i also think it’s so sad the way even the queer community upholds top/bottom, inferior/superior dichotomies because it genuinely interferes with people discovering and accepting their own identities. i have spoken with so many bottoms & pillow princesses who realized they were gay and then they expected sex to be enjoyable now that they were engaging in sex aligned with their sexuality, only to find they still felt uncomfortable during sex and they were like “maybe I’m not gay….” and when i asked about their experiences it turned out that they simply do not enjoy topping and when i told them “okay, so don’t top,” they were shocked by that because we apply moral value to giving and receiving acts of sex, in which givers are Generous and Good and receivers as Selfish and Bad.
Not to mention that bottoming IS still giving & providing a sexual act, which is enjoyed by the person topping. not everyone has to be a vers! There is no superior way to engage in sex!
Hey, DC-
You made such a big deal out of creating your first trans masc superhero.
Give him more than f%cking 3 comic appearances.
The most cool (as in calm, doesn't bothered easily. Infact it's realy hard to affect him I never thought he would care about a series so much)
The most cold person I know and respect him for being so chill.
He just used an 😭 emoji. He told me he never thought he would care so much he is heartbroken.
He's not very expressive about his emotions at all and he just did and I don't know how to react.
Is it really that bad???
you're awesome ❤️❤️❤️ love you
🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵 awwwww! Thanks, I needed that <3🩵
Love you, corpse <3. Best cannibalistic corpse I know.
Blitz is probably mixed, it's implied in the plot. And there aren't any rules to how mixed people should look like. It's possible they're the same type but look different if they're of a mixed breed.
And do you have any proof Fizzarolli is also mixed? I didn't see anyone mentioning that /Gen, I'm just curious.
From what I could understand there was no information about Fizz's parents or where he came from, correct me if I'm wrong. (I wish there was more information I'm dying to know)
Why the hell does Blitz have those weird spike things on his tail and back??? No one else has them. It might just be the type of Imp he is, (I think Striker called him a Bull Imp?) But Fizz is the same type and he doesn't have them???
Now that I'm finished with my fencing fic, which fic should I write next?
Idk mates I'm mostly going out with a vibe but I'm curious to see Tumblr's preference. I have like 20 fics ideas, this is just what I feel like the most right now.
I wanna be sillies.
Hello dead boy detectives fandom! Let's do something fun again.
Sorry for the last few, I didn't have enough space for everyone so I had to group a few characters.
I might be controversial, I know a lot of people don't like it, but in my opinion Crystal dresses the best 💜💜🖤. Post amnesia Crystal too. Her outfits are loud and weird but that's what I like about them.
Bravo if anyone picked any of the last 3 options! Interesting choices👏👏👏.
Please please someone help me figure this out.
I don't read a lot of marvel comics so I don't know what's happening there.
Why there are 2 different versions of America Chavez??
There is the 2017 run "America" where she has a grandmother and she's an alien she goes to her planet.
She has this whole experience.
But then in modern comics she's a child that was done experiments on??
WHY
Worst retcon I've ever seen.
Why did this happen? What happened?
Don't get me wrong I love her sister but what happened to the planet of lesbians? Why human?
Did the whole marvel universe been retconed in an event I'm not familiar with? Please someone help out here I'm lost.
I'm just trying to understand.
Can people stop making Damian homophobic just because he's the "brat" child?
His best friends are bi and ace his aunt is a lesbian and his adopted brother is also bi. Some of the people Damian loves the most are LGBTQIA.
Damian was such a good ally to Jon during DC pride 2022- he was ready to fight homophobes in the parade! Mostly because he wanted to fight in general but still he was ready to kick homophobic asses. Very ally of him if you ask me.
Stop with the homophobic Damian jokes, if anything Damian would dislike everyone equally and not because of who they are.
In my eyes this take on him is a very poor understanding of Damian's character.
Edit: It might be just me but I saw "jokes" that made Damian homophobic, especially towards Tim, and it just makes me irrationally mad.
Edit 2: sorry to the arrow fam fans for mentioning Connor, I know the 2021 is a poor interpretation of him and not very in character. It's still canon, and the pride issue was nice.
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Call me Rubèn!! Or Ru / Ben if we're friends.✡️🌈 no pronouns/he/they/it.Used to be multi fandom, mostly Dead Boy Detectives right now. I swear this account had other subjects before.Usually mostly DC but I spit out a lot of random fandoms shit.
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