the energy of others: surround yourself with positive people and avoid those who drain you.
the videos you watch: select content that inspires, educates or entertains you in a healthy way.
what you read: look for reliable sources and material that enriches you intellectually.
who you follow: follow people who inspire and challenge you to grow.
what you scroll through on social media: avoid negative content and look for something that motivates you or makes you feel good.
the news: look for objective sources of information and avoid information overload.
highlights of others: compare less and celebrate more the achievements of others.
the advice you listen to: evaluate advice according to your criteria and needs.
source: @zamirasaba
Ketuvians and their uncanny ability to see themselves as a reflection but detach themselves from themselves if that makes sense.
Like they can do wrong, but because they've detached themselves from their actions, they walk it off as if they didn't do anything wrong. Not saying they do not have feelings of guilt or what not but if they dont see themselves as the person who does things that may/may not be good, they wont feel anything.
Like, sir? You're a thief, and you swear up and down you're not? LOL, I like nodals, but they are very much so black-white thinkers.
your time is coming ✨ be patient ♥️
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I hate when men are rude to me, there have been countless times where I have given men the same attitude they were giving me because for some reason men think it’s ok to treat women however they want. One of them told me to “relax” when i was giving him the same rude attitude. I’m not going to let men disrespect me.
Of fucking course
What sick bastard doesn’t
There are way too many sons out here where their Mothers kiss the floor they walk on, but a young girl is held to an impossibly higher standard.
As a black woman, and in our community sons who do degenerate things are constantly being praised and given grace to due "white supremacy", but a black girl who gets abused by the very same men never gets that same grace. Look how people baby Kanye due to him losing his mother versus the high standard they put on Megan who also lost her mom. That comparison (there are so many more stories) let alone should be a definition of the grace men for doing shitty things despite whatever issues they blame their mothers for.
It's audacious. No shade to the original OP though 🙂🫶🏾
A common argument I hear about men's maltreatment of women is that they were raised poorly by their parents, particularly by their mother.
While I agree that mothers play a role in raising misogynistic men, I don’t think it's fair to pin it entirely on them. Because at the end of the day, men have a mind of their own and are free to make their own choices.
Start talking to yourself.
Comfort yourself when you’re down.
Soothe yourself when you’re hurt.
Encourage yourself when you’re scared.
Feeling nostalgic? Tell yourself some memories.
Messed up? Tell yourself it will be fine.
Time to sleep? Tell yourself good night.
When you’re tired, ask yourself to take a break.
When you’re panicking, get yourself to breathe.
When you win, congratulate yourself.
If you do these things sincerely and consistently, you will witness true sorcery.
Your body will start healing itself for you.
Your heart will start feeling whatever you want it to.
Your mind will start changing your environment to fit you.
No one in this world will love, nurture and protect you as much as you will yourself.
But as with everyone else, you first have to earn yourself’s devotion and loyalty.
So start talking to yourself today. What’s the first thing you will say?
Hello,
I hope you’re all doing well. 🌿
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