If you've been feeling frustrated, isolated, or unfairly targeted due to biased moderation and ongoing toxicity in the official Love and Deepspace Discord server, you're not alone. Below you'll find two versions of an open letter addressing these serious concerns directly to Love and Deepspace's customer service. Feel free to copy, customize, and send this letter to the game's support team.
Together, we can ensure our voices are heard, bring attention to this issue, and advocate for a safer, fairer, and more welcoming environment for all fans. By speaking out, we remind the company that their global moderation team should embody fairness, respect, and genuine support - not bias, toxicity, or unfair treatment of fans.
Your voice matters. Let's work together to reclaim a healthier fandom space.
Here's their e-mail adress: loveanddeepspace-en@infoldgames.com
You can also send these letters to the ingame Customer Service and/or mention them in future surveys.
Subject: Concerns Regarding Bias and Moderation Issues in the Official Love and Deepspace Discord Server
Dear Love and Deepspace Customer Support,
I am writing as a dedicated and passionate player who has grown increasingly concerned about the ongoing moderation bias on the official Love and Deepspace Discord server, particularly concerning Caleb fans and our experiences within the community.
It has become apparent that certain members of your moderation team exhibit clear biases against Caleb fans (also affectionately known as Caleb girlies). Unfortunately, these biases have resulted in unfair treatment, unjustified timeouts, and in some cases, unwarranted permanent bans. This has severely impacted the community's morale and our ability to freely and safely participate in server activities.
To outline some specific concerns:
Historical Bias:
- Before Caleb's official release as a love interest, moderators openly mocked and discouraged discussions about him, dismissing Caleb as merely an NPC. Community members who anticipated his release were banned without reasonable cause.
Recent Bias and Unfair Treatment:
- Leading up to Caleb's Myth release event, numerous Caleb fans have again been targeted with unjust timeouts. Moderators used the server's search function specifically to find minor infractions to justify extending these punishments.
- Comparatively, similar infractions by fans of other love interests often receive no punishment or merely warnings.
Lack of Safe Space and Hostility:
- Caleb's dedicated Discord channel has experienced continuous disruptions from fans of other characters without adequate moderation intervention. However, Caleb fans face immediate repercussions when defending themselves.
- Moderators have shown tolerance or even indirect encouragement toward negative comments and hostility against Caleb fans.
Impact on Community and Player Experience:
- Due to consistent negative experiences, many Caleb fans, new and old, have felt unwelcome and driven out of the official server.
- This has led Caleb fans to create external Discord servers to enjoy discussions peacefully, indicating a clear failure of the official moderation system to provide a supportive and welcoming environment.
We kindly ask for your immediate attention to these issues. Transparent, fair, and unbiased moderation is crucial for maintaining a healthy and vibrant community. We deeply appreciate the game, its lore, and its characters, including Caleb, and we seek nothing more than equitable treatment and a safe environment for all players.
Thank you very much for considering our concerns. We look forward to your prompt response and a resolution that allows all members of your community to engage positively with the game we all love.
Sincerely, A Dedicated and Concerned Fan
Subject: Concerns Regarding Bias and Moderation Issues in the Official Love and Deepspace Discord Server
Dear Love and Deepspace Customer Service Team,
I am reaching out to you to address ongoing concerns regarding the moderation practices in the official Love and Deepspace Discord server, particularly related to the handling of discussions surrounding the character Caleb and his fan community.
Since November, moderation has repeatedly displayed biases against Caleb fans. Initially, moderators outright banned and silenced Caleb fans who simply anticipated or discussed his release as a Love Interest. Caleb fans were denied a dedicated space for discussion, and even mentioning him in general channels or other character channels resulted in unjust bans and timeouts. Despite clear evidence hinting at Calebโs eventual release as a Love Interest, moderators dismissed these discussions, at times mockingly claiming Caleb was merely an NPC or villain.
These actions have significantly affected the community's morale and created a hostile environment for Caleb supporters. Recently, just before Caleb's highly anticipated limited Myth event, moderators again unfairly targeted active Caleb fans, including myself. Moderators specifically searched through past messages to justify extended and unreasonable timeouts, misinterpreting messages as misinformation or moderation criticism, even when statements were factual or expressed genuine confusion over moderation practices.
Meanwhile, moderators have permitted suggestive and contentious content in other character channels, ignored hostility toward Caleb fans, and allowed misinformation and harassment aimed at Caleb supporters to continue unchecked. This clear inconsistency in rule enforcement reveals a troubling bias that damages community trust and cohesion.
Furthermore, this behavior disrespects the hard work, passion, and dedication of the game's developers, writers, voice actors, and artists, who have invested countless hours into creating Calebโs character, narrative, and content. The moderatorsโ biased practices undermine the inclusive environment that the Love and Deepspace team strives to foster. As a result, dedicated fans are being driven away from the official community, harming both player retention and the gameโs reputation.
I urge you to thoroughly review moderation practices and ensure fairness, transparency, and consistency for all fans, regardless of their preferred characters. Addressing this issue promptly will demonstrate your commitment to maintaining a welcoming and supportive community for all players and honoring the extensive effort put forth by your development and creative teams.
Thank you for your attention to this matter. I look forward to seeing improvements and your response.
Sincerely, A Dedicated and Concerned Fan
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Can you Reblog my pinned post from my blog or donate 10$?
By helping to reblog my story, you could
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Because everyone deserves to be told this
Reblog to tell the person you reblogged this from that they're doing an amazing job and you're proud of them.
"It all started when..."
I like to believe that Nahida is being Scaramoucheโs personal therapist every time I think about how he wounded up as Wanderer
Prim / Sona Yuki
"Don't worry, baby. No one's going to hurt you not when I'm here, ready to attack anyone who dares touch you or look at you that way"
HERE PRIM ISSS WOOHOOO
So Prim is her "Creator" name whereas Sona Yuki is her alias.
Pronouns are she/her, he/him, they/them
Prim's an aromantic
Biologically female
If she isn't the creator, she'd have a hydro or dendro vision.
Her weapon is a polearm (again, if playable)
She has red streaks in her hair as she did that as a joke, now she kind of (?) remembers Vox Akuma with the red streaks (I'm sorry Vox, ily <3)
She wears a silk blouse on top of her black sleeveless turtleneck
She wears rings and fishnet gloves
Somehow fucking emo, don't ask why
"It's not a phase, it's a lifestyle, BITCH" - Prim
Very flirty (usually for fan service)
She has a flirty personality due to going to cosplay events back in the real world, so she's used to being flirty, flirted upon and is used to people asking her for...regular cosplay things. (Not dirty, you hoes)
Somehow messy short hair (?) One bang covers her eyes cause she likes being a mysterious mf. This bitch [affectionately]
Has deep blue ocean eyes that sometimes changes into her natural hazel eyes.
Ocean blue eyes (as Sona Yuki)
Hazel Eyes (Prim)
Likes to keep flowers and stores them in her small box that she somehow brought with her in her black bag.
She's very fashionable af, but often dresses like an e-boy or e-girl.
When she's mad or when a situation goes out of hand, she remains quiet to avoid saying things she shouldn't say.
Somehow fucking patient and rarely raises her voice.
Can be your maternal-figure or sister-figure
When she's playful, her hands go to your neck and rests there.
If she likes a certain topic, she rambles. (Try telling her to shut up, I dare you)
If ever someone tells her to stop rambling, it breaks her excitement and she never does it again. (Try, you bastard)
Mommy and Daddy Issues
Has a fucking trauma that even her therapist can't help her
In her healing/self-love era
Trying to heal the traumatic scars
Has a dark humor often about her dead dad
Has a curvy figure. big hips big butt yk.
Her thighs are thick as well, lucky for those with thigh privileges.
Always wears this blue scrunchie a friend gave her which she cherishes deeply <3
Is aromantic but wants a gf/bf.
A green flag despite her trauma.
Sometimes acts like a man.
Often man spreads when sitting except when she wears skirts or shorts.
If she has an urge, she must do it.
Very affectionate when you're close to her, she even gives platonic kisses (not on the lips)
Often wears her black face mask (so if ever you want her to kiss you on the lips, expect a face mask to be the one blocking her actual lips.)
Very lazy but also hard working.
Don't scold her for laying down and doing nothing, she's recharging her social battery.
i'd rather seduce heizou ๐ฅฐ
Anotha one ๐ค mf was really hating on Ms. Ma'am for nooooothing. "She's goNna StEal tHE bOyS...." Like babes...bffr... As if she isn't constantly flirting w/ MC through the chats...mkay.
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Warning: some may be ooc and this is longer than the rest ajdjwanwkwkwkw. Enjoy!
masterlist
"The Day of the Festival"
Kaeya says before looking at Prim.
"Are you ready, my lady?"
He asks softly as Prim is trying to stop her shaking hands, admiring Prim's outfit.
"Don't remind her, she knows"
Diluc says as he comes downstairs, wearing something that nearly made Prim choke. (She likes seeing hot men/pretty boys in suits, it's her weakness. You're welcome ;D)
Kaeya smirks.
"Oh? But isn't it better to remind her?"
Prim screams mentally.
I forgot I'm surrounded by pretty men hnghhhh
She then notices Kaeya's outfit.
oh have mercyโ
"โyou ready, your grace?"
Diluc asks as he lends a hand out to Prim.
"m-mhm..."
FUCK THEY'RE SO HOT HNGHHH
She gently places her gloved hand on top of Diluc's before Kaeya snatches her other hand and they walk to the carriage.
"I must say, it's a new sight to behold, seeing you all dressed so formally."
Kaeya says as he eyes Prim, causing Diluc to smack the back of his head.
"Be respectful"
Diluc mutters as Prim's shaking hands are rubbing each other, the two notice it once more.
She can't calm down
They take her hands and gently squeeze it, causing Prim to squeak at the sudden cold and warm feeling.
"Calm down, if anything happens. We're here to make sure it'll go well"
Diluc says as Prim nods.
"Sorry, I justโum, don't do well when I know there's a crowded place."
Prim says as she mutters something under her breath as Kaeya perks up.
"We could reduce the citizens, yourโ"
"No, no, no, no, no. I don't wanna break their hearts, hahaโ"
Prim says as the two sigh.
"If the crowd's too overwhelming, look for one of us and we'll escort you away"
"Thank you"
"Anytime, Your Grace"
- - - - - >
While everyone's preparing the small stage, Prim gets taken aback by the dandelions near her.
Ah...
She gently reaches out to it before her heart aches.
I guess...this'll be my closure to you
She closes her eyes.
I hope you'll find happiness whether I'm there or not, I hope we'll both be happy and move on. You became a part of my chapter, it's time to flip the page. May we both find happiness and love, and be happy that the other is happy no matter what. No more hard feelings or malice, just pure joy.
She softly blows the dandelion, watching it fly to the air before walking away. A certain bard seems to have felt what had flown to the air.
"Your Grace, this is Venti. The bard that'll playโ"
"and Barbatos, the Anemo Archon"
"A-Ah, yes..."
Jean stutters, wondering how Prim knew but dared not to question it as Venti grins.
"It's a pleasure to finally meet you, Your Grace!"
Prim smiles softly.
"Likewise."
Venti takes Prim away while Diluc is staring at them, Kaeya chuckles and tells Diluc to relax.
"So, I felt the wind flow a bit differently today~"
Venti says as he picks up flowers for Prim who's sitting on a rock and watching him.
"Ah, so you felt it."
Was all Prim said, smiling softly. Venti's gaze softens at the sight of Prim being surrounded by crystal flies and her smile didn't have pain in it anymore.
She's letting go, that song will be her closure.
He softly smiles before weaving a flower crown for Prim who's preoccupied with the crystal flies.
"You know...the first time I felt your presence, I didn't know who it was at first. I was taken aback actually!"
Venti says as he continues weaving flower crowns, Prim watches his fingers do the weaving.
Ah, he weaves like how my cousin taught me...
"But you know, after seeing you help the Traveler, help the nations and went through all that...I can't help but feel grateful to you, for...for everything"
Venti says, Prim hums as she gently tucks a cecilia on Venti's ear.
"I'm glad you did the right thing, Barbatos. Whether you were a whisp or not, I'm just glad it's you."
She softly says as she kisses the top of his head, Venti gently holds her wrists before looking at her.
"You mean it?"
"I do. I know you hold the guilt of...all that, and I know. You don't have to say anything, but I'll always be proud of you. Whether you're a bard or an Archon, I'll cherish what you did for this nation."
Prim says softly as Venti gently places the flower crown on top of her head before hugging her gently.
"Thank you, Your Grace."
He says softly, pulling her close before they hear someone clear their throat.
"I'm afraid we have to cut that moment short, it's starting"
Albedo says as Prim gently pulls away from the hug and accepts Albedo's arm to hook her hand with, Venti lets out a small 'ehe' before following them.
"Your Grace, the program's starting already so you needn't be worried about missing out"
He says as Prim softly smiles, Venti watches her smile and his heart feels warm. He knew what that smile meant, the first time he saw her, he saw how her eyes held something he's afraid of asking. Yet the moment the dandelion was blown onto the wind, he knew that what that was is now in the past as she continues on in her journey.
After a while of the games and activities for the children and adults alike, it was time for the intermission as food is being served.
Prim nervously grabs her ukulele and walks up to the stage as she sits on the chair, with the help of Kaeya lifting her up so her skirt wouldn't ride up as he places a shawl on her lap so she wouldn't be uncomfortable with the dress's skirt, she clears her throat as she feels the nervousness settle in.
It's not your first time, it's okay.
There's people here who support you.
Whatever happens in this intermission, you just enjoy it.
Prim takes a deep breath before strumming her ukulele, Venti uses a little wind manipulation for everyone to hear the instrument being played and Prim's voice to be heard.
"Maybe it's the way you say my name"
Prim notices her hands shaking as she progresses from chord to chord but she ignores it.
"Maybe it's the way you play your game"
She remembers it all again, with this song was the one she always hesitated to play, the song that'll bring back unwanted memories.
"But it's so good, I've never known anybody like you...but it's so good, I've never dreamed of nobody like you"
She takes a deep breath and closes her eyes.
"And I've heard of a love that comes once in a lifetime, and I'm pretty sure that you are that love of mine...'cause"
Her mind is at ease now, the pain slowly stops gnawing her heart. And slowly, she finds it nice, that the pain is slowly leaving. That the closure she always wanted to get is finally settling in.
"I'm in a field of dandelions, wishing on every one that you'll be mine, mine and I see forever in your eyes, I feel okay when I see your smile, smile"
Out of everyone else, only Venti knew what it meant. Whether it was the wind that told him or the song, he's happy she's finally getting what she always wanted. To be able to accept something she knew she couldn't change even if she tried, to be able to finally leave a chapter in her story to move on from the past.
"Wishing on dandelions all of the time, praying to God that one day you'll be mine, wishing on dandelions all of the time, all of the time~"
- - - - >
They're now in Angel's Share, well, drinking except for Prim.
"You did amazing out there, Your Grace. You sound like a siren back there"
Kaeya says as he takes his shot of the alcoholic beverage as Prim drinks her fruit juice.
"Oh, Thank you..."
Prim says softly as her hands are still shaking from the performance, Venti of course is letting loose and drinking. Not that Prim minded.
"I do apologize for letting you see this side of them, Your Grace."
Diluc says as he continues to serve the drinks, making sure Prim still has the fruit juice beverage and not alcohol.
"It's okay, 'Luc. I'm used to handling drunkards so this sight is nothing new to me"
Prim says softly as she thanks him for pouring her glass more fruit juice, this statement makes Kaeya perk up.
"Oh? You know how to handle drunkards?"
He leans his cheek on his palm as he stares at Prim who's drinking her fruit juice.
"Hm? Yeah, I know how."
It was summer of May
Prim says in her head as she does an anime sweatdrop before Kaeya comes closer to her and Diluc had to grab the back of his collar.
"So you've seen all the worst of a drunk person?"
"Technically, yes. Even the most calmest and rational person I know was...just a surprising person when drunk"
Prim held back her laughter as she remember her one cousin who got drunk the first time, started saying things over and over again, did jumping jacks, danced weird and screamed Olivia Rodrigo's and Taylor Swift's songs at 5am, all in one night.
Kaeya smiles at Prim.
"Then you knew that some are veryy~ clingy when drunk, hm?"
Diluc groans, Kaeya's drunk flirting again as Prim didn't seem to mind it.
"Yeah, I've had someone...cling unto me when I said I'll go check on the others drunkards who went outside, had to reassure her I wouldn't leave her there."
She says, never forgetting the fact her cousin suddenly latched onto her when Prim grabbed her coat and said that she'll check on her older brother who left to go to the other house where they stay in, it was tough having someone be a clingy drunk get off you but Prim did it gently and kindly, knowing the alcohol is taking effect and was patient enough to tolerate it.
Her?
Was all that went through their minds before Kaeya got the chance to speak, Prim got up from her seat.
"I need to use the bathroom, where is it?"
Diluc escorts her to where the bathroom is like the gentleman he is.
"You know, I actually want to see her grace drunk"
Venti says as he's trying to get Albedo drunk but to no avail, Rosaria takes a sip from her glass.
"And you think it's a good idea?"
"Why not give it a shot! Who knows? She might actually be a clingy drunk, ehe~!"
Diluc comes back as Prim had now used the bathroom, he eyes Venti and Kaeya suspiciously as Rosaria continues to drink quietly, used to the antics of her two drinking buddies.
"I'm back, what did I miss?"
Prim softly asks as Albedo gently places his hands on her waist before lifting her up on the chair, knowing how Prim struggles on stools when wearing a dress and skirt.
"Thank you, Albedo"
She softly says as Albedo nods and kisses the back of her hand before heading back to his seat, which of course Venti starts to say he did that just to touch Prim.
All of a sudden, the three drinking buddies are quiet as Prim takes a sip of her fruit juice.
"Hm? What's gotten you all so quiet?"
Prim softly asks as she continues to sip, Kaeya shakes her head before drinking more wine and Venti follows through.
Three hours have passed, Prim decides to bring Kaeya home since he's too wasted.
"Your Grace, you don't feel dizzy or anything?"
Rosaria asks all of a sudden.
Hot cryo mommy hnghโ
Prim internally has a bi panic before smiling at Rosaria on the outside.
"Oh, I'm fine! Don't worry, I'll just bring Kaeya home so he can sober up easily."
Prim slings Kaeya's arm on her shoulder, her hand on his waist as she waves to the others goodbye before escorting Kaeya back home, to Dawn Winery.
As they leave the Tavern, Diluc cleans the glasses.
"You put alcohol in her drink, didn't you?"
Diluc asks as he glares down at Venti who lets out a small 'ehe' and looks away.
"What do you mean? Of course I did not~!"
Diluc sighs before Albedo speaks up.
"He did actually, almost emptied half a bottle for that."
"Half a bottโ"
Diluc feels a headache come in.
"I'm closing the tavern."
What if Her Grace gets in trouble? She could've passed out!
- - - - dawn winery - - - -
Prim sighs as Kaeya's finally on his bed, she then helps him take off his shoes and all.
"Kaeya, take a bath. You need to sober up"
She softly pats his cheek as he sits up and does what she said, Prim feels her mind get hazy so she quietly and carefully walks to her room.
That's weird, it felt like that time I accidentally drank real wine and got myself tipsy...
Prim takes a bath in her room to feel the alcohol go away.
A few hours later, Diluc enters the Winery and quickly knocks on Prim's door.
"Your Grace?"
He softly calls out as Prim opens her door, in her nightwear and her hair more free.
"Diluc? Welcome back, are you going for your Darknight Hero duties?"
"I just finished."
"I see..."
"Do you...feel tipsy perhaps?"
He hesitantly asks as Prim hums.
"Well, I felt like my mind was hazy but I'm still conscious so I took a bath to sober up. Hm, it was as if that time I did get a bit tipsy because my mom lied about the wine not having alcohol..."
Prim mumbles and Diluc perks up at that.
"Your Grace, are you sure you aren't drunk?"
"Hm? Well no. If I were drunk, I probably would've stumbled and slurred my words. Also, don't worry, it's not the first time I got tipsy"
That's not the point!
Diluc screams in his head as he gently cups Prim's cheeks.
"Diluc?"
She looks at him.
Holy shit, his hands are warm
"Your Grace, are you sure you aren't drunk?"
"Of course! Kaeya's worse though."
He sighs softly before nodding.
"Alright, I'll let you have your sleep now. Goodnight, Your Grace."
"Goodnight, Diluc"
we need more content about diluc and kaeya being absolutely feral as children. they'd wrestle on a nearly daily basis. sometimes it was born out of an actual fight but most times it was just for fun. they'd be bored out of their minds and look at each other from across the room and a mutual understanding would pass over them that they just need to battle to the death right now. diluc could overpower him in strength and weight but kaeya has always been better at strategies and dirty tricks (pulling his hair, tickling, biting his arm really hard)