This is why you should date me instead.

i may be a trans dude but ill be a pining lesbian in a situationship or an angsty teenage boy who just went through a breakup or a distraught middle aged man going through a midlife crisis for a few minutes depending on the song just say the word I'LL DO IT

Head I, oil painting by Dos Diablos on Instagram

please give me your ocs to draw,,,

i think it's very cool that we just have little guys we spin in our brain and torture sometimes 💙

THE ITALICS IS KILLING ME

im gonna jump in here and say mine literally means dark haired... guess i was fated to be edgy 😈 power-of-friendship-nick im gonna GET U

apparently my name means Dignified

reblog to confusion reminded me, another thing even i often have to remind myself is that honestly this applies to platonic relationships, really ANY relationship.

a healthy relationship w urself is the foundation to having a good relationship with anyone else, bc you're just happier! you can stand up for yourself! and you just become a much nicer person to be around when ur not filled w self loathing 24/7.

yeah sorry chat u do gotta love urself too. no other way around it rip

GO FUCKING LOVE YOURSELF TODAY 🔪🔪🔪🔪

do you want a relationship or do you just want to be happy(ier)?

hear me out.

sometimes when i hear ppl around me complain about how much they want a bf/gf/partner in general i often want to ask, "why exactly?"

because a lot of the time, at the core, people want a s/o to address some other thing in their life they want fulfilled. like it's more of just wanting companionship, someone to connect to, wishing to feel less lonely etc

i feel like this is worth thinking about bc often people will get into a relationship thinking it will solve this core issue they have, and when it doesn't it catches them off guard. like ur s/o is there to improve your overall quality of life, not solve your life problems for u--that's smth u need to work on urself. yes it will suck. but it will be worth it bc ull be a more well-rounded person!

i used to kinda wish i had a relationship myself, but as i met more ppl and made more friends that feeling went away and i realised i was really content with just my platonic relationships. bc at the root i really just wanted people i could truly connect to, people i could chat up whenever. and i got that when i built a good network of friends.

you don't need a romantic relationship to be happy. it's better to try to address these needs first instead of throwing it all upon the hypothetical partner to solve.

i think about this whenever i have that "i want a relationship" feeling again.