Hi, In Your Post You Said Venus Aspecting Pluto And Mars Aspecting Pluto Can Make You Attached, Especially
Hi, in your post you said Venus aspecting Pluto and mars aspecting Pluto can make you attached, especially after sex. I have Venus square Pluto ( Venus in Pisces), and mars sextile Pluto (Aquarius mars). Do you think I shouldn’t have sex. I haven’t yet, but you’re right I get so attached before I even date someone. I’m so afraid that losing my virginity will make me clingy and annoying. I currently make sure to close off my emotions and isolate myself, and I don’t tell people how I feel, out of fear of it being too much.
Hey girl!
Girl to be honest I’d advise to do the opposite. I understand your fears, but believe me there are people out there who are just as passionate about love and relationships as you may be. Since you have easier aspects with mars, I notice people with easier aspects being able to be very attached to their partner but also have an easier time not crossing the line from being passionate to being borderline obsessive, especially sexually since mars is a planet of sex and desire and since you have mars in aquarius the ability to be become sexually detached when it’s not being reciprocated is something that can be learned in time. with venus squaring pluto, and having a venus in pisces, i’d advice you to trust your intuition with someone and to not overlook the red flags within a relationship because since pisces can often time do so, people can take advantage of it. allowing yourself to feel passionate with someone but not allowing yourself to do so where you lose yourself or when you know it’s not reciprocated by the other person (when they aren’t showing signs that they reciprocate it). i knew someone with pisces venus squaring pluto and they were super obsessed with someone who clearly did not reciprocate that and they used them for attention. it’s just having clear boundaries with yourself in seeing the reality of things and being selective of who you choose to be in a relationship with. and I advise that although you deserve to feel passionate, when you become too infatuated with someone it will hurt you more than it does them.
About your virginity, I’d advice it to lose it to someone you truly trust and who you know won’t make you feel clingy or annoying bc GIRL U AINT EITHER OF THAT! you deserve to have a sexual experience with someone who doesn’t fear intimacy and closeness! When I said people can be clingy with those aspects, they can usually become more emerged with their partner and can become paranoid because they’re afraid of opening up to a person just for them to not reciprocate.
overall i’d advice using intuition and discernment, allowing yourself to be passionate with someone but understanding who is reciprocating that energy and who isn’t (whoever isn’t KICK THEM TO THROUGH CURB FAST!) and allowing your self to have a healthy attachment with someone so you don’t lose yourself to your partner and to have better trust with and in your partner, and realize that you shouldn’t close yourself off due to the fear of being too much because there are people in the world who will validate you and help you realize that your not too much!
Sorry for the long response but I hope that helped🥺🥺🫶🏾
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A brutal but warm felt message towards Libra Risings:
This will resonate with some, it won’t resonate with others and that’s okay! please feel free to leave a comment if it does or does not (please be respectful however🌞)
I know you grew up having to keep the peace within the household (Capricorn 4th house 💔) and realizing that your “superpower” is docility and people pleasing, but please STAND UP! stick up for yourself! most do this due to the general fear of what will happen when they do stand up against others:
-“what if they hate me?”
-“what if they don’t listen to my boundary? then what’s the point.”
-“what if this changes how they view me?”
-“i’m afraid i will be rejected if i speak up”
to answer your 12th house virgo worries, who gives a fuck? if you don’t stick up for yourself you will always be in constant state of people pleasing, then when you get past that point you blow up because your not living in your truth! some of y’all do it to appear nice and docile to others knowing damn well with with that sag in the 3rd and aries in the 7th you have a side that can be more assertive. that’s manipulation, if they can’t love you the way they are then leave them be. don’t try to take away someone choice with whether they accept you or not and i promise you, you don’t want someone who doesn’t accept you either.
with the martian energy on your 7th house people will always have a reaction to what you say and do, so you might as well speak your truth. if you lose people, then think of it as getting closer to the group that actually genuinely accepts you and your good and bad rather than you putting spells and twisting yourself in ways that you know your not. to be honest, it’s a damned if you do and damned if you don’t, so you might as well say it with your chest. be yourself, you will always have haters, but that’s apart of the process, and no they’re dislike towards you has nothing to do with who you are as much as you think it does. the more you enforce boundaries with someone, the less your virgo 12th house worries and the more you get closer to your truth!
i provided some affirmations for some of your houses and i hope you use them whenever you need reminding to stand up for yourself!
libra in the 1st:
- “peace should not come at the expense of my mental wellness”
- “i come as my most authentic self”
- “i know my worth and do not settle for less”
sag in the 3rd:
- “there’s no shame in speaking my truth”
- “my voice matters, and my thoughts have value”
- “i am worthy of being heard and respected”
aries in the 7th:
- “i am courageous, confident, and able to take bold steps in my life”
- “ i set healthy boundaries and stand firm in my values within my relationships”
- “ i trust my instincts and lead with confidence”
virgo in the 12th house:
- “i am worthy of love and acceptance, even in the face of my imperfections”
- “i release fear and embrace courage”
- “i am stronger than my fears”
i hope this helped!
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You're a pick-me in 2025 while males make video games like this about your kind.
They're really telling you, you're born to be preyed upon, abused, and humiliated.
Because of women, it got banned. But males made that game in the first place. A bunch of males gathered together, like they do in their degenerate locker room rituals, and decided to create a rape simulation during a global femicide crisis. So fitting from their sociopathy alone.
Gonna start writing "Well, Girls will be girls, you know!" on any article talking about a female committing a crime
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one thing that makes me mad is seeing parents treat their children anything else then a human being 😭😭😭
i just seen a video of a dad referring to treating his kids as wild animals because he doesn’t allow their opinions over his and so many people in the comments were like “raise them don’t let them raise you” like????
makes my ass itch 😭😭💀
There are way too many sons out here where their Mothers kiss the floor they walk on, but a young girl is held to an impossibly higher standard.
As a black woman, and in our community sons who do degenerate things are constantly being praised and given grace to due "white supremacy", but a black girl who gets abused by the very same men never gets that same grace. Look how people baby Kanye due to him losing his mother versus the high standard they put on Megan who also lost her mom. That comparison (there are so many more stories) let alone should be a definition of the grace men for doing shitty things despite whatever issues they blame their mothers for.
It's audacious. No shade to the original OP though 🙂🫶🏾
A common argument I hear about men's maltreatment of women is that they were raised poorly by their parents, particularly by their mother.
While I agree that mothers play a role in raising misogynistic men, I don’t think it's fair to pin it entirely on them. Because at the end of the day, men have a mind of their own and are free to make their own choices.
