There are way too many sons out here where their Mothers kiss the floor they walk on, but a young girl is held to an impossibly higher standard.
As a black woman, and in our community sons who do degenerate things are constantly being praised and given grace to due "white supremacy", but a black girl who gets abused by the very same men never gets that same grace. Look how people baby Kanye due to him losing his mother versus the high standard they put on Megan who also lost her mom. That comparison (there are so many more stories) let alone should be a definition of the grace men for doing shitty things despite whatever issues they blame their mothers for.
It's audacious. No shade to the original OP though 🙂🫶🏾
A common argument I hear about men's maltreatment of women is that they were raised poorly by their parents, particularly by their mother.
While I agree that mothers play a role in raising misogynistic men, I don’t think it's fair to pin it entirely on them. Because at the end of the day, men have a mind of their own and are free to make their own choices.
the energy of others: surround yourself with positive people and avoid those who drain you.
the videos you watch: select content that inspires, educates or entertains you in a healthy way.
what you read: look for reliable sources and material that enriches you intellectually.
who you follow: follow people who inspire and challenge you to grow.
what you scroll through on social media: avoid negative content and look for something that motivates you or makes you feel good.
the news: look for objective sources of information and avoid information overload.
highlights of others: compare less and celebrate more the achievements of others.
the advice you listen to: evaluate advice according to your criteria and needs.
source: @zamirasaba
Women truly need to stop giving a shit about what others, especially men, think they are. Women are constantly villanized for the minorest of annoyances or comments. Strangers opinions on you do not matter.
A lot of women just want to be seen as the “good girl”. The nicest most kindest martyr who would never say or do the wrong thing. It’s just completely different to step out of that mindset, that you have to always consider everyone else and you can never have your own thoughts, and truly love and accept yourself. To have a strong internal sense of self and remember that you are an intelligent, good person with morals.
Women are socialized to prioritize men over themselves and are taught their worth comes from men. But you can outgrow that. I did.
Stop cutting and carving yourself down so people who hate you will treat you with respect.
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@sajagz, thank you for listening.
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Like with my Krittika in my chart, I get angry for like 10 minutes, then I get over it, but Krittikas mainly do not like it when you start playing in their face. Their ruling deity is Agni, who is a fire god human who equals the fire of the sun, lightning, and sacrifices. This gift Krittika's with sharp intelligence, craftiness, and the ability to purify any negative energies for transformation to overcome challenges. One person who I think represents Krittika well is Carrie Fisher, who was considered to be very outspoken and opinionated towards her co-stars.
When you give Krittika's negative energies, they are here to purify those energies by the sharp truth that will bring the person to enlightenment, so that could take the form of ranging for like 10 minutes, saying things you want to say, and then feeling bad about it 30 minutes later😭. But, I will say Krittika's (Sun people in general) reflect light through the darkness of some people, which helps some realize their darkness, but will also push others away who are not ready to face themselves.
Like do not push their buttons though. However, with personal experiences with the Taurus portion of Krittika they are more likely to get angry and rage for like 10-30 minutes and then the next minute-
me dating men with sun ak with a mars dk, next time i see a mars dk im running the opposite way!!!!
men with mars dk want to be treated as princesses. they act like YOU'RE the one who should plan dates, open the door for them, pump their gas like 🤮🤮 be a fucking man!!!!
ashlesha🫱🏻🫲🏿criticism is kryptonite
not to all tho so don’t be upset 😩
i might do a post regarding the issues of mercurial women and their competitiveness but also how they are always being pit against other women, which i think causes some mental stimulation (which mercurial women love playing the trickster) to overcome domination of some sorts, and such as all mercurial nakshatras if im not mistaken all have desires to overcome the other whether its through overcoming enemies by poison (ashlesha), to gain supremacy (jyestha), and to shine light to guide others to prosperity (revati), also most mercurial women have gone thru deep shit which is why most of them are always in attack mode (including revati dont let them fool you). i personally feel mercurial women don't start off that way, though.
i may be wrong, im only fairly new to vedic so plz bare with me 🤭
is it a first house ketu experience to have spirits attack you in your sleep? particularly when your really cold for some reason?
i remember when i was HUNGGGG up on my ex, at night when i got cold i literally had such bad sleep paralysis and woke up to spirits that were dark and looked like evil fairies attack me but never show their face. this was also during the time i was experiencing a spiritual awakening
maybe it was acc a nightmare and has nothing to do with being a ketu 1st houser. my ex said he was fighting demons and ngl when i got depressed abt him i has those experiences 💀