I was scrolling as I often do and I saw a blog run by a willing and very enthusiastic female, and she was asking how best she could serve the Patriarchy. Her male followers were providing the usual answers: serve more men sexually, seek out men to serve sexually, dress to please men, and so on. These were all good points, but there was one important answer I felt was missing, maybe the most important answer: tell other girls about serving.
Girls today are told to think for themselves and are encouraged not to listen to men. This of course is very problematic for many girls who routinely make uninformed or ill-advised decisions with disastrous consequences. Due to this state of mind, the information they need about who to listen to is much easier to accept if it comes from another girl. You.
You can be the Patriarchy's biggest supporter. You can tell those girls how happy you are, how relieved you were when you figured out this is what you needed, how much less stressful it is to cede control to a man and just be a cute little thing for him. How having that man in control calms your anxiety, because you know he has everything handled. You can brag about your significant other and the dynamic you have with him, how effortless and natural it is. You can be a role model for them.
I'm giving you permission to speak your mind to them. Recruit them. Tell them what they are missing, how it makes you feel to serve, to be used, to have your riotous mind silenced by a man with quiet confidence and endless strength. Slide the idea into conversations whenever boy problems come up, or whenever they talk or display how stressed or anxious they are. Seed their mind with the idea that maybe, they need a more experienced man, someone who can shoulder the burdens of everyday decision-making for them. Your friends don't have to be stressed or anxious. We can make it better for them. They just have to see.
You can do that for them. Now go.
When she says she’s ovulating and you just fill her up load after load instead of pulling out.
Grace Charis
be over-stimulated or edged?
be a voyeur or have semi-public sex?
finger yourself or follow guided masturbation?
watch yourself in a mirror or listen to a recording of yourself?
honey or ice?
sleep in lingerie or nude
receive a voice memo or nude from a mutual?
shaved or bushy?
grope yourself or be groped?
cuddle under a blanket or sleep nude together?
airplane sex or elevator sex?
kitchen sex or shower sex?
pool sex or workplace sex?
watch porn or read erotica?
receive or send a dirty message while at work?
have your dirty thoughts shared with those around you or know the dirty thoughts of those around you?
watch wlw or mlm porn?
hump a pillow or use a vibrator?
boobs or butt?
lose your virginity together or lose to someone well-seasoned
get fingered in the library or at a nightclub?
receive or perform oral?
have “ok” sex daily or amazing sex once a week?
doggy or missionary?
physical touch or quality time?
moan or scream?
lace or latex?
white or black lingerie?
have someone remote control your vibrator or control it for someone else?
I’m so pretty 🥰