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welcome to chapter four of HRRTSHAPE’s series of: REMINDERS WHEN YOU’RE DOUBTING SHIFTING. in this episode, we’re going full renaissance here. wipe the slate clean, scrub off all the doubts and stale ideas about shifting. let’s reintroduce it like it’s a completely new, fresh, shimmering concept—like you’re hearing about it for the very first time. deep breath; let’s romanticise.
close your eyes for a second and think of everything you’ve ever wanted—love, adventure, beauty, peace, power, or maybe just something more. now imagine this: it’s all real. not “real someday” or “real in a dream,” but right now, existing alongside you, as vivid and tactile as the air you breathe. that’s what shifting is.
shifting isn’t some faraway magic trick or reserved for “chosen ones.” it’s a birthright, a gift that’s stitched into your soul. you’ve been shifting your whole life—daydreaming, losing yourself in a book, imagining a different outcome. the only difference now? you’re doing it on purpose.
𖥻 SHIFTING REALITIES — A COSMIC ‘REBIRTH.’
picture this: the universe isn’t some sprawling, chaotic expanse of stars—it’s a canvas. every thought, dream, and desire you’ve ever had is a brushstroke on that canvas. shifting is you grabbing the brush, dipping it into the richest hues of your imagination, and painting a world so vivid, so electric, it becomes real.
forget the old definitions. shifting isn’t about "leaving" or "escaping"—it’s about expanding. you are a multidimensional artist, and your soul is fluent in all the languages of existence. shifting is merely the act of walking through one open door, knowing there are infinite others.
throw away everything you’ve heard about shifting being “hard,” “technical,” or full of rules and checklists. that old narrative is out. we’re turning this into an art form, a love letter, a secret rendezvous with the universe itself.
shifting isn’t about bending reality—it’s about flowing into it. like slipping into a warm bath, like sinking into the perfect chair with your favourite book, like catching a breeze that carries you somewhere you’ve always wanted to go.
the truth? you’ve always been a shifter. every time you dream, every time you imagine, every time you ache for something so deeply it feels like you’re there—guess what? you are.
𖥻 A SHIFT IN THE SHIFTING NARRATIVE.
think of shifting not as a process, but as a natural state. like breathing, dreaming, or falling in love. it's not forced. it’s the sweet surrender to the flow of everything you already are. it’s like tuning a radio—every possible reality exists simultaneously, and you’re just clicking over to the station where your song is playing.
you’re not “creating” a new reality. you’re choosing one that’s been waiting for you. like a home you’ve never been to but always known.
𖥻 A SHIFTING ISN’T ESCAPE; IT’S EXPANSION.
let’s address the elephant in the room: shifting is not about “running away.” it’s about opening doors. think of your life like a mansion—shifting lets you walk through all its rooms instead of standing in the same hallway forever.
shifting is freedom, but it’s also depth. it’s not about abandoning your cr (current reality); it’s about realising you’re more than it. you’re vast. you’re infinite. shifting isn’t about escape—it’s about rediscovery.
𖥻 THE SOUL OF SHIFTING: WHAT IT TRULY MEANS.
at its core, shifting is an act of becoming. it’s the moment where you say, “yes, i deserve this. yes, i believe in this. yes, i choose this.” it’s like poetry in motion, a dialogue between you and the cosmos.
when you shift, you’re not just entering a new reality—you’re aligning with a version of yourself that’s been waiting for you. a version that’s already thriving, loving, and living the life you’ve dreamed of. shifting is coming home to yourself in a thousand beautiful ways.
𖥻 HOW TO FALL BACK IN LOVE WITH SHIFTING.
⋆ START FRESH. let go of every heavy expectation. burn the old rules. shifting isn’t a checklist, it’s a feeling. approach it like a blank canvas—no pressure, no judgment. let it feel new, exciting, easy.
⋆ LET DESIRE BE YOUR GUIDE. desire is the most powerful force in the universe. it’s the spark that fuels creation. when you feel that aching, beautiful longing for your dr, don’t smother it with doubt—lean into it. let your desire be the compass that pulls you toward your dreams.
⋆ ROMANTICISE EVERYTHING. treat shifting like the romance of a lifetime. write love notes to your dr. light a candle and imagine your dr self lighting it on the other side. play music that feels like an anthem for your new life. make it dreamy, intimate, and deeply personal, because your dr is personal.
⋆ PLAY, DON’T STRUGGLE. shifting is supposed to feel fun. if it starts feeling like work, you’re doing too much. approach it like a child playing pretend—lighthearted, curious, and free. children don’t ask themselves, “am i doing this right?” they just do. remember, all work and no play makes jack a dull boy.
𖥻 A METAPHYSICAL INTRO: SHIFTING AS SCIENCE AND 'MAGIC'.
shifting isn’t just some abstract idea—it’s grounded in real science. let’s nerd out for a sec:
⋆ YOUR BRAIN IS A PORTAL. your brain doesn’t know the difference between reality and imagination. when you vividly visualise yourself in your dr, your brain literally starts rewiring itself to match that reality. neurons fire, connections strengthen, and BAM—you’re building a bridge to another world.
⋆ QUANTUM THEORY, BABY. in quantum physics, every possibility exists simultaneously. shifting is just you collapsing one of those possibilities into existence. you’re not “creating” your dr—you’re choosing it.
⋆ ENERGY ALIGNS WITH INTENTION. where your focus goes, energy flows. every time you think about your dr, you’re sending out vibrations that pull it closer. you’re a magnet for your own dreams, babe.
𖥻 METHODS? LET’S KEEP IT SIMPLE.
forget complicated methods with 27 steps. shifting is natural, so let’s treat it that way.
⋆ THE DAYDREAM METHOD. sit somewhere comfy, close your eyes, and feel yourself in your dr. don’t force it—let it unfold like a sweet daydream.
⋆ THE SCRIPTING METHOD. write down your dr in ridiculous detail. where do you live? what’s the weather like? who’s the first person you’re meeting when you get there?
⋆ THE LADY GIRL METHOD™: just fall asleep imagining your dr self tucking you into bed. that’s it. let the rest happen on its own.
𖥻 REDEFINING SUCCESS IN SHIFTING.
success isn’t about waking up in your dr on the first try. it’s about the little moments:
⋆ feeling closer to your dr than ever before.
⋆ catching glimpses of your dr in dreams.
⋆ feeling a deep sense of calm and knowing that it’s all possible.
every time you visualise, affirm, or even just think about shifting, you’re planting seeds. and seeds take time to bloom. trust the process. trust, trust, trust the process, and most of all….trust yourself !!!!!
𖥻 FINAL THOUGHTS: SHIFTING IS YOURS.
you don’t have to earn shifting. you don’t have to prove you’re worthy. shifting is already yours—it always has been. it’s your natural state, your gift.
so let go of the rules, the pressure, the doubts. breathe. smile. and step into the infinite, knowing that wherever you go, you are the creator of your own universe.
i MIGHT have a new dr…..’?!.’
(i’ll give a proper introduction later)
Shifters in their closet in their DR
reality shifting isn’t hard. you’ve been told it’s hard because everyone’s too scared to admit it’s not. they cling to their 800-step methods, their must-have crystals, their perfect conditions because they think that if they let go of that control, they’ll fail. but here’s the thing: the more you try to control the process, the more you convince yourself it’s out of your control. and that’s the problem. that’s why so many people feel stuck. shifting isn’t some big, far-fetched thing. it’s just you. it’s always been you.
we’re conditioned to think we’re powerless. think about it—school, work, society, all of it drills this idea into us that everything has to be proven, earned, validated. so, when you hear about shifting, your brain freaks out and says, wait, wait, this is too easy, this can’t be real. and then you spiral. you overcomplicate it. you make yourself think you need the “perfect” script, the “right” subliminal, or that you have to meditate for three hours while the stars align perfectly. like, no… you don’t. all of that? it’s fluff. it’s noise.
at its core, shifting is belief. just belief. no, really, let that sink in. you don’t need to “do” belief perfectly. it’s not something you master through sheer willpower. it’s something you already have. you’ve believed in things your whole life. you believed in gravity without needing proof. you believe your favorite songs are beautiful without needing to explain why. belief is natural. it’s effortless when you stop overthinking it. that’s the energy you need to bring to shifting—trust. trust that your mind knows what it’s doing, and that if you let it, it will take you there. every single extra thing you pile on? the overthinking, the doubt, the need for guarantees? that’s what’s slowing you down. not the “lack of progress,” not some mythical “block”—it’s you convincing yourself it’s harder than it is.
and let’s talk about social media for a second. oh my god, the shifting community on social media… i get it. it’s comforting to see other people on this journey. but let’s be honest—how much of that content is actually helping you? like, really? 90% of the time, scrolling through shifting advice isn’t inspiring; it’s overwhelming. everyone’s got their own opinions, their own “best methods,” their own rules. one person says scripting is a must, another says it’s a waste of time. one person swears by affirmations, another says visualization is the only way. and before you know it, you’re sitting there questioning everything you thought you knew, wondering if you’ll ever get it “right.” spoiler alert: you already know how to shift. you don’t need a thousand voices telling you what to do. in fact, the more you listen to them, the harder it becomes to hear yourself.
take a break. seriously. log off the apps. give yourself space to breathe and think. ask yourself: why do i want to shift? what’s stopping me? what feels right to me? no tiktok trend, youtube guide, or reddit post can answer those questions for you. only you can. and i know that sounds scary. we’ve been conditioned to think we need external validation for everything, but shifting is a deeply personal thing. you don’t need a step-by-step tutorial. you need to trust your instincts. that’s it.
and let me be clear: i’m not saying methods or subliminals are bad. they’re fine if they help you feel aligned. but they’re not what makes shifting happen. you are. methods are just tools. if you use them, great. if you don’t, that’s great too. because the truth is, shifting isn’t about doing things “right.” it’s about letting go of the idea that you need to.
so let me break it down for you. the only things you really need to shift are:
1. a desire. you have to want to go to your desired reality. no brainer, right?
2. belief. this is the big one. you have to trust it’s possible. no “what ifs,” no “but hows.” just trust.
3. persistence. if it doesn’t happen right away, that’s okay. don’t give up. if you’ve ever learned to ride a bike, you know that falling doesn’t mean you can’t do it—it just means you’re learning. shifting is the same.
that’s it. no fancy rituals, no endless research, no “perfect” conditions. the process is simple because it’s natural. you’ve probably done it before without even realizing it— the only reason it feels hard now is because you’ve convinced yourself it has to be.
stop making it harder than it needs to be. shifting isn’t this unattainable, mystical thing reserved for “chosen ones.” it’s something anyone can do. you can do it. your mom can do it. that anti-shifter lurking in every crevice of shiftblr could do it. you’ve always been capable. but you have to stop getting in your own way. stop doubting yourself. stop relying on others to tell you what’s possible. this is your journey. own it.
and above all, be patient. shifting is not a race. it’s not about how fast you can get there or how perfect your dr is. it’s about trust, intention, and focus. log off, tune into yourself, and let it happen. shifting has always been yours to claim. it’s not something you need permission for. it’s not something you need to earn. it’s just you, your mind, and your belief. always has been, always will be.
Betty Davis photographed for ‘Nasty Gal’, 1975.
When someones life is perfect I automatically start thinking "omg what if they're a shifter and I'm in their DR" 🤣😭
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The subconscious is the key to any manifestation. It is responsible for materializing in the physical world what you feed through thoughts, emotions and beliefs. Here is the role of the subconscious in manifestation:
1. It is the Executor of What You Believe
• The subconscious accepts everything you feel as true, whether positive or negative, without question.
• It does not judge; it only works to align your external reality with what is imprinted in it.
2. It Reflects Your Internal State in 3D
• Your external reality is a direct reflection of what is stored in your subconscious.
• What you see in 3D today is the result of the ideas and beliefs that the subconscious has already accepted as truth.
3. It Responds to Mental Imagery and Emotion
• It responds best to clear images and intense feelings, such as those generated in visualizations or SATS (Sleep-Akin State). • When you imagine something with emotion, the subconscious registers it as real and works to manifest it in the physical.
4. It is Programmed by Repetition
• Repeated affirmations, visualizations and feelings record new patterns in the subconscious.
• The more you repeat something, the stronger that belief becomes within you, replacing old programming.
5. It Doesn't Know the Difference Between Real and Imagined
• It accepts everything you imagine with emotion as being real.
That's why feeling that something is already yours is so powerful for manifesting.
• Affirmations: Reinforce beliefs aligned with your desire.
• Visualization: Imagine your desire as already fulfilled with details and emotion.
• Persistence: Even if the 3D shows otherwise, stay firm in what you want.
The subconscious is like fertile soil. Whatever you plant in it through your thoughts and feelings, it will grow in your reality. Therefore, taking care of what you feed mentally is essential to manifest your desires!