I Think One Of The Saddest Parts Of Grief Is How Time Robs You Of Indulging In It
i think one of the saddest parts of grief is how time robs you of indulging in it
each april, i think of that day and i try to allow myself to feel that grief, but yet i cannot grieve fully because of the people i love, the life i live, and the expectations i face now
the people who knew at the time of what happened are gone; life has taken us in different directions
now, i have no one close to me who understands what that day did to me
my family hardly remembers, the best friends i had back then have moved on, and i have a boyfriend who didn't even know me when it happened
so what am i to do? how do i explain this void in my heart that only comes around once a year during the month of april? how do i explain this inexplicable urge to curl into a ball, brought on only by the weight of my memories?
i have two events scheduled the day of. i won't even have time to waste being upset, mourning what happened to me that day. i will go out and do my social duties, conversing with my friends and peers, only to return home and regret not letting myself mourn.
it'll be 7 years. 7 years of regret. every year, april 30th comes around and i feel the weight of emptiness that day left in me. yet, i am the only one privy to it's significance. no one else understands; there is no way for me to tell anyone the truth. i don't want their pity and i don't want their concern.
i went through that day alone. i laid on my bedroom floor, weeping for what i gave up. but now i cannot do the same. time has robbed me of that chance; it has robbed me of the grief i was once allowed.
this month will be rough. 7 years is a long time to grieve. i am different than i was then, for better and for worse.
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that is between me, God, and my obsession with very pretty boys ok, ok
sometimes i wish i could feel.
at the end of the day, i feel nothing
being drunk only enhances it.
Franz Kafka
i want someone who will read books to me next to my grave
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hi guys, ive decided to start using my tumblr like a diary
heres a pic of me where i genuinely felt perfect
my hair was all fluffy and soft, and i had that "just woke up" glow to me
i felt so beautiful
that's all for now <3
- Shade, 4/8/24, 2:31 am
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