Sagittarius Placements/9th house placements and the 9° 21° degrees!!! Reminder:
is there any planetary dominance, placement, or nakshatra that women have that unfortunately where women deal with men competing with them, trying to humble them, or just trying to destruct their lives?
i know sun women deal with this tbh, but i wonder what other planets that influence the ladder
When times get hard, and when people piss me off, I remind myself that I soon will be far away and that when the time is right, I will ultimately block them and they will never know😩😩
This will resonate with some, it won’t resonate with others and that’s okay! please feel free to leave a comment if it does or does not (please be respectful however🌞)
I know you grew up having to keep the peace within the household (Capricorn 4th house 💔) and realizing that your “superpower” is docility and people pleasing, but please STAND UP! stick up for yourself! most do this due to the general fear of what will happen when they do stand up against others:
-“what if they hate me?”
-“what if they don’t listen to my boundary? then what’s the point.”
-“what if this changes how they view me?”
-“i’m afraid i will be rejected if i speak up”
to answer your 12th house virgo worries, who gives a fuck? if you don’t stick up for yourself you will always be in constant state of people pleasing, then when you get past that point you blow up because your not living in your truth! some of y’all do it to appear nice and docile to others knowing damn well with with that sag in the 3rd and aries in the 7th you have a side that can be more assertive. that’s manipulation, if they can’t love you the way they are then leave them be. don’t try to take away someone choice with whether they accept you or not and i promise you, you don’t want someone who doesn’t accept you either.
with the martian energy on your 7th house people will always have a reaction to what you say and do, so you might as well speak your truth. if you lose people, then think of it as getting closer to the group that actually genuinely accepts you and your good and bad rather than you putting spells and twisting yourself in ways that you know your not. to be honest, it’s a damned if you do and damned if you don’t, so you might as well say it with your chest. be yourself, you will always have haters, but that’s apart of the process, and no they’re dislike towards you has nothing to do with who you are as much as you think it does. the more you enforce boundaries with someone, the less your virgo 12th house worries and the more you get closer to your truth!
i provided some affirmations for some of your houses and i hope you use them whenever you need reminding to stand up for yourself!
libra in the 1st:
- “peace should not come at the expense of my mental wellness”
- “i come as my most authentic self”
- “i know my worth and do not settle for less”
sag in the 3rd:
- “there’s no shame in speaking my truth”
- “my voice matters, and my thoughts have value”
- “i am worthy of being heard and respected”
aries in the 7th:
- “i am courageous, confident, and able to take bold steps in my life”
- “ i set healthy boundaries and stand firm in my values within my relationships”
- “ i trust my instincts and lead with confidence”
virgo in the 12th house:
- “i am worthy of love and acceptance, even in the face of my imperfections”
- “i release fear and embrace courage”
- “i am stronger than my fears”
i hope this helped!
ashlesha🫱🏻🫲🏿criticism is kryptonite
not to all tho so don’t be upset 😩
So many guys are so ugly but all girls are beautiful. That's why there shouldn't be any beauty indicators for women because there's no such thing as "ugly women", women that look bad don't exist. Men on the other hand, there should only be beauty indicators for men, cuz why are the majority of them so fucking ugly, every time I go in public, I see women and I'm like "fucking goddesses, the most beautiful creature that I've ever laid my eyes on" and then I see men, their pants are hanging so low you can see their hairy ass, they look like a fucking bear (just uglier), no fashion sense, and just not groomed. The men i personally know look good, but in public....beautiful women significantly outnumber beautiful men. If you're a woman, you're beautiful, you just are, I don't need to see you to say that. I just know.
i might do a post regarding the issues of mercurial women and their competitiveness but also how they are always being pit against other women, which i think causes some mental stimulation (which mercurial women love playing the trickster) to overcome domination of some sorts, and such as all mercurial nakshatras if im not mistaken all have desires to overcome the other whether its through overcoming enemies by poison (ashlesha), to gain supremacy (jyestha), and to shine light to guide others to prosperity (revati), also most mercurial women have gone thru deep shit which is why most of them are always in attack mode (including revati dont let them fool you). i personally feel mercurial women don't start off that way, though.
i may be wrong, im only fairly new to vedic so plz bare with me 🤭
There are way too many sons out here where their Mothers kiss the floor they walk on, but a young girl is held to an impossibly higher standard.
As a black woman, and in our community sons who do degenerate things are constantly being praised and given grace to due "white supremacy", but a black girl who gets abused by the very same men never gets that same grace. Look how people baby Kanye due to him losing his mother versus the high standard they put on Megan who also lost her mom. That comparison (there are so many more stories) let alone should be a definition of the grace men for doing shitty things despite whatever issues they blame their mothers for.
It's audacious. No shade to the original OP though 🙂🫶🏾
A common argument I hear about men's maltreatment of women is that they were raised poorly by their parents, particularly by their mother.
While I agree that mothers play a role in raising misogynistic men, I don’t think it's fair to pin it entirely on them. Because at the end of the day, men have a mind of their own and are free to make their own choices.
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