If You Don't Make Your November Enjoyable

People who are terrified about what others think about them are actually worried about all the shitty things they think about themselves, being reflected back at them.

— Mark Manson

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what others say and do is a projection of their own reality and their own dream. it’s not because of you, you are not the problem. focus on you and don’t take anything personally. you are amazing, keep being you ˙ᵕ˙ ♡

Pick your hard...

Struggling to pay your bills and food because you keep lowering your standards.

Or

Struggling to open the authentic French 2012 vin bottle because your millionnaire boyfriend is away for work.

Everytime you lower your standards, it’s always guaranteed that you’ll face disappointment.

Never lower your standards for a man who will end up disappointing you.

The people you're trynna get above are also subscribed to that "motivation account" but the thing is that they actually work while you don't.

Break-ups are so unnecessary

get you someone better

ともだち

Your inspiration was born the same way you did, so why do you struggle so much ?

“my dream college rejected me” … no. you’re already an accepted student.

“she’s ignoring my texts and calls” … no. you’re someone that your sp is in love with & shows it.

“im working a shitty, low paying job” … no. you’re working your dream job.

you see something in the 3d you dont like? reject it, decide the opposite is happening (fulfill) & move on. what you see is not permanent anyway. stop sticking with what you see in the 3d & holding onto it. thats not cute. stop accepting what you dont want, decide what you do want & know its done regardless of everything.

theres no point in continuing to accept the bullshit you see for weeks and months until you burst and start to wonder where you went wrong. shift into the version of you that knows they have what they want. stop trying to control & micromanage the 3d and instead, let it be. change self, not the 3d.

the 3d follows you, not the other way around. so be the change.

reject it

decide your desired outcome

fulfill

its done

you cannot allow yourself to continue depending on physical evidence. reject the bullshit you dont like seeing. you cannot continue to limit yourself and drag yourself down depending on what you see in the 3d. thats a sign that you do not understand yourself as the operant power.

kisses, jani ☆