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this girl at my school wrote an article and i think you should read it
Honestly I totally get the appeal of a lifelong romantic relationship. But like, I’d rather get that by having a relationship that’s so consistently good we never decide to end it, than by having one that’s so good at one time that we decide, in that moment, to never end it.
Does that make sense? One’s saying “yes” to something every day, the other’s saying “yes, every day” to something.
Making it hard to leave takes away a lot of uncertainty. But what if making it hard to leave devalues the staying?
I want anyone I date to know with total certainty that if they wanted to leave tomorrow, they could do it and it wouldn’t be the end of the world, it wouldn’t unleash demons. I don’t want anyone to feel chained to me.
It’s being not-chained that makes staying mean something. I want to make it easy to leave so I know we’re in this because we’re choosing to be, actively. And more than an eternal relationship? I want one where we’re in it 100%.
If we’re both/all completely on board because we keep choosing to be… that’s the kind of relationship I’d be happy to keep doing forever, if it keeps working that long. And if it doesn’t? The goal was to make it a good one, not a permanent one.
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the sequence where garnet sings in jailbreak ! i just love it so much i had to make an audio of it
telltale: Walking Dead Season 3 confirmed!!
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