tiny time in a tent ⛺️
with snacks n stuffies n fun activities 🖍💿
Ack I wan!! It looks soooo comfortinggg
All caregivers are important!!!
Caregivers come in all shapes and sizes and should be cherished for who they are and what they do for their kiddos and critters! If you have a caregiver, never be afraid to express how much they mean to you. Especially caregivers who:
✨ Caregivers who are eager to learn the ropes of nurturing their little ones
✨ Caregivers who aren’t comfortable being addressed with typical caregiver titles such as mommy or daddy
✨ Caregivers who prefer to be called something else other than caregiver
✨ Caregivers who are apprehensive of their performance but always excelling at taking care of their regressor/dreamer
✨ Caregivers who are in a long distance relationship with their regressor/dreamer
✨ Caregivers who are strictly platonic
✨ Caregivers who take care of multiple regressors/dreamers
✨ Caregivers who can only look after one regressor/dreamer at a time
✨ Caregivers who establish boundaries and take mental health breaks
✨ Caregivers who play the role of a sibling caretaker as opposed to a parental one
✨ Caregivers who reinforce the importance of self care and help their regressor/dreamer take better care of themselves
✨ Caregivers who regress/dream and wish to be taken care of as well
✨ Caregivers who suffer from mental health issues and seek comfort through caregiving
✨ Caregivers who are afraid of regressing/dreaming as they sense they need to take care of everyone, but are deserving of being cared for just like anybody else
✨ Caregivers who are always excited to take care of their regressor/dreamer
✨ Caregivers who are fairly new to caregiving but are trying their very best
✨ Caregivers who have their own unique approach to caregiving
✨ Caregivers who cannot provide for their regressor/dreamer physically but supports them no matter what
Rock slime agere mood board!
i think in general, it would be nice for the agere community to remember that age regression is primarily associated with abused or traumatized children as both a natural coping mechanism and a reflection of developmental delays
and this is to say that everyone can regress, absolutely, but please have more kindness for regression being difficult for many. for a while now regressors like us have been thrown under terms like impure, vent, trauma, etc. and have been shoved out of tags and sent a message that our regression is secondary to the happy go lucky soft baby regression people want to see
and its fine if thats what you want. just have some compassion in your heart for the kids who are struggling. maybe your inner child is, too. for DID/OSDD littles who only exist because of trauma and often are dealing with a horrific reality.
regression IS difficult, upsetting, traumatizing, dysfunctional. it is also happy, fun, safe, rewarding. all of these things are true of regression and we dont need to separate it semantically. if you dont want to see the kids who are hurting, maybe unpack why that is. and if youre hurting, youre not impure or whatever other term people come up with to section you off with
love yourselves and others in turn, and it'll make for a better community :}
- mama K
I was just thinking and the difference between big me and little me are very different
Big me is grungy, rocker, hippie, hobo with a some of my little side. I'm talkative, laid back, messy but put together, and more dominant
Little me is similar but softer, pigtails, skirts, croptops. I'm quiet, whiney, clingy, cuddly, and submissive like no other
At the end of the day, I always feel little. I get off work or school and pop a paci in my mouth and take off my pants and put on a big shirt or jacky. I guess it's more just the fact that I'm in a public place where I have to be big so I try my hardest to push my little side away as to not embarrass myself or feel vulnerable. It makes me confused and feel like I'm constantly lying to people about who I am, but it's also something I need to figure out. It'll take time and patience ig
Day 20: A moodboard based on your gender
Transmasc demiboy
It’s okay if all you did today was play games.
It’s okay if all you did today was sleep.
It’s okay if all you did today was get dressed.
It’s okay if all you did today was wake up.
We all heal in different ways, and there are days that are harder than others. That doesn’t mean you didn’t try, or that you’re lazy, or that you’re worthless.
Everything you do on a hard day is an act of bravery. Everything you do is wonderful, and I love you for it.
lesser spoken about agere things !
- tantrums/meltdowns
- being bratty because of a sensory issue
- crying
- negative triggers putting you in a headspace
a friendly reminder that not all regression is happy sunshine and rainbows ! i wish they were.
regressors are basically children, and just like children, regressors can cry and have a tantrum if things don't go their way. we're not all bratty because it's fun (and it is fun to be bratty sometimes 🤭), sometimes we're bratty because something is really bothering us. please don't just mark it off as brattiness and punish us, look into it ! something could be hurting your little.