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Loving Yourself in manifestation

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I, like most law of assumption content creators, preach self concept. I’ve talked in a previous post about what self concept is and little ways you can incorporate it into your daily life but today i want to emphasize the inner love and respect for yourself that manifestation both uses and heightens. (This is a bit of a ramble be aware)

in brief, since i have talked about it before, your dominant thoughts about yourself, what you are capable and deserving of, and how you see yourself in relation to others (all your self concept) reflect into the world around you (the 3D). Most of you should be familiar with this sentiment, it is a large part of LOA(ss) after all :3

This does not mean however, which the law of attraction community often misconstrue, that you have to feel good and amazing all the time. You do not have to be a ray of sunshine to manifest anything. You are allowed to have bad days, you are allowed to feel upset. The important part is that you KNOW you are a person worthy of respect, love and your desires.

something i love about law of assumption, is that many people come to this community and the law feeling lack - desperate for something or someone and believing they need it or them to be worthy, happy or even just okay. But with doing the techniques and really learning of the law, they create a good self concept and they realise their own worth and value.

Something i love about the law is the inner transformation you go through. Most people come to the law in a state of lack as they are desperate for someone or something and - though they may not realise it - believe this thing or person will make them worthy, happy or have value. Once they are introduced to self concept and really start applying it though, it really changes all of this: this feeling of inner fulfilment, happiness and worthiness just for being you! This feeling of content and happiness just for being me is unmatched, truly.

No person or thing is going to give you value, the only meaning or value assigned to anything is that which you give to it. And the person who deserves to be assigned the most value is YOU babe.

The neural pathways that we have built over time are mostly reflections of our societies’/community’s/family’s norms. Most societies preach being humble, not being overly optimistic, always looking for worst case scenario. As we grow up these dominant, core thoughts become reflected back to us. But, as put by bashar, this makes us belief thief’s. it’s silly but i think it’s important to learn that you do not have to hold on to anyone else’s beliefs. That which does not serve you, bye bye!

Of course i like to be humble, but i think it’s often pushed way further than that to not even believe in your own inherent worth in fear of being selfish. i choose to believe in my power, my looks, my personality and my worthiness. I am fully aware that i can have bad days and that things go wrong - and even though i’m sure i could manifest even this away, i prefer to live my life and have my world like this - but i refuse to have a mindset that always assumes the worst. after all, our assumptions reflect back in the 3D. You deserve to assume that things always work out for you and as you assume it so it shall be :)

quick side note, two affirmations that have really helped me to unlearn assuming the worst:

- All is well, all will be well

- Everything is always working out for me, no matter how it looks at any given point in time.

Okay, having discussed the importance of self concept and identifying with assumptions and beliefs that serve you, back to the main point of this sort of appreciation post. Though your journey may start from a state of lack, the change in self concept brings not only your manifestations but also so much happiness and fulfilment. Now this is gonna sound silly to longer time loa lovers as of course the whole point is to embody the state of wish fulfilled, and that’s gonna make you feel good, but i feel like many new manifestors - at least definitely me when i started - don’t realise the true fulfilment and happiness within yourself that this journey will give you.

What at first seems like a chore and silly little affirmations to get a goal, becomes little smiles throughout the day when i remember how happy i am to be me.

it is the greatest reward.

love,

saph <3

SO real, if you don’t like your reflection you go internally, make the shift and it changes to reflect that. cause it is a REFLECTION. That is its job. Like i said in my last post, if you look in the mirror and aren’t wearing a hat you don’t pout at your reflection going “why don’t i have a hat? i want to wear a hat :( i guess no hat for me“ you go put on the hat and the reflection REFLECTS that.

Your mirror does not get to say “um no i am not going to reflect that” it is a MIRROR, a REFLECTION, not an operative power. You don’t like your reflection (the 3D)? You go internally, decide how it actually is, and the 3D will reflect this decision.

Be God.

We sometimes fall victim to the 3d/mirror, which makes us waver and accept circumstances that we don’t want to accept. But it feels too real so you end up feeling hopeless, like you can’t do anything about it. You end up feeling like you can’t manifesting and find yourself in the constant cycle of WAITING. WAITING for something to happen and for YOU to be shown proof of what you want.

Let me tell you something; IT DOESN’T WORK LIKE THAT. The 3d is a MIRROR. YOU validate IT. The mirror cannot show you what you aren’t showing IT. It will always reflect YOU/imagination. You’re seeing your mental creations being made physical. But where was it created first? IMAGINATION. The mirror can only make things physical when YOU accept them as already so/they’re already done/you are that person.

You’re literally GOD. You can create and be anything you can imagine. But the problem comes in when you bring in the MIRROR.

Do you really need to be validated by the MIRROR? So much so that you rely on it to be happy? To prove to you that you have your desire? Are you that weak? Can you really not accept it as done and be satisfied by YOUR WORD? By Gods (your) word?

Realise who you are. Realise that you create what you are currently seeing and feeling. Realise there is no other source that affects your life/manifestations but yourself.

It’s always going to be:

Want something —> accept that you have it in imagination/ it is done —> continue to be that person who has what they want bc you literally do. It’s in imagination, the reality that creates everything, so therefore it is true/manifested.

You don’t need a mirror to prove that you have what you want. It will show you that you have what you want when you show IT that you have what you want.

Don’t wait. Don’t wish. Don’t cry. Don’t stress.

ACCEPT THAT ITS ALREADY DONE.

I insist that you work on manifesting things through a god mindset. This doesn’t mean having a god complex where you think you’re better than everyone and that everyone should worship you, it means that you know you create and can manifest anything. The feeling is not a power trip, it’s a realisation of who you are. It’s not 3d based. Having a god mindset just means you only care about your word and not what the mirror is showing you. You trust yourself and have faith in yourself, in your abilities and don’t contradict yourself and always live in imagination/the 4d while still operating in the 3d knowing it’s done.

It’s an inner validation (from yourself), not an outer one.

Now practice it. Pick whatever you want and accept that it’s already done bc it truly is. Don’t go looking for it in the 3d or assume it in the 3d, just know it’s done in imagination/within. And when you falter because of the mirror, remind yourself who matters. You, as god of your reality, or the mirror, your creation?

Be god.

“I do not argue the point,

I do not try to figure out how it will happen,

which means are needed,

I do not wonder if it’s possible,

I do not wonder when or feel fear whether or not it will work,

I remove past and future and remove grudges.

I just experience being.”

-Edward Art

(source)

Persistence occurs whether it’s in your desire or not.

You are always manifesting and 99% of it is subconscious (not a scientific figure, just to help you get the gist of it).

When you think of your desire there are two outcomes, you having it or you not having it.

Your pre-existing beliefs may make you think that it is “impossible” for you and so you consciously and subconsciously persist in the outcome that you don’t have it and that manifests.

When you choose to persist in the outcome that you have it and reject thoughts that say otherwise, you starve the old belief and create a new one where in this outcome is inevitable. As a result you have it!

It sounds simple because it is simple.

It may not feel easy at first due to your old beliefs, but it is always doable, you only ever “fail” by giving up and persisting in the old story again.

Love,

Saph

You Deserve Self Discipline

hi lovelies.

It is so disheartening when people allow themselves to be influenced by the 3D or previous dominant thoughts they’ve had that make them believe they cannot have their desire.

the simple fact is you DESERVE the discipline to not allow others’ words to impact you.

You deserve the discipline to remain in the state of having what you want.

You deserve the discipline to not allow negative thoughts to run your life.

You deserve the discipline to see an unfavourable situation and choose to change it.

You deserve your desired life, so be disciplined to and for yourself.

It may sound daunting but it isn’t, and it gets SO MUCH easier as you go along.

It’s like when you are loyal to an affirmation, the more you say it, the more natural it feels. Before you know it all opposing thoughts melt away <3

this is a short post and a bit of a ramble but i just want you all to know that you deserve the best, so give it to yourself in imagination and allow the mirror that is the 3D follow in suit.

also if this is the first post of mine you see, typically my posts are more informative, this is a bit of an add on thought lol.

Love,

Saph

This is SUCH a good mindset <3

I really wanna help others more in manifestation but I got one:

Whenever you think of your desire, how about affirming "Atleast I have it in the 4D." ? I did the same thing when wanting a video game months ago, and I manifested it ( by finding money I had no idea I had all along, and I bought the game 3 days later. and during that month I was incredibly depressed, so you don't gotta be in a good mood )

I would always then feel relaxed or normal after affirming that. It also helped I already believe the 4D/my imagination is my true reality. Like how most people say they wish they could sleep forever cause their dream world is where they truly belong? Yeah that's me, except I'm now using that belief and using it to manifest that into the 3D/physical world 👀

So,, yeah I thought about this cause I saw a post of yours saying to just accept the 4D ( and that yeah ppl tend to overcomplicate it or make it seem like you gotta be some guru or something in order to manifest your desires ), and it's made me stop thinking on giving up.

omg thank you for sharing! and you're completely right, the key is acceptance and if that helps you then that is perfect! because acknowledging that its in the 4D ONLY is enough!!!

Inner vs Outer in Manifestation

hi lovelies!

Today i want to explain the inner versus the outer, this is more a post for people new to LOAss but everyone’s journey is different so this may help you too!

Inner

Your inner in manifestation is your mind. 95% of manifestation takes place in your mind. this is because, as Neville says, creation comes from imagination.

Your brain, as you learn and grow, creates neural pathways - your dominant thoughts and what your subconscious works off of. Your subconscious/ dominant thoughts are in turn what manifests into your 3D!

Thus all methods you do - even techniques like scripting that you do in the 3D - all work to change your inner, to rewire your dominant thoughts, to create new neural pathways, however you want to think of it!

This is why no circumstance actually matters, because your entire 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts. As long as you can imagine a world/ reality where you have your desire, you can have your desire.

You must simply choose to be the version of yourself who has your desire - whatever it might be - and persist in that internally. The 3D will simply reflect that, as long as you are focused on your inner and not allowing the irrelevant, old story 3D to throw you off track.

If unfavourable 3D events occur, simply reject that outcome in your mind. SP says they don’t want you? simply be like Okay, and in your mind know that this is not relevant to you and that you know you and SP are together. Bank account states you have 12 cents? Nah, you are rich as fuck, you always have at least 4 figures in the bank. Continuing to be the new version of yourself, in the state of wish fulfilled, will help your dominant thoughts rewire to believe that is what your life is!

Outer

Your outer world is the 3D. The world around you that you perceive with your senses :). The 3D honestly has very little to do with manifestation!

You do not have to take any 3D action to receive any desire, because as long as you decide and persist in the version of yourself that has your desire the 3d will reflect this. The 3D is a mirror to your inner world and dominant thoughts. it cannot reject anything you decide you have internally.

To make it very clear, choosing to be the version of yourself that has their desires is internal - if you choose to be the version of yourself that has your SP, you do NOT need to go around saying SP is your boyfriend if the 3D hasn’t reflected that yet. In turn however do not take actions like complaining about SP not reaching out to you etc - because these actions are going to reaffirm dominant thoughts that you have that SP does not want you/ isn’t giving you their all and is not gonna help you manifest. Thus also, looking around constantly for your desire and not seeing it because you are so focused on looking for it is also going to reinforce your dominant thought that you do not have this desire! SO just leave the 3D out of it.

Hope this helps you stars <3

love,

Saph

something i feel that few people understand about the law is that no one has the absolute truth. there is no rule book to follow, which is why you have rhonda bryne on one side and neville goddard on the other. there are so many different interpretations floating around bookstores and the internet and that's the reason. some say your dominant thoughts manifest, some say your feelings, others talk about your state, and others will tell you that it's defined by your self-concept.

so, take what ppl tell you with a grain of salt and find what works for you. find your own key and your own rule book.

Self Concept in Daily Life

hi lovelies ✰

Today I wanna talk about little ways you can incorporate self concept into your daily life. But first…

What is self concept?

self concept is the concept you have of yourself (wow nice). It is essentially how you think of yourself, as well as yourself in relation to other people or things. It is a large part of manifestation as it explains who you are and what you think you are worthy of. Self concept is how you enter the state / embody the version of yourself that has whatever you desire.

Like you know the common phrase of having someone or something on a pedestal? you viewing something or someone as unattainable or too good for you like that is part of your self concept. In turn, putting yourself on the pedestal is also self concept - a good very good self concept! Since your subconscious/ dominant thoughts is what manifests self concept is pivotal to your manifestations, both in being able to manifest and maintain your manifestations.

For example if you believe you are a master manifester but also believe relationships never work out for you, you may be able to manifest your SP into your life and even a relationship, but struggle to maintain it/them. Now maintenance may sound scary and like a lot of work - it isn’t, it is just having the inner belief that you are worthy of whatever you want/ wish. Remember manifestation isn’t hard!!

Now that we know what self concept is, how can we work on it?

A large part of self concept is affirmations, perhaps listening to music that makes you feel like that bitch/ royalty. Just doing the things that make you feel good and reminding yourself that this is how you deserve to feel all the time.

When focusing on self concept in relation to specific manifestations it may help to do certain techniques to rewrite the neural pathways you have previously in your life created via thoughts and experiences that were negative - such as that relationships never work out for you, you need to work hard for money etc.

techniques such as robotic affirming, scripting, vision/mood boards, mirror work, sleep tapes, even drawing your manifestations etc…

remember, manifesting should not feel difficult or inconvenient, its about feeling good and worthy!

Self concept in daily life?

As someone who has suffered with depression for a long time, working on my self concept was hard but oh my god has it helped so much. One little way i helped my self concept without even realising it was in relation to chores - specifically cleaning. I came across a tiktok - not to do with manifestation at all - which explained that one way to help you do chores is to not look at them as annoying tasks that need to get done, but rather as sort of a gift to yourself. I know it sounds silly but listen:

I clean my room because i deserve to live in a clean environment.

I buy my groceries because i deserve to eat well.

I take care of my skin because i deserve to look good

Try some out on some things you “have to” do.

I worked with these as little affirmations (usually just the parts in pink), and it not only helped me do my chores but bettered my self concept. it was a start to understanding that i am worth good things and a good life.

And you are too.

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So to conclude/TLDR:

the way you perceive yourself and what you are worthy is your self concept.

Your self concept is a large part of your dominant thoughts.

Dominant thoughts manifest in 3D.

You can change and improve your self concept with a variety of techniques, focusing on making you feel good and worthy, also using affirmations to rewire your dominant thoughts.

boom bam bingo my little star, now you know your wildest dreams aren’t wild at all. they are all yours with a snap of your fingers. Because you babe, are absolutely worth them.

mwah and feel free to ask me anything regarding manifestation <3

Persisting is the 🔑

When persisting, you are basically reminding yourself that you already have what you want. Do any method you want, it doesn't matter, what matters is to keep persisting and have faith. If you keep persisting, there is no way your 3D won't reflect. So just keep persisting !

But how do I actually persist ?

First of all, you have to understand that once you say you have something, you do. No you probably won't see it immediately in your physical world, but you have it in your 4D(your imagination) and that's what matters because imagination is the truth. So once you get it in your imagination, you just want your 3D to reflect it. And you do this by persisting !

Ok so will you tell us how to do it?!?

When persisting, a lot of times we get negative thoughts. Do not worry. Ignore those thoughts and continue your day knowing that you already have what you want. When you catch yourself ''hearing'' these thoughts immediately correct yourself and remind yourself your power.

I am going to show you an example of how to persist ''the right way''

Let's say that you want to manifest having big lips. The first thing you gotta do is tell yourself that you have big lips. Start affirming/scripting/visualizing (whatever you like the most) about your beautiful big lips. Now that you did this, you basically just reminded yourself of what you already have. Continue your day knowing that you have big lips (no you do not have to think of your desire 24/7!). Now if you look in the mirror and think to yourself ''damn my lips are so thin'' just say ''wait, that's impossible! I have big and full lips!'' You have big lips and you know it. Don't question yourself ! Keep living as the person who has big lips because you are. Don't stand in front of the mirror every three hours to check if the 3D reflected. Does a person who has big lips always checks to see if they have big lips ? Obviously not. So why are you worrying? Just relax, keep persisting and the 3D will reflect.